This bad boy of a pro-phile is hmmm, some three years old. And, although surprisingly much of it remains resonant, I do think I've come a long way... forward? back? directionless? So, watch out, there'll be some updating soon.
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Let's see if we get close to what I'm gunning for this time. Music was my muse, now she's one of my lovers. I'm a taoist, a discordian, a Frakhead... or maybe not... I play guitar and sing, I write, I use to paint. In the profile it says "straight" for convenience's sake. I believe I'm sexual, like most other people (and beings) in this planet, I don't need to stick a prefix to the word, that just vulgarises it in my opinion.

I’m polygamous and have ALWAYS been. I’ve never had a steady girlfriend, due first to circumstance and unrequired love and, later, to acceptance and a general love of the situation.

I’ve never, EVER, lied to a woman about my polygamy. I can’t… This, of course, has caused me to loose a few relationships that “coulda been”, but, then again it’s a kind of litmus test… If you’re not down with putting UP with my criteria in sex, fine, we can be great friends, and exchange opinions, but we’re probably not going to agree that our "own way" is the best for the other.

My respect for those who foster steady relationships is absolute. My opinion (and this is mine, applied to my experience and the way I am, it’s not targeted at criticising anyone, let it be said!) is that love shouldn’t be forced or institutionalised…. I see it as orbits, (my favourite analogy) The planets orbit around the Sun, held together by different tensions. Sometime they’re closer, sometimes farther apart, but they just… well, float! That’s the way I see things… for me, in “my “ galaxy”….

The biggest form of trust and love, for me, is letting go. The girl with whom I’ve had the longest (and still ongoing) relationship in my life actually lives in another city and with another guy… I don’t even wanna meet him, but I love him. He’s doing something that I don’t see myself capable off, which is living and sharing with someone… constantly. I’m very jealous, not of my privacy… (couldn’t give a fuck about that) but of my personal space. It took me ages to get over the fact that she was leaving for another city, but that taught me to let go and love her without forcing the issue or imposing myself on her.

Have I ever been with a guy? Yup, a couple of times, but not too often because (roll of the drums!) MOST MEN ARE PIGS! (That being the source of bacon, oink!) I get turned on more by thinking about doing with a man than actually doing it, it sort of gives me the creeps. The times I’ve done it I’ve been disappointed by their attitude. I think that, if anything, I’m a lesbian… I truly look for friendship, companionship and sex in women. Gay guys turn me off… they’re too obvious, but I don’t really know how to “pick up” a guy that I could be attracted to. Help me out!!!

AND... I get embarrassed talking about myself and this "Mark III" profile is already waayy too long, so I'll just shut up now.

I'm a translator, I work in film and TV... Apart from that I write, play music and some two thousand other things that get started, mutate and then turn into something else... Some of them get finished and everything! Now I've also found a pretend job in which I get paid to be either arrogant or polite...while having a computer on front so I can STILL go on translating. Two jobs for the TIME of one! I'm such a genius.

Touching... in all its various form, tangents, and metaphysical or purely physical senses... I'm good at finding the third way. I'm vry good at listening, but that took me a LOT of years of effort, but I'm glad I learned. I feel good helping people, it's an egotistical, more than a charitable, attitude, I care, BECAUSE IT MAKES ME FEEL GOOD! hehehehe

I've noticed that people, at first, either love me or hate me... Most of my good friends are the ones who HATED me when they first met me. Figure that one out, Sherlock! I seem to be tall too.

a) Kurt Vonnegut, Robert Anton Wilson; Alan Watts, Ursula Le Guin, Margaret Atwood, Iain Banks... I could go on for ages... b) Kubrick, Scorsese, Coppola, Lucas (Yes! Even American Graffiti!) Herzog, Kurosawa... shit, I think I could go on for ages here too!! C) What lies between King Crimson and the Sex Pistols... Or James Brown and Black Sabbath... now, this is where I REALLY could go on for ages, epochs, even... Ask, I know EVERYTHING about music, except for some really crappy tests in this site (Yeah, I should stop bitchin' and write one myself, right??) d)Tomatoes! Whooo-hooo!

Oxygen Food Sunlight Shelter in Winter

Uh, that's four, right? Ok, seriously now, I try not to get too attached to anything, but, being human, my "weaknesses" (And one person's weakness is another's charm) are: Music, the universe, love, my dogs, open communication and sex.

Elliptical Orbits. Contrast and balance... Why I think so fucking much when I'm much better when I just don't... My dogs... Music, I'm either thinking music or thinking about music.

Atypical

I don't tell all on the first date, hah!

But I am quite open and VERY honest once a get a feeling for the person I'm dealing with.

You're intrigued!