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36 M Venice, CA

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and wants more
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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J e s s e✌

Single Dad with a brilliant, creative, wild eyed and care free little dude who is 7. We live in Venice half a block from the beach.

I'm as active as humanly possible with my crazy schedule.. I run/bike on the beach, hike, skate, climb, surf, practice yoga and martial arts. We go camping whenever possible..Yosemite, Big Sur, Joshua Tree or take a last minute break to Malibu for the night.

I am a hairdresser and i also work in commercial real estate as well as designing children's clothing. I'm constantly cultivating crazy new ideas.. it's kind of what I do..
You may have noticed--I am obsessed with music, books, film and art. I play different instruments, and I sing uncontrolably.

I grew up in San Francisco in the inner Richmond/Haight Ashbury area. I have three sisters in the bay area, so we drive up a lot.

I love cooking experiments. Mostly vegetarian. I haven't committed to vegan yet but it's coming.. We are at the farmers market every week. Avacados ♡

This is kind of personal but I think transparency in this case is warranted.... My son's Mom passed when he was a year old. It was devestating and a very difficult transition. It's been over 6 years and we are happy and complete:-) I have grown SO much deeper from this experience..
His Nana lives close by and loves spending time with him. She scoops him up Thursday after school and keeps him over the weekend. He loves gardening with her. So this opens up those evenings for me to go out, or just chill at home.

I'm hoping to meet inspired, interesting people to hang out and create with.

As far as what i'm looking for in a relationship:: Someone with big heart, tough, funny, gets my dry humor, has a wild imagination, who lives in gratitude and appreciation for what she has, lives in the present, embraces the unknown, is passionate and creative in their work, lives to help others, and our planet, communicates well, doesn't harbor resentments, is introspective, shares many of the same interests, is curious, loves to read, likes the rosebowl, relatively similar taste in music would be cool, and loves animals, and children.
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing (not weed). Listening. Loving. Being creative.
I’m really good at
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Being authentic. Showing up. Music. Doing hair. Finding gems at flea markets. Making lists. Making fun of myself..and others. Getting lost. Making salads. Making up words. Mario Kart. Doodling. Untangling my headphones. Recycling. Foot massages
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Beatles, Stones, Zombies, VelvetUnderground, LouReed, NeilYoung, HarryNilsson, BigStar, RoyOrbison, TheCure, FleetwoodMac, GillianWelch, DjangoReinhardt, MilesDavis, BoDiddley, SlyAndTheFamilyStone, JamesBrown, TownsVanZandt, Donovan, Kinks, PublicEnemy, RobertJohnson, MuddyWaters, LittleRichard, Ramones, Creation, JohnnyThunders, Leadbelly, MichaelHurley, RichieValens, ModernLovers, ChambersBrothers, Stooges, Dylan, Bowie, T-Rex, Pulp, TommyJames&Shondells, TheSeeds, LeonardCohen, BertJansch, JoeMeek, TameImpala, PatsyCline, LindaRondstadt, HankWilliams, SamCooke, EverlyBrothers, AlGreen, Temptations, EttaJames, BillieHoliday, NinaHagen, NinaSimone, DollyParton, Carpenters, BuddyHolly, KimFowley, BlindWillieMcTell, SydBarrett, Jimi, Love, WalkerBrothers, FrankiValli, AliceCooper, Troggs, NewYorkDolls, FlaminGroovies, Spacemen3, Sabbath, Zep, Queen, LittleDragon, TerryRiley, TheFall, CrystalCastles, Cold Cave, SamTheShamAndThePaharoahs, WhiteFence, TySegall, The OhSees, PandaBear, AnimalCollective, TheGrowlers, GuidedByVoices, Mummies, Heart, Vaselines, Saints, Zeros, DeadBoys, Clash, LordsOfTheNewChurch, PsychicTV, Jane'sAddiction, GunsNRoses, Television, DrDre, LinkWray, DelShannon, Elvis, EddieCochran, Otis, CaptainBeefheart, GeorgeHarrison, RaviShankar, BuffaloSpringfield, DelShannon, WandaJackson, JohnCale, SuziQuatro, CheapTrick, BeastieBoys, MCEiht, Snoop, JesusAndMaryChain, BeachBoys, Byrds, Band, WillieNelson, MazzyStar, CatStevens, RoxyMusic, Prince, Replacements, Pixies, Smiths, JoyDivision, NewOrder, Neu!, GaryNuman, DeadCanDance, Berlin, NinaHagan, Siouxie&TheBanshees, TelevisionPersonalities, Bauhaus, DM, SistersOfMercy, GoKartMotzart, Felt, Jellyfish, HumanLeague, Cars, JamesBrown, Suicide, ThrobbingGristle, VonHaze, CrystalStilts, RoyalTrux, Kills, BRMC, SilverApples, SunRa, SergeGainsbourg, FrancoisHardy, EnnioMorricone, NickDrake, LeeHazelwood, Nico, Outkast, TheMeters, 13thFloorElevators, Animals, Rascals, PrettyThings, TheWho, SmallFaces, SonicYouth, CicconeYouth, HuggyBear, PJHarvey, CCR, IggyPop, PattiSmith, Suede, DwightTwilley, TomPetty&Heartbreakers, TheBeat, Television, Runaways, GunClub, Cramps, X, BrianJonestownMassacre, Warlocks, SlickRick, TheAssociation, Astronauts, Ventures, ToddRundgren, SingaporeSling, MBV, WoodenShjips, BlackAngels, BlackLips, BeachHouse, RadioDept, Broadcast, SigurRos, Slowdive, AmonDuul ll, Ride, TheChurch, NeutralMilkHotel, GrizzlyBear, Verve, Spiritualized, XTC, MyBloodyValentine, Loop, Telescopes, Pastels, TeenageFanclub, YoLaTengo, ArielPink&HauntedGraffitti, KateBush, MoodyBlues, Them, TheCrystals, ShangriLas, Shirelles, LorettaLynn, DollyMixture, TelevisionPersonalities, StoneRoses, TheLa's, TheAllahLas, KingTuff, Buzzcocks, Fugazi, NickCave&BadSeeds, Can, Raveonettes, Air, WildNothing, Wilco, ScreaminJayHawkins, WestCoastExperimentalPopGroup, TalkingHeads, Easybeats, TheSweet, DustySpringfield, MilesDavis, Coltrane, Mingus, TheloniousMonk, SUN RA

