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59 F Lincoln, NE

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Last Online
Yesterday – 4:20am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
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Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Looking for friends and new adventures. My current hobbies include gardening, painting (watercolor), drawing, and playing guitar, ukulele and just started teaching myself banjo. StIll workIng on the banjo. Bought a vIolIn a couple weeks ago. I always wanted to learn to play, so why not!

I work as a paralegal in a law firm and am primarily using the left side of my brain (analytical), so on my own time I find it healthy to entertain the right side of my brain (creative).

I also enjoy a variety of outdoor activities (hiking, bicycling, camping, canoeing, whitewater rafting) even though some of my joints don't. An old skiing injury has been getting the upper hand lately.

I am smart, funny, and always learning.

Animals have always been a big part of my life. I lean towards cats (have one) because they are somewhat less demanding. I love dogs and have owned them in the past even though I am highly allergic. It takes a while for me to develop a tolerance to being around new cats or dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
Like I said, I work as a paralegal. I recently started working on my art again and wonder why I ever stopped. Being creative, whether it is with graphite, pigment or garden soil enriches the soul and keeps me sane.

Went to Spain by myself and spend 10 days in Barcelona. I soooo wish I could be back there now. Digital cameras are the best, otherwise I would have spent a fortune in film.
I’m really good at
listening to other people. I find myself caring more than is good for me. I'm also good at finding humor in just about any situation, even if it isn't appropriate or appreciated. I'm also a pretty decent cook. I also enjoy gardening and seem to be somewhat successful when nature cooperates. I participate in a weekly art group that is my therapy. My watercolor paintings and drawings are decent.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet. I don't chatter endlessly and really have little tolerance for talking just to fill the time. I tend to keep my observations to myself, at least until I have assessed my audience.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I do like to read, I recently got a Nook and love it. Currently hooked on anything written by Ken Follett. Other recent books have been "Water for Elephants," "In the Company of the Courtesan.

Books that I have read and/or re-read: Amy Tan's books, Three Cups of Tea (and was sadly disappointed to learn it is likely a ruse), The Kite Runner, John Steinbeck, The End of Iraq (excellent assessment of the situation), The Fountainhead, Atlas Shrugged (not a Rand-head), Richard Dawkins' books, ...

I have an interest in current events and the state of the world.

I like thought-provoking movies, I'm a sucker for a good story and enjoy most genres other than horror. I'm not the squeamish type, but I don't like seeing people or animals being diced up.

Food-wise, I'm always up for trying something new. I like sushi, thai, indian, morrocan, korean, vietnamese, middle eastern, well you get the idea. I am endeavoring to eat healthy. While I am an omnivore, I often to eat a couple of meatless meals a day.

My music tastes are eclectic, but lately I'm drawn to jazz. A sampling from my IPod: Boz Scaggs (huge fan), Los Ojos de Brujo (fantastic!), David Sanborn, the Eagles, the Rippingtons, Miles Davis, Nat King Cole, Patsy Cline, the Pretenders, ELO, ....

New music likes: Gangstagrass (think theme to "Justified"), Gotan Project, Lady Gaga.

Recently, I have been creating my own music with a small group of friends. We get together and practice our ukuleles. We have performed at a few private events.

Podcasts I enjoy: Slate Daily, Dan Carlin's Common Sense & Hardcore History, NPR, PRI Selected Shorts, The Moth, This American Life,...
The six things I could never do without
My cat, Marty; sunshine; curiosity; science; critical thinking; art; music.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Getting my mother's house ready for sale. I am seriously concerned about the world at large, politics, environment, and the incessant need people have to cause each other harm. Cruelty is not to be tolerated.
On a typical Friday night I am
Painting, getting a garden project rolling for the weekend, practicing my music or kicking back with a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Umm, I'm not good at exposing myself to an unknown audience (unless I have a musical instrument as my shield). If the reader and I become friends, I'll confide some secrets.

I like s dash of pepper in my oatmeal.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 48–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
You should message me if
you want to be with a woman who can think for herself and is not afraid to talk back.