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37 Bayside, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Oct 23
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Trying to quit
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Working on space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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What can I say! Life is too short to worry too much, never enough time to waste! so I'm very straight forward, not in a mean way, but with surgar on top to soften the blow! try to be happy all the time, it's always a beautiful day, as long as you believe it is! just live and let live. Also you must enjoy everyday as it comes.
What I’m doing with my life
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Same thing I do always, have fun, be happy, positive, and there's always room for improvement, till I kick the bucket, even then I should be buried face down, so everybody can still kiss my ASS!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not enough space here to list it all, nor do I want to bore you, cause I'm not bad at much, guess you gonna have to find out after we meet.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Definitely my positive energy! so please don't bring me down!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to save this one for the face to face.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, freedom, knowledge, sex(more important then you think! eventually you'll realize), happiness.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to one up yesterday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Somewhere fun
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Relationships are built on truth, trust, time and effort and no matter, the final step remains the same. The final step is the most important part and it always has been, and will always be sex. Guess what? kids play with toys, and adults have sex, so sex is not something that we should put on a pedestal and judge each other for its the true bond in a relationship, so please grow up, have some fun while we are looking for our one and only, and practice will only make it better. Like it or not! No matter how much you love or care for someone, if the sex is boring or bad, nothing else can bond the lovers no matter how hard they try ! Often we spend so much time on the initial meet and greet, yet after the first sexual encounter, one of the lovers is already thinking about how to end it, due to the bad performance of the other. Sometimes, if both parties are evenly matched, they don't want to fall in love, so they become casual partners and as time passes, more and more oxytocin builds up for the women and they start craving the emotional bond. Since the relationship is casual, chances are that they both have other partners. For the women if the sex is better compare to the rest of her casual partners, the need for emotional bond starts to escalate, and from that point on, it will be monogamy, or the amazing casual sex is over !!! As for me, I believe relationships and love are great !!! I'm actually all for it, only thing is that, after all the pieces have snapped into place, you start to try and change me from who I am! What I don't like is, you fell in love with me, the same guy, so if you want me to change, then obviously I'm not who you want to be with. So, I shouldn't be blamed for your change of mind, if anything, I should be upset about the time I wasted with you, but, I actually see it as a learning experience, and will always cherish the good times we had and move on to the next chapter. I really don't consider myself as a player, I just hate to put all my eggs in one basket! besides time is limited and precious, we're not getting any younger, it would be a shame when you wake up one day, a year or two, maybe even three has gone by, and realize you're with the wrong person! now what? how many years do you think you really have? maybe you'll just settle? are you gonna be happily ever after? where you think "Cougars" from? settling is the perfect ingredient to breed future Cougars! I am looking for the same thing every one here is looking for, LOVE, companionship, emotional support, and time to explore and enjoy the world together, then finally grow old together.So I'm not just going to give up and settle, I'm going to keep trying until I find the one , life is trial and error, and time is our mutual enemy!!!
You should message me if
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Want to have fun, spend some quality time together(as a friend! please make sure you state your intentions when you contact me, once you're in my friend zone, there will be no sex! cause I don't FUCK my friends, I love my friends, and I can never have enough of them) If you are young (less then 29) you better not be dumb! because, if I wanted a simpleton, I can just walk in any bar or club and pluck them out! and for me, nothing is worse then waking up with a hangover and a dumbass next to me!
PS this may make me sound like an ass, but I really don't give a SHIT! I'm a New Yorker, if you'd been here long enough, you should understand, we barely have enough time for our selves, we tend to keep it real. so here goes.

"Great sex do not require great love, but great love does require great sex"


If you think otherwise, then you are a miserable liar! none of your exes had the balls to tell you! and you probably never had a real Orgasm! guess what? even if we do fall in love, and you are bad in bed! I'm probably gonna break up with you! and if I'm not up to par, you'll probably gonna do the same! So with that said, if you don't like it, you can kiss my happy ass, please don't waste my time with your hate mails, just move on, stay miserable, and keep lying to your self!