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40 M Los Angeles, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 16
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and very serious about it
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
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My self-summary
Musician, writer and community activist - seeks LTR for a great life changing people's lives for the better and creating great music & art.

Hey there! I am from the East Coast (New York & Atlanta), so I do move faster than most Californians - fair warning! LOL.

I want a woman I can:
a) make music and arts with, collaborating together
b) do good things for other people and communities with
c) share God with, through prayer, meditation, deep, honest conversations, etc.
d) travel with
e) make love to every night. (Hey - I am a Scorpio, after all!) LOL. ; )
f) laugh with, cry with
g) be with for a long, long, long time.


Now, let's get real:
I find dating in Hollywood to be COMPLETELY ABSURD! LOL!
The Woody Allen-George Carlin in me starts coming out.
So strap in.
Here we go:

I don't care how many countries you've been to.
I don't care how many languages you speak.
I don't care how often you workout.
I don't care what church or non-profit you belong to.

All I care about is your HEART and MIND!

Do you have what it takes to make a great relationship?
Do you understand that our WORK in life is our life's purpose?
Do you understand that bringing love to others is part of this work?
Do you understand the purpose of a relationship is to help others, not merely live a myopic material existence for ones own pleasure?
Are you open and honest?
Are you willing to put in the work needed to make a great relationship?
Do you KNOW for a fact that anything good requires work, and hard times aren't a maybe, they're a definite....

If you are AWAKE, you know these things, and you love them.
: )

Most important to me:
God (daily meditation time)
Music (jazz, soul, classic rock, Brazilian and much more)
Recording (I have my own recording studio)
Writing and Teaching (launching a web video series)
Helping people, teaching, (kids & adults)
Traveling (America and overseas)

I also like:
Rollerblading, swimming, walking, hiking, beach sports, good talks, bitchin' tea, good jokes, bad jokes, staying up late, cuddling, making love slowly and passionately and (sometimes) light dominatrix play. Yes, I own handcuffs and know how to use them. Well.
I am planning on traveling for my next phase of my career, so please be free and interested in traveling, either in the U.S. or overseas.
I love to make people laugh and sport a rather dry, sarcastic, wit.
I am nocturnal; I go to bed around 1-2 and wake around 9-10. I am self-employed, make my own hours and LOVE it!
I refuse to date anyone out of my immediate area. I don't like driving and I'd rather use the time wasted actually BEING with my loved one.

I think online dating is a broad filter, at best.
There is no chemistry on a computer!
For chemistry, two people have to talk, and meet.
Simple as that.
: )

WARNING: Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.
What I’m doing with my life
Breathing in and out.
Creating a live/work community center combining art, holistic living and political action. Helping artists ignite their dreams. Teaching kids to find their passions and slay dragons.
Care to join me?
I’m really good at
Creating music, lively conversation, empathy when you're down, kick-ass back massages, making a great breakfast, fighting for social justice and making your toes curl. But maybe not in that order.
The first things people usually notice about me
My nose, then my shoe size, then my enormous... charisma.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Three Days of the Condor
Marathon Man
LA Confidential
It's a Wonderful Life
The Matrix 1 (screw the sequel)

I am a voracious reader; mostly spirituality, health and political awareness.
The six things I could never do without
God, social justice, kindness & human warmth, loved ones and music. (Oh, and a good cup of tea).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
God, social justice, kindness & human warmth, loved ones and music. (Oh, and a good cup of tea).
On a typical Friday night I am
Just as happy staying in or going out.
Life is made meaningful by WHO you are with, not by what you do.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Scorpios keep secrets for a lifetime.
I even know things about YOU I won't tell!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You now have a moist, tingling sensation down below.
In which case, ummm... I think you just spilled your coffee.