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48 M Philadelphia, PA

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6′ 5″ (1.96m)
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Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
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Relationship Type
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm ready today to meet my ideal partner.

Am masculine, kind, responsible, and fun. I interact in a playful way with people, places, and activities that make me happy to be alive. Tell me what brings you pleasure and I'll do my best to join you.

I appreciate it if you've "lived" and taken some risks, no matter what the outcome. Have you had some colossal failures that led you to a better place in your life?

I traveled as a musician, have been a New Yorker, lived in Europe, and most challengingly, learned to be "normal", working a 9-5 job and letting myself go deeper in friendships and in living in one city. I'm in a good place to meet and enjoy being with a partner. Are you ready for an adventure?

Handsome is a plus--and if you're comfortable in your body, that's a big plus.

I'm 6'5" square jawed, which clears a path in crowds and gets me noticed in stores but am hoping you'll notice the intelligence, kindness, and sweetness underneath.

I like it if you're balanced with food Am currently eating lots of raw foods/super foods and enjoy walking around for the freshest fruits and vegetables and I feel great in my body. The gym de-stresses me and I'd enjoy a workout partner.

I love connecting and a feeling of being in sync. Not codependent but two independent guys who can hold their own and stand side by side. That's "hot" in my book. When we're talking I'm good at seeking you out in the conversation and expect the same. If you're just listening in order to figure out what to say next, we're definitely not going to get along, but if you're present, can be low key, have a sweetness to go along with masculine energy, and seek balance in any interaction, we should meet.

The above will create a friendship, now to the romantic part. I like a guy who is a great kisser and who likes to cuddle. Rather than top/bottom definitions, i do best with another masculine energy pushing up against mine. It creates heat.

Most important is that you've done the work needed to be a good participant in the world and a good partner. Not perfect, but able to change and grow.

I have room in my heart, in my bed, and in my life for an awesome guy. Please let me know if you think we might be a match.
What I’m doing with my life
playing, watching "The Normal Heart" played piano for a loooong choir rehearsal. Took new pics. Home.
I’m really good at
Including people. Asking good questions about something you say in a conversation. Kissing, Making you laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book-Life and Teaching of the Masters of the Far East, Movies--Spirited Away, Weekend. Hunger Games, Battle Royale, A Beautiful Thing, Grand Illusion, Trouble the Water, lots of lgbt movies . Q-fest-usually see 25-40 films. Read the NYtimes
The six things I could never do without
sunshine, good public transit, a sense of humor, physical touch, kissing, and friendship.
On a typical Friday night I am
At the gym, then relaxed at home w. Netflix.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm super confident in challenging situations but can sometimes be a total mess/overwhelmed. Vulnerability is important.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
You're willing to meetup after a few emails. You're funny and emotionally intelligent. You're socially adventurous.