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Sunslammer

25 M Seattle, WA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:26am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black, Native American, White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Administration
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, C++ (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a nerd. A dancer. A cook. A writer. A gamer. A kinky fellow.

Right now I'm "looking for" a friend with benefits for kinky sex and/or tantric sex. May as well just get that on the table and hide it under approximately zero layers. As such, keep that in mind; I want someone to touch, someone to play with, someone whose fist I can put in their hair over someone to come home to. Someone who I can kiss furiously and burn hot with and have fun for hours, edging eachother.

Beyond that, though, about me. I've lived in the Seattle for about four years, and I'm finally starting to break out of my shell and really driving myself towards my dreams. Beyond that, though, in my downtime, I'd like to find someone to play with. Obviously, from the top part of that, I'm talking about kinky fun for the *most* part, but...

Well, I'm also the type who enjoys spending hours on end coding a game or writing. I'm the type who enjoys bellowing cheese translated Japanese songs out with others. Bad Religion's Oozin' Ahs melt my soul, and finding a partner to sing The Defense with is a quick way to end up with me falling in love or platonilove with you.

(Yes. Platonilove. It's a thing. Deal with it.)

I'm a bit crass, but I try to have a good soul. I'm always driving myself to be a better man today than I was yesterday.

As for why you note that I don't say anything about looking for a relationship..... well, I've noticed something. Whenever I looked for a relationship, or intended to date someone and met them for that person, eventually it just sorta turned ugly eventually or petered out extremely quickly. My most passionate, loving, and emotionally connected relationships have always evolved from friendship (Or friendship with benefits) naturally.

So, uh, I guess... If you wanna be my lover, you gotta be in my life for a while.

Additionally, while I tend to keep my cool most of the time, bigotry in any form pisses me off. Misogynists, Misandrists, Racists, transphobics, and all those who oppress others. I'll admit to a small amount of hypocracy; for a while I had a problem with religious people, but my best friend and the Pope helped me overcome that.

Er. I don't mean I literally met the Pope. I mean he's a pretty fuckin' cool guy.

PLEASE NOTE: If I'm outside the age range you're looking for, I will NOT initiate the conversation even if I want to. If you're stating your age preference just for a preference, and curious about me even though I'm outside it, drop me a line.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working towards a game designer career, as well as a fiction and erotica writing career, not as a backup, but simultaneously.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm good at cooking, writing, storyweaving, entertaining the hell outta people, and all sorts of other things I'll get into later when doors close and the lights run low.

I'm also an art of learning; With some (artistic) exceptions it's always been extremely difficult for me to get great at anything, but I'm supremely good at quickly rising to the level of 'competent' at any skill or ability that I feel the need to.

Public Speaking and Performing (kind of); On one hand, I have a small stutter as I tend to trip over my own words. On the other hand, I love to be the center of attention and have everyone's eyes on me, and I absolutely LOVE to play the crowd.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The way I dress, the way I smile, the way I shout with my whole soul.

The fact that I can be both quiet, calm, sober and completely logical and reasoning at times...

And then filled with manic heat and passion and energy at other times.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I could write a huge list like I've seen quite often, but why don't I be a little more concise and just write a couple I find bloody awesome from every category?

Books: The Discworld series by Terry Prachett and the Riftwar Saga by Raymond E. Feist
Movies: Scott Pilgrim vs. The World and Dogma
Shows: Star Trek Deep Space 9
Music: Zebrahead, I Fight Dragons, Kagerou Project, Savant, PrototypeRaptor, The Megas
Food: Pad Thai, Burgers with chipolte ketchup, hummus
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A kitchen full of spices and ingredients
My laptop and phone
Comfy shoes
Tea (Or coffee) (But really I prefer tea)
Headphones for music
The Heat of my own blood
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New recipes, game design, stuff I've been writing, sex, new ways to be crazy awesome
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eh, no typical friday for me.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have mental health issues and recently started on antidepressants.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Well... before I split this into 'Friend', 'Relationship', and 'Hump Buddy' bits, here's the requirements for everyone:

+ You need to be a sex-positive feminist.
+ You don't describe yourself as 'normal'. I want to surround myself with the passionate, the wild, the mad, the creative, the fierce, the eccentric, the nerdy, the artistic. "Normal" is a synonym for "Interchangable", and if you're in my life, I want the mark you etch in my life and my memory to be a unique one, just as I promise to grind a new symbol on your soul.

If you want to be my friend:

+ DUDE/DUDETTE/GENDER IDENTITY WHO THERE'S NO DUDE VARIANT FOR, IT WOULD BE AWESOME IF YOU LIKED KAGEROU PROJECT OR BAD RELIGION
+ We should go to Gameworks in Seattle and play DDR.
+ Or maybe we should write something together? Like, take turns?
+ Do you cook, sir/madame/sirmadame/Non-Sir Non-Madame? If so, let's DO IT.
+ Kickbox/Wrestle? I could use someone to beat the hell out of/beat the hell out of me.
+ I need to finish making my team in Pokemon X so I can crush all you motherfuckers. And you fatherfuckers. And you non-parentfuckers. And you celibate people. I'm an equal oppertunity crusher.

If you want to be my girlfriend:

+ You really shouldn't try. See above. If we hit it off super well and fall in love we can declare it. See 'Friend' or 'FWB' for now.
+ I'm polyamorous. Period.

If you want to be my FWB:

+ I'm quite kinky. I have a fetlife. I'm mostly dominant but a switch.
+ I would love to try tantric sex.
+ I really enjoy a *lot* of sex, and a lot of passion. I'm really not interested in quickies; I prefer to be able to have foreplay that goes on all day by teasing through texting while building anticipation for meeting. I want cuddling and foreplay. I want to play with eachother and tease eachothers' skin. I want us to absolutely burn for one another. I don't want us to simply go Teasing-Foreplay-Sex-Finish. I want us to play around. From Teasing-Foreplay-Sex-More Foreplay-More Sex-More Teasing-More Foreplay and on and on until we're both completely wiped out, exhausted in as many ways as possible.
+ It would also be kinda cool if we could meet at Gameworks for DDR too btw