And if you don't like sexual exchange please again move on. I'm a mature sexual male and I have no time for hiding games of ego with the girls saying "i'm not easy" as my best friend says " it has nothing to do with being easy it's has to do with being happy!!"
Which is why I guess Japan has the world's highest suicide rate in the world. 4x's that of the U.S. WTF!? Japanese are way to fake thus their spirit's and mindset are not natural...thus sooo miserable. We see right through your tatemae game.
I'm a guy from the sunny side of Southern California San Diego! My job I'm a agricultural specialist for Cali.
I just arrived in Tokyo not so long ago so I'd like to meet some new friends especially a special lady.
I love the great out doors the beach especially surfing, body boarding, and camping.
If you can't tell I'm direct with my thoughts and feelings. With that said I live a Sex positive life style (means I'm sexual in character). There's no better way to relax than a good orgasm session. So if you're looking for a pen pal or some chump to send you 200 emails before meeting or someone idiot to do the idealized Tatemaenadishiko status courting you with a dinner bla bla bla that is not me. That's what's wrong with JP girls which then screws the JP guys so now look what you've done. Go down to Akihabara and well you get the picture. Sick twisted dark spirited harguroi people.. that don't know how to connect genuinely with another human being. kind of scary. ;-(
I like a women of passion woman that are mature and aren't caught up with self ego that can open and enjoy expressing her sexual side.
I lived in Germany 1 year, Africa 8 months (very sweet nice people) , Brazil I'm there every time I can get away. I like nice golden brown tans. It looks healthy and active very sexy on a lady. Speaking of sexy, I like a woman that is affectionate and passionate. Just so you know.
Well I'll be honest here.... I don't like the mentality here in Japan. I've noticed since I've been in Japan Japanese woman here seem very immature, judgmental and idealistic. I also notice things are a very fake. I don't like fake people. Fake people waste time and I don't have time to waste.
Actually a buddy of mine and I noticed that for Japanese woman the "Enemy" ratio is always through the roof and really high compared to other woman in the world. Why do Japanese always say their easy going and thoughtful everyone knows that is not the Japanese character at all. Japanese are anything but easy going. Sad but true.
Back home in Cali people really look into the hearts of each other no matter his color. I noticed that here in Japan people just look at the outside. It's not really my style, I am not shallow or a small hearted person at all nor am I some weak white guy that needs people to look at my image and say "oh you're kool". No no...I don't like racist people or countries sorry. If you need that kind of guy that a shallow image only racists pin head is ok... go date a Australian or British guy who needs his fragile ego stroked.
And if you have not or would not dated a black guy. You probably don't have the size of heart nor consciousness of mind and spirit that I'm looking for in a partner. And I mean that!
How can I marry a racist woman that will raise my children as American's that is so uneducated and so brainwashed by JP society that she can look down at a group of people (American black people). A group that without them Japanese woman would have and would be nothing!!! You actually believe that without African American's sacrifices Japanese men would have just naturally recognized you? Come on be honest....NO WAY!! Without the strength and the movement started by our African American's back in the States. Japanese men would have shoved you under the carpet and labeled it as "Beautiful Japanese culture that has stood for thousands of years" and you'd be pouring tea and getting fucked in boardrooms during and after office hours. How can people here NOT make that connection or better yet ignore it!!? It's disgusting!
Interesting the Director of investment to Japan from California just cut froze major investment to Japan. In a meeting I asked him why. He said "Why should American's support a Country that doesn't them." before I didn't understand and I would have disagreed but now... I get it. And the director is black and white.
If I see one more idiot "I want a Caucasian / white man blue eyes bla bla " I'm going to get sick! What is that? Or that your trying to associate yourself with a group of people and your not even white yourself. And to top it off you think you'll be the choice to raise my child!? An American child that needs to be perfectly balanced?? Unbelievable!
I need a woman of a balanced mind and heart to help bring balance to me again. I feel that my core values of embracing people are under constant attack here in Japan. The United States taught me tolerance, acceptance, love and inclusion. Japan teaches judgment, racism, and exclusionism. There is nothing kool about it. It's scary. Racism is at Japans core value. Not mine!
I live in the now and plan for tomorrow. It kind of scares me when people say "tomorrow, next week, etc. " The idea of tomorrow is an illusion only the moment of "now, this very moment" is reality. I see it all the time people spend their whole life saying next time, next time, next time, then one day wake up in their 40's and life has already drifted by. That WON'T be me.
Anyhow....I'm NOT looking for the perfect woman...no way...I'm just looking for the woman that is the perfect fit for me. So it's simple...if you're sexual, mature, have a good head on your shoulders, and not racist. And if your ready to have a serious guy Let's get to know each other.