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30 San Francisco, CA Man


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  • Ages 21–32
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Last online
Yesterday – 4:09pm
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Likes dogs and likes cats
My self-summary
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Writer, reformed hooligan, often seen having alarming surreal conversations around tenderloin dive bar jukeboxes. Extroverted and often accused of charisma, but known for some internalization. A work in progress.

I'm not in tech! SHOCKING.

New York ex-pat. Also lived in LA (hated it, for the cliche reasons) and Atlanta (loved it, for ridiculous reasons).

Note: most of my questions were answered drunk and/or listening to Biggie, so...grain of salt.
What I’m doing with my life
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I get the beginning and end of a novel finished and I realized I have no idea what to do in the middle. I'm not sure what people do in the middle of things. I presume they just screw a lot and talk about their favorite scenes in Don DeLillo's "White Noise" (obviously the air crash).

Well, anyway, I'm working on it.

You can find me enjoying the circumambulations of being an urban dweller -- I'm a city boy, deep in the blood. Skyscrapers over mountains, dive bars over campsites kinda guy.

I write a lot of poetry (barf city, I know) but it's not what you think. My last two pieces to get published were respectively one about how Dwight D. Eisenhower was a servant of the Old Ones (and also possibly Jonathan Lethem) and the other one was an examination of all the names of spider's legs. Wait, why am I justifying art? ALL IS OBLIVION!
I’m really good at
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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Hal Hartley, Martin Scorcese, Wim Wenders, Werner Herzog, John Waters, David Fincher, David Lynch, Woody Allen, Federico Fellini, Andrei Tarkovsky, Nicholas Winding Refn, Orson Welles, Jim Jarmusch, Pedro Almodóvar, etc.

Don DeLillo, Jeff Vandermeer, Hunter S. Thompson, Kenneth Patchen, Thomas Pynchon, Warren Ellis, Richard Stark, Philip K. Dick, Joan Didion, Grant Morrison, Lev Grossman, Jim Thompson, Elmore Leonard, Lois McMaster Bujold, Joe Hill, Craig Clevenger, George Orwell, Iain M. Banks, Cormac McCarthy, Rudolph Wurlitzer, China Mieville, Jonathan Lethem, Lauren Beukes, Frank Herbert, Charlie Huston, Ann Lecke, Ursula LeGuin, Thomas Harris, Bret Easton Ellis, Zbigniew Herbert, William S. Burroughs, Ted Berrigan, Soseki Natsume.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
"Eschew the monumental. Shun the epic. All the guys who can paint great big pictures can paint great small ones."
- Ernest Hemingway
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How much of my carry-over NYC nature sabotages my attempts to date in SF.

I deeply hated my time in Los Angeles, but I'm oddly successful at dating people from Los Angeles.

The only sport I like is boxing. I think it's because it has a less confined hierarchy of rules and no unnecessary tools, so it feels like a more pure physical contest, you know? Plus, it's just nice to watch people beat the shit out of each other. Bread and circuses. I'd be into baseball if they went after each other with the bats. You know, I really should take that out, except I actually think that. I would fucking love if baseball was all about savage pummeling. Then I could make jokes about Walter Hill movies.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
well, it's Friday night right now and I'm drinking a half-full glass of angel's envy and listening to the Danger 5 soundtrack, so apparently I'm tearing excitement a new asshole
You should message me if
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you fucking love movies

or you miss the old postlapsarian san francisco