Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm (relatively not rocket science) intelligent, open-minded,
adventurous and less-than-many inhibited (rather depends on the
company that one). I'm playful and affectionate, appreciative of
the absurd, revel in a bit of rough and tumble and enjoy silver
I like to be taken by surprise and enjoy exploring usually-hidden
or obscure places - if you've had the pleasure of a Punchdrunk
experience then you'll have an idea. Show me a derelict building
and I'll want to explore it.
I'm blessed with an optimistic and generous temperament; I expect
the best from the people I meet, which more often than not elicits
it. I have fabulous friends who astound me; I am inspired by my
work and live in a stimulating and nourishing community (Brixton
gets a bad rap). But my presence here is testimony to the fact that
there is a crucial element missing from my life...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
To be continued... well, it is continuing and I'm busy living it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'll have to ask them or find out for yourself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Shows... I'm a fan of immersive theatre (when it works... when it
doesn't it can be excruciating~!)... Punchdrunk, You me bum bum
train (ridiculous name, genius concept and execution).
This question's a bit too big. And I'm not a fan of lists - except
to help me remember to do things (if I remember to look at the
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why... How... when... Questions, questions!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There's no such thing as a typical Friday night. This Friday I'll
be at the opera, next Friday I'll be at a festival. The one after,
who knows. Etc, etc, etc.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are a quick-witted, free-thinking, versatile, cheeky and
respectful man who is at ease and generous with himself and the
world, who wants to play, explore and adventure; a man who will
push my boundaries whilst also respecting them and me. Ideally a
man who has the wherewithall to meet my many aspects, who meets and
matches my intellect, who is sensitive enough to 'get' my
contrariness and vulnerability when they surface.
Lists here are a little dangerous - but I've started so I may as
well continue... there are one or two qualities which, at the risk
of sounding trite, I do consider essential... Integrity is top of
the list (pretty much a given for everyone I imagine, but hey ho);
combine that with kindness, consideration, a wicked and at times
irreverent sense of humour; the ability to swoop from silliness to
seriousness and back again; , lust for life - and for me - , and
I'll like you for sure. Beyond liking it's a mystery still to
... but the one who lights my fire (another vital component) will
almost certainly be utterly other than I could have anticipated or
imagined, so come on in and surprise me...
(perhaps I should have begun this by saying 'not for the
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