Us men have similar concerns, most men want to be appreciated for who they are and not for what they can give you, a higher quality of life, etc.
I can assure you, at this point in my life, I am looking for something meaningful and I'm fully aware that such doesn't happen immediately. I will however let you know rather immediately whether I think we are a match or not and whether we should explore the possibilities between us. I don't believe in, nor am I interested in leading anyone on just to enjoy their company temporarily since such only results in the inevitable frustration and stress for both of us. I'm in no way interested in hurting anyone or being hurt.
I'm simply open to exploring the possibilities if any, with someone in a natural unhurried manner.
If most all of what I shared resonates with you, I look forward to having more mutual sharing between us, otherwise, I do wish everyone the best in finding and having what they seek in another.