Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Masc guy and strongly gay-identified. Came out at 18 right in the
early days of AIDS-which had a profound effect on forming an
identity. Marched on Washington, etc. Much less serious today-we
live in good times, comparatively
Am 6'5" and while I look like a bouncer, definitely have a sweet,
caring, sensitive side.
My job is w. a non-profit, worked for years as a free lance
pianist/conductor, am now writing a book so i can have greater
freedom and more reason to travel.
Favorite cities are Chicago, NYC, San Diego, and LA. Am super into
personal growth and whenever possible, like to visit various
retreat centers around the US for programs. I believe there are
gifts that we hold as gay men and it's so awesome to connect in
In the bedroom (or kitchen, or hallway--wherever) I'm truly
versatile, And happy with a top vers or bottom guy as long as he
has a strong masculine energy.
Am looking for dates and/or friends. I do best w intelligent guys,
deep thinkers, but w a great sense of humor. I don't take myself
Love theatre, drag, live comedy(just saw Margaret Cho) breathwork,
the gym, good food, beer, camping.
Was raised redneck and am amazed at where I've been since. Life is
What I’m doing with my life
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I’m really good at
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Including people. Asking good questions about something you say in
a conversation. Kissing, Making you laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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that I'm riding a unicorn.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book-Life and Teaching of the Masters of the Far East, Movies-
Pride-Spirited Away, Weekend. Battle Royale, A Beautiful Thing,
Grand Illusion, Trouble the Water, lots of lgbt movies . Read the
NYtimes. TV-Top Chef, Rupaul's Drag Race, Looking.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sunshine, good public transit, a sense of humor, physical touch,
kissing, our awesome first date.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At the gym, then relaxed at home w. Hulu Plus.
You should message me if
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You're willing to meetup after a few emails. You're funny and
emotionally intelligent. You're socially adventurous.
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