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  • Ages 22–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 3:46pm
Black, White, Other
6′ 1″ (1.86m)
Body Type
Graduated from two-year college
Entertainment / Media
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Latin (Okay)
My self-summary
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Hey guys, I'm T.

I love all things super & sci-fi. My personality is somewhat of a healthy mix between Peter Pan & Peter Parker's. I'm also masculine, engaging, sane (thank God), and a jeans & t-shirt kind of guy. A personality test I once took told me that I'm an ambivert.

I've decided to use this site/app to meet some great guys to get to know and to promote my gay "dirty bathhouse" book series. I figured why not?!


I like a good-looking guy with confidence, wit, charm, an edge, and a great sense of humor. And it goes without saying that he should smell nice and be kind to others. Also, I'm more of a face & personality guy, as opposed to being hung up on how a guy's body looks. Just be HWP, healthy, well-groomed and clean. I'm only attracted to masculine guys too, but I'd be friends with anyone who's cool and fun. A good-looking guy who just happens to be a cool geek is my dream man. But I like a lot of different types of men, not just hot geeks. lol So don't hesitate to hit me up. We just might be a match. And FYI: I'm not into random hookups.

》》》P.S. - I like guys of ALL ethnicities. And I most DEFINITELY get down with "the swirl" too. I love vanilla. Haha. So don't be shy. I don't bite. Send me a msg instead of just a "like", cuz I can't see the likes. Thanks guys!
What I’m doing with my life
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Living it and loving it. I'm the author of an adult book series,

"THE BEAST: A Dirty Bathhouse Soap Opera" 📖

It's a fictional serial (in the form of 12 short books) which focuses on the never-ending drama that plagues the employees at a debaucherous gay men's sex club and those closest to them.

It's my greatest hope that THE BEAST will be made into a weekly show on HBO or Showtime someday. Hopefully, one day soon the books and the [future] show will be all the rage. #fingersandeyescrossed

Below is the link to the video of a recent (July 30, 2015) interview I did, on the YouTube show Media Mayhem. I got to laugh and talk about gay terms, my views on how gay characters on TV are being portrayed, and I promoted my book series: 📺

Check it out!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being creative and optimistic; working with kids; listening; learning; conversing; showing love; helping people; compromising when I need to; being a team player; teaching; cooking; eating; sleeping; and writing wild stories that lots of people seem to really like.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile & my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies & TV: Horror, Dramas, Thrillers, Fantasy Dramas, Spy dramas, and Action. THE MATRIX is my favorite movie of all-time. The SAW film series is my favorite movie franchise of all-time. CHARMED is my favorite TV show of all-time.

Music: Anything that sounds good to my ears and moves my soul. I will listen to pretty much anything, except heavy metal.

Food: Fried chicken & watermelon.

Books: Mostly online articles or short stories
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
>Hope/faith 😇

> A bag of toiletries (toothbrush, toothpaste, Listerine, soap, deodorant and more) 💪

>Seedless watermelon 🍉

>My watch ⌚

>Music (especially songs written/composed by Diane Warren--she has written the soundtrack to my life) 🎹

>Love (I saved the best for last) 💚
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
>Why so many seemingly intelligent people still cough & sneeze in their hands (knowing full well they have to touch everything that everyone else has to touch). Smh! I don't get it.

>How grateful I am to be healthy, loved, employed, sheltered and blessed.

>How to better myself.

>One day traveling the world, for a solid month, and having limitless funds to spend. I'd go from here in Los Angeles to Australia to London to Disney World in Florida to Atlanta to NYC to Connecticut and then back here to LA. I'm living for that epic month of adventure.

>A future love.

>Doing great things to benefit mankind.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating something delicious and watching a show or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In 2010, to keep my mom and me from being homeless again, I pushed my fears aside and accepted an offer to work at a dark and debaucherous Atlanta bathhouse as a clerk/cum cleaner. Mom called it a "whorehouse" and she feared for my safety every night I worked. But, by the grace of God, I made through all those months without getting hurt, robbed, killed, poisoned or pricked by needles.

For 19 months, working 12am to 8am, full-time, and dealing with an outrageous mix of drunks, drug addicts, psychos, drama queens, bullies, backstabbers, haters, bug chasers, exhibitionists, hookers, DL guys, kind souls, comedians, geeks, jocks, pimps, hoes, escorts and devious trolls.

I checked customers in/out, cleaned the filthy sex rooms, was surrounded by lots of drama and debauchery, made a lot of friends, was the residential listening ear, saw a whole other part of the gay world that I never knew existed, had sex with no one, and got the inspiration for the fictional adult drama that is now my book series.
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