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37 Laurel, MD Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Black, Native American, White
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Has kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
***If your page is blank, I will not usually take the time to respond. Your attractive appearance is desirable, but "getting to know you" is even moreso, in my opinion. And yes, I believe that process can begin online***

NOTE: My profile says "single" because I am actually single. I am not in a relationship, I do not have exes hanging around that I hook up with, I do not have to get anyone's permission to talk to you, nor do I have to hide a new friend from anyone. Should any of this change, I would let you know when we talk.
If you wish to meet me and/or pursue something with me, please be single as well. There seems to be an abundance of people on here who are very "interested", but when the time comes to enjoy one another's company, all of sudden they start playing hide n seek. If you are interested in me romantically, but not available (physically OR emotionally), please pass me by. Being busy is something i resonate with completely, but there is a difference in being unavailable and just not showing interest. Thank you.

I am a bonified book-worm, I love music and have grand designs for traveling.

I should note that I am looking for and interested in a GENTLEMAN. I am a pretty reserved woman, with the desire to be considered a lady...and I do deem it very important. With that said, I am also fun-loving and love to laugh. Every day :-)

I am a Minister's daughter (and granddaughter and niece and cousin and sister lol) and have a heavy reliance on my spirituality. I acknowledge and accept my beliefs and also have an interest in hearing about others spiritual/religious journeys...but do not waver on what I believe to be true for myself. I am determined to be who God has destined me to be. What my faith looks like to you, I cannot do anything about...but I am not apologetic for what I believe, nor will I debate it.

I am a people-watcher with great intuition, and I have learned to trust my instincts...and heed them, despite what someone else may feel about it. I like to be out and about meeting new people, having great conversations and overall fun times, but also crave solitude and personal fulfillment quite often.

I enjoy reading, listening to music and cruising movies on Netflix.
I do not necessarily "look" for anything in a person...but find that I am open to fun, intelligent conversation and mutual attraction...which may then lead to chemistry...which may THEN lead to something more "serious". That is the ideal order for me.
I have always welcomed friendships, but have learned that there are too many people who do not understand what true friendship and unconditional love means. Luckily, I know that there are some out there that do...and have been fortunate to meet them as well!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
So, I needed to update a little bit.

Working and working! I am a Billing Specialist by day, and own a business called Melody's Sweet Dream by (day and) night. Currently my business is about providing people with beautiful crochet items, handmade jewelry and art, in order to share the beauty I see in the world with others. Visit me on IG @melodysweetdream or see some of my items at! :-)

I am still planning to move out of day. But for now, the plans have changed somewhat and I am waiting on the time that is right for me to move on.
At current pace, I am working full time, taking care of my awesome mini adults and trying to spend as much family time as I can handle lol.
I am creating art...with the goal of turning my passion(s) into my career. Again.
Still renewing...daily....and focusing on positivity and all the great things life may have to offer for now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am really good with my hands...
Fixing things, putting them together, crafts, hair, you name it I can handle it!
I can also sing, I bake, give great manicures and pedicures.
I am wonderful at being a friend, which is apparently not something most people consider necessary or a skill. It is a bit disconcerting to see how others will cast a "friend" aside for personal gains, judgments or prejudices. I am honest and straightforward, as well as caring. Communication may just be the most important quality!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The first thing people notice is probably my eyes...or so I've heard. And then my smile, should it happen to make an appearance. But I love to laugh, so if you can get some humor in...magic! lol
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I read a wide variety of things! So...I don't think I could put it all here. But I do find that fantasy/sci fi really holds my attention...especially the teen fictions, which seem to have more of a storyline.

Music is life. I LOVE music, real music. Most of the stuff that is out today has absolutely nothing to do with real music. I love The Beatles, Andre 3000, Fleetwood Mac, Journey, Etta James, QUEEN!!, Donny Hathaway, Jimi Hendrix, Bob Marley, James Morrison, Ryan Leslie, Chris Brown, Daley, Aerosmith, Estelle, Novel, Usher, Beyonce has range (in her voice), Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Coldplay, John Legend, Amy Winehouse, the old Lauryn Hill, Stevie Wonder, The Zombies, The Mamas and the Papas, The Carpenters, Jackson 5, Joan Jett, Heart, Imagine Dragons, Ellie Goulding, La Roux, Miguel, Yelle, The Bird and The Bee, Allen Stone, Prince, Glee singers.....SO many that it's hard to put them all.
Definitely something I can expound upon.
I will have to admit that I get stuck on a genre for a period of time, and my whole musical world revolves around that...and then it will switch to another one. Awesome <3

My two favorite movies are Love Jones and Romeo and Juliet.
After that, I like a WIDE variety of movies and genres. Examples of what I mean: Kill Bill(s), Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Ever After, 13 Going On Thirty, Black Coffee, Dumplings, The Host, just about anything with Johnny Depp, Gangs of New York, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series, The Stoning of Soraya M, Summer Lover, My Normal, Shutter Island, Brokedown Palace, The Fifth Element, many more. Horror, independent and foreign films are at the top of my list.
I am also extremely into supernatural, preternatural, vamp, fantasy and sci fi, but that mostly pertains to documentaries and shows.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God, music, my children, loyal friends, laughter, chemistry/attraction
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why so many people on this site put more than six things that they cannot do the section that says "The six things I could never do without". I seriously think about this every time I see it.

My business - Melody's Sweet Dream. Go check out my handmade to order items at
Follow me on IG: @melodysweetdream
Twitter: @melsweetdream
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Currently I am in the house creating, filling orders and purging all the negative vibes that try to invade on a daily basis...people can really wear you out. Luckily, my children are awesome and help me ignore the outside world quite often.
Occasionally something, or someone, will grab my attention and I will venture outside on a weekend and let loose.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you are interested in getting to know me. If I feel the mutual curiosity/desire to get to know you, then it will naturally proceed and we will start the "dance" lol.

If you think you are interesting, and that I am too, talk to me. :-)