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46 F San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–52
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and dislikes cats
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
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I am told I sparkle. Lucky and blessed to have an amazing, close-knit family, 2 wonderful children, and a career that keeps me pretty busy, engaged and traveling. Divorced for 18 months after 20 years, and looking around to see if another good chapter awaits. I am very fit (spend a good amount of time at the gym), well-educated and FUN! I lived in Montana for the last 5 years and just relocated to San Diego.

Looking for a smart, fit, fun (not stuffy, please!), man that is educated, together, engaged, connected, loyal and looking for long-term, profound love. When I am devoted, I am totally THERE for my partner. Dating after so l long has been an interesting experience, and I have certainly learned a lot about myself and made some great friends, but not found the magic yet....

I like to ski, travel, watch movies, cook, dine out, entertain, read, take bubble baths, travel, play with my kids and make sure they are engaged and happy (they are!). I have a little bit of a wild side, so too conservative or judgmental does not work for me...My career can also be intense, so a little understanding there can go a long way!
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a California lawyer living in Montana (was, see amendment ...). Big city girl living in the country for the sake of my children. I am working on a writing career (it is slow going) and changing my career eventually, although I truly enjoy what I do now. Amendment! I just moved to San Diego, North County. Looking forward to settling in!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Multi-tasking, parenting, making social connections and being a true and loyal friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Definitely, I get a lot of comments on my looks, smile, legs and vibrant personality. Take a little bit to get to know me deeper down...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Fiction, chick-lit, literary fiction, all kinds of movies except disturbing films that keep me up at night. Music - new pop and 60's and 70's. Loving Adele and similar tracks right now. Food? A great steak, sushi, Indian, Thai, just about anything except I am not too fond of Greek foor for some reason...Willing to try anything once!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my children and family
2. my iphone
3. music
4. great food
5. a stimulating career
6. financial freedom
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What steps I need to take to improve and grow a little bit every day.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing is typical with me. I might be at home snuggling with kids and playing, or out with friends or traveling for work..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have had my heart broken a couple times. Ouch.
You should message me if
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Please do NOT message me if you are in your 20's and if you are in your 30's, its pretty doubtful. Over 55, the same skeptical response. In the last 3 weeks, I keep getting messages from 20-somethings and people who are better matched to be friends with my parents. Trust me, it's a no.