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36 M Rochester, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:20pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Tamil (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm here to find someone who can be part of something special. My guess is that you are here for that same thing too.

I love paradoxes, and relish in "complexity." I am a take charge sort-of-guy. I am confident without cockiness, patient without being a pushover, and intelligent without overbearing arrogance. I am very witty, but I also understand that sometimes seriousness is needed. My friends tell me that I am a creative visionary who is full of inspiration and integrity. I consider myself, and everyone I meet an "artwork-in-progress". (I think a sense of spirituality is very important--emphasis on "sense",--but I'm not going to presume that there is a correct way to find it.)

I am insightful, ambitious, and seriously silly.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have two main passions in my life: (1) my daytime job is to help children and adults see and think better, and (2) my evening job as a performing arts comedy teacher is to help shy people be more outgoing, smart people be humble, and ordinary people act extraordinary.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
teaching/performing improvisational comedy, vision therapy, interpreting statistical data and dreams, and nurturing people to grow...
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a bright smile--completely natural. I am a loud laugher and enjoy good jokes (even if they are inappropriate and at my expense).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
*I'm a sucker for well-written, thought-provoking movies.
*I enjoy listening to current Top 40 stuff, but I secretly prefer listening to oldies. (Please don't judge me for listening to country.)
*I don't really read fiction ever since I stopped reading the bible. *I prefer non-fiction with insight into human behavior, and I love watching TED lectures.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) a professional challenge
2) my tempur-pedic bed
3) email/internet
4) knowing that I helped people grow as people
5) my wit and my wits
6) people to teach
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the theoretical limits of improv comedy and human perceptual psychology. Although recently, I've started thinking more about financial investments and macro economic theories. I have started a budding interest in aquaponics.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm usually performing in or running my theatre. (I figure at some point if it is successful, then eventually I can hand the reigns over to someone else, and take the occasional night off.) Usually afterwards, I head out to karaoke.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wish I were as talented as Tim Minchin. I want to be him when he grows up. My favorites so far are:
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
*you like to think.
*you are non-judgmental of others.
*you are really sweet and good (and want to explore your bad side :) )

MY IDEAL: Someone who loves life, laughter, and what she does. She must have a passion/ambition for something. She may not be an artist, but she must have a sense of artistry in whatever she does. If she adores children, even better. (Selfishness turns me off.) Truthfully, I would like to be surprised. Intelligence is sexy, and intellectual curiosity is a must.