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45 London, UK Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35-54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:05pm
5' 9" (1.75m)
Body Type
Doesn’t have kids
English, Hindi, French, Spanish
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm (relatively not rocket science) intelligent, open-minded, adventurous and less-than-many inhibited (rather depends on the company that one). I'm playful and affectionate, appreciative of the absurd, revel in a bit of rough and tumble and enjoy silver linings..

I like to be taken by surprise and enjoy exploring usually-hidden or obscure places - if you've had the pleasure of a Punchdrunk experience then you'll have an idea. Show me a derelict building and I'll want to explore it.

I'm blessed with an optimistic and generous temperament; I expect the best from the people I meet, which more often than not elicits it. I have fabulous friends who astound me; I am inspired by my work and live in a stimulating and nourishing community (Brixton gets a bad rap). But my presence here is testimony to the fact that there is a crucial element missing from my life...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
To be continued... well, it is continuing and I'm busy living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Come on in and find out.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to ask them or find out for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows... I'm a fan of immersive theatre (when it works... when it doesn't it can be excruciating~!)... Punchdrunk, You me bum bum train (ridiculous name, genius concept and execution).

This question's a bit too big. And I'm not a fan of lists - except to help me remember to do things (if I remember to look at the list)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why... How... when... Questions, questions!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no such thing as a typical Friday night. This Friday I'll be at the opera, next Friday I'll be at a festival. The one after, who knows. Etc, etc, etc.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are a quick-witted, free-thinking, versatile, cheeky and respectful man who is at ease and generous with himself and the world, who wants to play, explore and adventure; a man who will push my boundaries whilst also respecting them and me. Ideally a man who has the wherewithall to meet my many aspects, who meets and matches my intellect, who is sensitive enough to 'get' my contrariness and vulnerability when they surface.

Lists here are a little dangerous - but I've started so I may as well continue... there are one or two qualities which, at the risk of sounding trite, I do consider essential... Integrity is top of the list (pretty much a given for everyone I imagine, but hey ho); combine that with kindness, consideration, a wicked and at times irreverent sense of humour; the ability to swoop from silliness to seriousness and back again; , lust for life - and for me - , and I'll like you for sure. Beyond liking it's a mystery still to me...

... but the one who lights my fire (another vital component) will almost certainly be utterly other than I could have anticipated or imagined, so come on in and surprise me...

(perhaps I should have begun this by saying 'not for the faint-hearted')