50s rocknroll + doo wop, 60s pop and psych, 70s bubblegum, old blues , ragtime, or jazz on a rainy day ..KXLU, KCRW, NPR!, Classical.. Motzart, Bach, Chopin, Beethoven, Stravinsky, Tchaikovsky, Ravel

Henry Miller, Steinbeck, Twain, Poe, Rimbaud, Wilde, TSEliot, Dostiefsky, Nabokov, Novalis, DalaiLama, Blake, BlackElk, Wolfe, Baudelaire, Verlaine, StephenKing, Artaud, JeanJenet, Sun-Tzu, Corso, Murakami, RamDass, Rumi, Heschel, Jabes, Kerouac, Bukowski, Salinger, Ginsberg, Ferlinghetti, KennethYasuda, GeorgesBataille, Neruda, JimCarroll, KenKesey, AynRand, TomWolf, LewisCarroll, Dickens, CSLewis, DrSuess, ShelSilverstein, AldousHuxley, RobertLuisStevenson, JackLondon, KurtVonnegut, Vollmann, JosephConrad, HunterSThompson, OscarZetaAcosta, Palahniuk, GabrielGarciaMarquez, CollinWilson, Iceberg Slim, CornelWest, TennesseeWilliams, Hemmingway, Orwell, Kafka, HGWells, Hesse, Borges, Camus, HPLovecraft, Masoch, Freud, St.JohnPerse, Michaux, HarukiMurakami, MiyamotoMusashi, DorothyAllison, KathyAcker, AldousHuxley, Tolstoy, StephenHawking, RayBradbury, Brautigan, PhillipKDick, LeonardCohen, Lorca, PercyShelley, JohnRechy, TomRobbins, Masoch, ToniMorrison, AliceWalker, RitaMaeBrown, LaurenBecall, Milton, LaVey, Zinn, Giroux, Woody Gutherie, HarperLee, Neitzsche, EdnaStVincentMillay, Ballard, Homer, Proust, AnaisNin, DiPrima, GeorgeBernardShaw, DylanThomas, JackLondon, Plath (yep), AndreBreton, Celine, Burroughs, RichardHell, Heller, LesterBangs, JohnWaters, Frost, Rilke, NationalGeographic, Autobiographies, JustKids-PattiSmith, CrystalChildren, The Lost Book Of Enki, TheWarOfArt, Psychomagic-Jodorowsky, Popism-Warhol ..

