I've lived in the Seattle for about four years, and I'm finally starting to break out of my shell and really driving myself towards my dreams. Beyond that, though, in my downtime, I'd like to find someone to play with. Obviously, from the top part of that, I'm talking about kinky fun for the *most* part, but...
Well, I'm also the type who enjoys spending hours on end coding a game or writing. I'm the type who enjoys bellowing cheese translated Japanese songs out with others. Bad Religion's Oozin' Ahs melt my soul, and finding a partner to sing The Defense with is a quick way to end up with me falling in love or platonilove with you.
(Yes. Platonilove. It's a thing. Deal with it.)
I'm a bit crass, but I try to have a good soul. I'm always driving myself to be a better man today than I was yesterday.
As for why you note that I don't say anything about looking for a relationship..... well, I've noticed something. Whenever I looked for a relationship, or intended to date someone and met them for that person, eventually it just sorta turned ugly eventually or petered out extremely quickly. My most passionate, loving, and emotionally connected relationships have always evolved from friendship (Or friendship with benefits) naturally.
So, uh, I guess... If you wanna be my lover, you gotta be in my life for a while.
Additionally, while I tend to keep my cool most of the time, bigotry in any form pisses me off. Misogynists, Misandrists, Racists, transphobics, and all those who oppress others. I'll admit to a small amount of hypocracy; for a while I had a problem with religious people, but my best friend and the Pope helped me overcome that.
Er. I don't mean I literally met the Pope. I mean he's a pretty fuckin' cool guy.
PLEASE NOTE: If I'm outside the age range you're looking for, I will NOT initiate the conversation even if I want to. If you're stating your age preference just for a preference, and curious about me even though I'm outside it, drop me a line.