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23 Rockingham, Australia Man, Transgender, Genderqueer

Man, Transgender, Genderqueer

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Is called Sean by his family, Sunshine by his friends. Identifies more with the latter. There is a long story behind the nickname.

Gender-Dysphoric, Pansexual, Agnostic, Rationalist Intellectual with Asperger's & a sweet tooth.

Submissive Masochist Crossdresser. Kinky as fuck.

Shy at first but loves to talk about anything & everything so long as the discussion is intelligent & non-confrontational. Dislikes rudeness. Sometimes refers to self in the third person- could be a sign of madness or just egotism.

Loves people- makes very little distinction between the four legged kind of people and the two legged kind. Finds the feline type easier to get along with.

Craves knowledge and new experience but doesn't always know where to look or how to get there.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Pushing the envelope and re-inventing the wheel. Dramatic re-structuring of the socio-industrial dynamic.....
I'm just messing with you. That stuff doesn't actually mean anything.

I am currently enjoying my new job as a business trainee at the local city council working on leases. I hope to study Psychology and Gender Studies at university next year.

In my spare time I game (PC & Tabletop), write, paint, draw, listen to music, talk to cats & read.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Critical Thinking.
Playing the Devil's Advocate.
Talking to Cats.
Wasting Time.
Being melancholic and slightly self obsessed.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have been told that I am "very left of center" which is apparently a good thing. I am generally considered pretty unusual. I am often shy at first and tend to appear a bit distracted at times. Apart from my general otherness I am pretty tall and have sort of out-of-control hair and intense blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love reading and devour books at a pretty fast rate. I also cannot go a day without listening to music without going crazy in the brain. I don't watch a lot of TV due to the various other demands on my time.

My 10 favourite Bands (For the Moment);
The Eels
Fever Ray
Big Blood
Sigur Ros
Sea Oleena

My favourite foods are Pizza, Chocolate, Pavlova & various Confectionaries. Vodka & Cider are my poisons of choice.

I love movies. Some of my favourite movies include;
Repo Men
Lord of War
Sucker Punch
The Thin Red Line
Fight Club
The Mist
The Avengers
Iron Man
Ender's Game
28 Days Later

When it comes to hobbies, I am generally into the following;
The SCA (Society of Creative Anachronism, basically ren fair stuff)
Pen & Paper Roleplay
Creative Writing
Tabletop Wargaming
Magic the Gathering
PC Gaming
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Stuff to do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I think about people a lot. I like to try and figure out what makes them tick, what they think about, how they think, what are their passions and experiences? What motivates them? Why do they behave the way they do?

I also spend a lot of time thinking about my gender issues. As someone who is gender dysphoric, I am not really content with the body I was born with. I often see pretty girls and envy them- I think to myself "why can't I look like that?". At times I feel like I want to burst out of this masculine body and emerge beautiful and feminine from my tired old cocoon of meat and skin.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Curing Cancer! Solving Famine and Poverty! Revolutionizing the world order! Re-inventing the wheel and outrunning Velociraptors!

..... Honestly, it varies. I have no current fixed friday night activity.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have gender issues & have struggled with depression for many years.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want someone to talk to? You want a friend who will always be honest with you and will always listen? I am open minded and love to meet new people so don't be shy!

Being a feminist, open-minded, sex-positive, tolerant, trans/lgbt friendly, etc are basic requirements for being a good person so are basic requirements for being my friend. If you don't believe in equality and consent I am not interested in you.