Kubrick, Lynch, Polanski, Jodorowsky, Godard, Cassavettes, Fellini, Wood, Hitchcock, Argento, MichelangeloAntonioni, Aldrich, Scorsese, Coppola, Corman, DePalma, Raimi, Romero, TobeHooper, Kurosawa, HenriGeorgesClouzot, JoelCohen, Brothers Quay, Jarmuch, Newmeyer, Gilliam, Guest, RobReiner, VanSant, TodSollandz, HarmonyCorine, Bertolucci, Herzog, Rossellini, Nabakov, Tarkovsky, KennethAnger, PTAnderson, WesAnderson, JimHenson, DennisHopper, Waters, Price, RussMeyer, Steckler, KenRussel, Carax, SamPeckinpah, LarsVonTrier, AbelFerrara, OrsenWells, Chaplin, WoodyAllen, Altman, Cronenberg, OliverStone, Warhol, CityOfGod, GreyGardens, BlueVelvet, ElTopo, ClintEastwood, Xanadu, Dotandthe Kangaroo, Harold&Maude, Adaptation, Badlands, MarxBros. ,PaulNewman, WarrenBeatty, BelaLugosi, BetteDavis, PeterSellars, BillMurrey, FredWillard, CriterionCollection.. Earthlings, Food Inc, Sirius,
My son likes AdventureTime, RegularShow, Uncle Grandpa, SpiritedAway, Ponyo, anything HayaoMiyazaki.

Seinfeld, Three'sCompany, MiamiVice, FreshPrince, UnravelingTheCosmos, DarkShadows, FawltyTowers, GoldenGirls, CosbyShow, Roseanne, Columbo, TwinPeaks, X-files, TalesFromTheDarkside, TrueDetective, AmericanHorrorStory, Curb, BreakingBad, GameOfThrones, Orange/Black, BillMaher, TEDTalks, SurvivorMan, MyStrangeAddiction, TwilightZone, SpaceGhost, Lavern&Shirley..

Food:: Pho, Indian

Art:: Degenerate

Ansel Adams
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Son, dreams, love, friends, family, animals, nature, laughter, blue skies, clouds, rain, music, roadtrips, beach, sunglasses, picnics, bonfires, pillows, tea/coffee/books (the smell of used bookstores), jokes, absurdity..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Truth/lies i tell myself
My childhood in SF
Letting go of thought
My son
My sisters
The appocolypse
Friends, family, strangers
Nachos from RealFoodDaily
How insane this world is
How fucked up our political system is
How we are all connected
Why am I still single?? 😿
Black holes
Vortex cabinets
What if's..
Places I want to go
The earth without humans🌱
The next ice age
Deep sea
I wish I was raised by wolves
Coast redwoods
How i can be better
What's for dinner
Tree houses
Who ate the raisens??
Unusual film/story ideas
Fantasia has no boundries
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dinner with friends
Playing music with friends
Bike rides
Home. Book. Tea
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I study Bujinkan ( it's a martial art)

I can't blow a bubble ..yet
You should message me if
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You aren't a flakey person.

💥Bonus points if you ride an 80s road bike or can skate.

Hopefully you won't have a picture with a mustache. Tiger pics are always cool..and yoga poses on top of a mountain.. Yeh..Toootaly;)

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