Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are a quick-witted, free-thinking, versatile, cheeky and
respectful man who is at ease and generous with himself and the
world, who wants to play, explore and adventure; a man who will
push my boundaries whilst also respecting them and me. Ideally a
man who has the wherewithall to meet my many aspects, who meets and
matches my intellect, who is sensitive enough to 'get' my
contrariness and vulnerability when they surface.
Lists here are a little dangerous - but I've started so I may as
well continue... there are one or two qualities which, at the risk
of sounding trite, I do consider essential... Integrity is top of
the list (pretty much a given for everyone I imagine, but hey ho);
combine that with kindness, consideration, a wicked and at times
irreverent sense of humour; the ability to swoop from silliness to
seriousness and back again; , lust for life - and for me - , and
I'll like you for sure. Beyond liking it's a mystery still to
... but the one who lights my fire (another vital component) will
almost certainly be utterly other than I could have anticipated or
imagined, so come on in and surprise me...
(perhaps I should have begun this by saying 'not for the