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28 Washington, DC Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a problem solver, techie, volunteer and explorer. I definitely have five year plans but balance that by taking advantage of fun spontaneous opportunities . I prefer quality over quantity in most things (like bourbon) and I enjoy getting to know people beyond the surface.

I grew up all around the Hampton Roads area of Virginia, went to college in Pittsburgh, and I've lived in DC for over 5 years. Most of my free time is spent exploring the city, reading, programming, volunteering and hanging out with friends, who are some of the best people I know. Then again, it would be pretty odd if my friends were the worst people I knew. I'm naturally curious and reserved (ISTJ) and love to discuss almost anything people are passionate about.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to balance the whole "responsible adult" thing while remembering to still relax and fun. Currently I'm a technology consultant working for a large consulting firm developing interesting applications for various government agencies. I enjoy my job - I get to use technology to solve interesting problems and then see the direct impact of my work.

Outside of work, I help run a non profit that has a unique approach on helping solve international development organizations' problems. It takes a ton of time but is really challenging and fun and I get to work with lots of smart, passionate people around the country and world.

One of my favorite quotes that expresses my general philosophy is by Ralph Emerson: "The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, to have it make some difference that you have lived and lived well". Of course the answer to life is 42.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Planning trips - I enjoy putting together all the little details, picking unique places to visit, and finding great deals. This invariably leads to making lots of random connections and interesting conversations. I'm also pretty good at building/fixing computers although most of the time it ends up being a PEBCAK error. And, although I'm not a great cook, I'm good at baking (cookies, cheddar biscuits are favorites), particularly at midnight when I'm taking a break from solving some problem.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - My reading time is pretty evenly split between non fiction on modern topics (economics, technology, entrepreneurship), sci-fi/fantasy (Jordan, Martin, Rothfuss, Sanderson, etc), classics/philosophy, and tech tomes (comes with the job). Also try to keep up with Economist, Atlantic, BusinessWeek, Popular Science, Wired, etc.

Movies - I like comedy, sci-fi or movies that have thoughtful explorations of the human experience (Aronofsky, Mind the Gap, Once). Also action movies just because they're fun (read: any Statham movie).

TV - Arrested Development, 30 Rock/Community/Parks and Rec, Law and Order, Mad Men, Daily Show, PBS NewsHour.

Music - I tend to like songs more than artists, so I love streaming apps. A few favourites usually on replay are Red Hot Chili Peppers, Postal Service, The National, K'naan, Kanye West, and Childish Gambino.

Food - Favorites include Chow Fun or Pad See Ew, Pizza (2 Amys, Pizza Paradiso) and seafood but I'll try eating (almost) anything at least once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) A computer/laptop/internet connection
2) News source (Economist, Atlantic, PBS NewHour, etc)
3) On Demand Music (Rhapsody, Pandora, etc)
4) Caffeine and lots of it
5) Modern Medicine - seriously, it is pretty awesome
6) Exploration (both travel and exploring new ideas and meeting new people)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything I can. How can I make whatever I'm working on better. Why won't this program compile? Why are there no good 24 hour diners in DC? When is my next vacation? Why am I still up at 2AM?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
My ideal Friday would involve a checking out a new event or restaurant around the city (probably something featured in the Post's going out guide) or staying in with friends playing games (Cards Against Humanity, Anomia, Ticket to Ride, Taboo)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a bit accident prone, which is why I now avoid kayaking near fishermen or biking near walls. At least it gives my friends funny stories to tell.
You should message me if
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You having something you are passionate about, want to teach me a new board/card game, like to travel, or want a someone to help you explore the city. Also, if you happen to have a reservation for minibar...