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39 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 27
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other

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My self-summary
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Loyal, Mischievous, Irreverent.

I enjoy jogging in the park and hiking. Also like to have friends over for a poker game or dinner party. I love going to AAA baseball games.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a fiction writer whose work has been published in magazines you've heard of. I also run my own holistic health business, helping clients to improve their energy and clarity and reach their health goals. I'm passionate about what I do, both writing and health-coaching. I'm planning on starting to travel more.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a good listener with a dark sense of humor. I make a great plum torte with almond crust. I'm good at arriving to formal events late and getting people to hang out on the rooftop. I can do yoga poses that no one else can do.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My invisible jet.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: Chinese, Thai, Vietnamese, Indian. Broccoli Rabe, Bok Choy. Dark greens. Dark chocolate. Marzipan.

Music: The World Cafe and The Alternate Side. The Pixies, Arcade Fire. Krishna Das, classic Nirvana, Depeche Mode and Guns N Roses. I sometimes listen to Z-100 but aspire to know things about classical music and jazz. So far I like Vanessa Mae and Otis Redding. Bonus points to those who can teach me more :)

Books: Gogol, Kafka, Thomas Bernhard, George Saunders, Philip Roth, Isaac Babel. Guy de Maupassant, Sam Lipsyte, Haruki Murakami. Raymond Chandler, Ray Bradbury.

Movies: Woody Allen. Anything except chick flicks. Except a few chick flicks, like Gladiator, Lord of the Rings, and Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. I have a soft spot for forbidden love.

TV: I don't have one, but I love the Colbert Report and the Daily Show and I liked Seinfeld.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Spicy food.
Halvah, the kind actually from Lebanon with the root in it.
My friends and family.
Mountains, lakes, hiking.
Notebook and a blue Pilot ink gel pen.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What it means to have something 'in common' with someone.

The trillion-dollar titanium mines we discovered in Afghanistan.

Why did communism fail, when it works so well at the Park Slope Food Coop?

How and why thought affects matter.

Whether I'm a bad person for putting characters who resemble my relatives and have their flaws in my fiction. (I am).

Why airlines play Christmas music on the airplane on Christmas day even though it's a trapped secular audience.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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O positive.
You should message me if
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You're fun, smart, nice, and a bit on the weird side.