I'm a balance of sweet house wife'y wholesomeness and quirky poly tripper fierceness. i have TONS of interests and hobbies ranging from artsy fartsy stuff to hiking and rock climbing to festy'ing, dancing, baking, giggling, playing with stuffed animals etc etc etc. i think that perhaps. . . it is best to simply give an intro online but really get to know some one in person.
oh yeah. . . and my partner is bay_wolf You dont need to date him (duh) but if things continue on a regular basis it helps if every one gets along with each other.
also. . . my beautiful room mate is mrseabear
It really really helps if you are some one who is comfortable with group poly dynamics. i have a busy life and it is impossible to compartmentalize my free time. i like big family dinners, board game nights and posse adventures. And please don't feel blown off if scheduling is tough! If I wanna blow you off ill just say "no thank you"
Also... Living nearby for easy relaxed dates is a HUGE plus.