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26 • Seattle, WA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 17
- Black, Native American, White
- 6′ 0″ (1.83m)
- Body type
- Other, and laughing about it
- Libra, and it’s fun to think about
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English, C++ (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
I've lived in the Seattle for about four years, and I'm finally starting to break out of my shell and really driving myself towards my dreams. Beyond that, though, in my downtime, I'd like to find someone to play with. Obviously, from the top part of that, I'm talking about kinky fun for the *most* part, but...
Well, I'm also the type who enjoys spending hours on end coding a game or writing. I'm the type who enjoys bellowing cheese translated Japanese songs out with others. Bad Religion's Oozin' Ahs melt my soul, and finding a partner to sing The Defense with is a quick way to end up with me falling in love or platonilove with you.
(Yes. Platonilove. It's a thing. Deal with it.)
I'm a bit crass, but I try to have a good soul. I'm always driving myself to be a better man today than I was yesterday.
As for why you note that I don't say anything about looking for a relationship..... well, I've noticed something. Whenever I looked for a relationship, or intended to date someone and met them for that person, eventually it just sorta turned ugly eventually or petered out extremely quickly. My most passionate, loving, and emotionally connected relationships have always evolved from friendship (Or friendship with benefits) naturally.
So, uh, I guess... If you wanna be my lover, you gotta be in my life for a while.
Additionally, while I tend to keep my cool most of the time, bigotry in any form pisses me off. Misogynists, Misandrists, Racists, transphobics, and all those who oppress others. I'll admit to a small amount of hypocracy; for a while I had a problem with religious people, but my best friend and the Pope helped me overcome that.
Er. I don't mean I literally met the Pope. I mean he's a pretty fuckin' cool guy.
PLEASE NOTE: If I'm outside the age range you're looking for, I will NOT initiate the conversation even if I want to. If you're stating your age preference just for a preference, and curious about me even though I'm outside it, drop me a line.
I'm also an art of learning; With some (artistic) exceptions it's always been extremely difficult for me to get great at anything, but I'm supremely good at quickly rising to the level of 'competent' at any skill or ability that I feel the need to.
Public Speaking and Performing (kind of); On one hand, I have a small stutter as I tend to trip over my own words. On the other hand, I love to be the center of attention and have everyone's eyes on me, and I absolutely LOVE to play the crowd.
The fact that I can be both quiet, calm, sober and completely logical and reasoning at times...
And then filled with manic heat and passion and energy at other times.
Books: The Discworld series by Terry Prachett and the Riftwar Saga by Raymond E. Feist
Movies: Scott Pilgrim vs. The World and Dogma
Shows: Star Trek Deep Space 9
Music: Zebrahead, I Fight Dragons, Kagerou Project, Savant, PrototypeRaptor, The Megas
Food: Pad Thai, Burgers with chipolte ketchup, hummus
My laptop and phone
Tea (Or coffee) (But really I prefer tea)
Headphones for music
The Heat of my own blood
+ You need to be a sex-positive feminist.
+ You don't describe yourself as 'normal'. I want to surround myself with the passionate, the wild, the mad, the creative, the fierce, the eccentric, the nerdy, the artistic. "Normal" is a synonym for "Interchangable", and if you're in my life, I want the mark you etch in my life and my memory to be a unique one, just as I promise to grind a new symbol on your soul.
If you want to be my friend:
+ DUDE/DUDETTE/GENDER IDENTITY WHO THERE'S NO DUDE VARIANT FOR, IT WOULD BE AWESOME IF YOU LIKED KAGEROU PROJECT OR BAD RELIGION
+ We should go to Gameworks in Seattle and play DDR.
+ Or maybe we should write something together? Like, take turns?
+ Do you cook, sir/madame/sirmadame/Non-Sir Non-Madame? If so, let's DO IT.
+ Kickbox/Wrestle? I could use someone to beat the hell out of/beat the hell out of me.
+ I need to finish making my team in Pokemon X so I can crush all you motherfuckers. And you fatherfuckers. And you non-parentfuckers. And you celibate people. I'm an equal oppertunity crusher.
If you want to be my girlfriend:
+ You really shouldn't try. See above. If we hit it off super well and fall in love we can declare it. See 'Friend' for now.
+ I'm polyamorous. Period.
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