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47 Prestatyn, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–59
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Mar 24
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Mostly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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Just for information .. so that no-ones time is wasted .. as my profile is quite detailed ..

Answers to questions:

1) Yes they are real;
2) No I dont want casual sex;
3) Yes I am poly
4) No I won't send nude photos;
5) Yes that is my real age;
6) All photos taken in the last 3 years.

Vital Statistics:

Bra: 38 JJ
Waist: Dress Size 16-18
Hips: Dress Size 16
Insided Leg: 32 inches
Over 6 ft in heels

I am a BBW full figured alternative natured woman .. I am a strong Independent minded person .. alpha female .. with all the passion and zest for life that entails ..

I am in a relationship .. and it is an open relationship .. as in polyamorous ..

Polyamory, often abbreviated as poly, is often described as "consensual, ethical, and responsible non-monogamy." The word is sometimes used in a broader sense to refer to sexual or romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive, though there is disagreement on how broadly it applies; an emphasis on ethics, honesty, and transparency all around is widely regarded as the crucial defining characteristic.

So .. what am I looking for .. basically .. a kindred spirit .. open minded .. fun loving man .. who is open and honest enough to take a trip down the polyamory route .. and to be open to the benefits of our lifestyle .. I can promise lots of fun and laughter .. with a mahoosive hint of sexual attraction and sexual exploits .. for the right person .. I need to be wooed .. in the old fashioned way .. to get the best out of this broad!!

I am NOT looking for a ***-buddy or friend-with-benefits .. if thats what I needed .. I could get that on a friday night in town .. so if you are looking for a friday-night-fumble-in-the-dark .. best not message me .. I am not the girl you are looking for!!*

Happy hunting .. you sexxxxxy lot .. heheheh
Here are a few more details about me as a person ..

Hobbies and Interests ..

I love sport .. and used to play womens rugby for five years .. badminton from aged 13 .. board-diving, scuba-diving and snorkling .. windsurfing, surfing .. as well as skiing, ice skating and roller blading .. I am an avid cyclist as well ..

Was also in the TA for over 6 years .. as an infantryman .. that was fun .. getting all muddy and dirty for queen and country ..

I also love music .. I started in a choir when I was in middle school .. then went onto being in the Girls Brigade .. (god the photos .. dont even go there really .. its just not funny!!) ..

So I have played drums .. bugle, trumpet .. started playing the flute, violin .. and piano .. I love singing ..

On a Friday night .. I am usually .. at the Sal .. listening to live bands .. with my friends .. then onto a club .. and a boogy .. or just sit in the Turf till stupid o'clock .. and chill out .. watching everyone stumble around aimlessly drunk .. *giggles* .. whilst I take the photos ..

Happiest When Designing and creating .. out with friends .. feeling the wind in my hair .. watching a sunset or a sunrise .. watching waves break on the shoreline .. walking along a beach in the middle of summer or the middle of winter .. simple things .. a leaf when it changes colour and falls to the ground .. a butterfly hovering over a flower .. a crow walking across a road .. simple things ..

First Date:

Well .. lets see now .. I love music .. I love art .. and love sport too .. so the world is your lobster really .. love surprises .. and mystery tours etc .. slighty scary .. but exciting at the same time .. love challenges and pushing my own boundaries .. I get excited .. far too easily .. a big girls blouse indeed .. !!

So .. come on if you think your hard enough .. oops . .was that a bit scary .. *ponders* .. oh well nevermind .. its me afterall .. hehehe
What I’m doing with my life
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About me professionally ..

Well .. I am an artist, fashion designer, designer and film-maker .. I am a lively fun loving person .. but can also have a serious conversation about things that matter ..

My passion for shoes and footwear has enabled me to complete a Masters Degree etc .. and love creating artworks .. I thrive on learning and pushing my boundaries .. as well as being an inquisitive kind of person .. constantly wishing to learn more and more ..

The current theme I am exploring is 1950s dressing, punk, goth, cyber chick, burlesque, victoriana, and steampunk and all things alternative too and I want more tattoos and piercings .. I am currently experiementing with latex corsets .. latex dresses and accessories as well as corsety in general .. as can be seen by my latex corset and dresses etc ..

Some call me a goth or punk or rock-chick .. but I am an eclectic mix of many things .. but with my own sense of style .. a cameleon if you will .. perhaps I am too old for that .. but hey .. you only live once .. and I want to live it and have fun doing it ..

I do love motorbikes too .. I used to live and die on them when I was younger and wanted to take my test by the time I was 40 .. oops missed that one .. but still there is time yet ..
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Lots of tings .. hehehe
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes .. hmm .. yeah .. definitely my eyes .. hehehe
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Well .. films .. lets see ..

Bladerunner; Dreamcatcher; Dune; The Crow; Silent Hill; (although it made me cry) .. AI (only watched it once and that made me really cry .. consequently I cant watch it again .. but I can remember it with clarity .. it really affected me .. heheeh); Bladerunner; Dreamcatcher; XXX; Pitch Black; Chronicles of Riddick; Sweeny Todd; Pans Labyrinth; Rocky Horror Picture Show; League of Extradonary Gentlemen; A Series of Unfortunate Events; Gormenghast; I Robot; 10,000 BC; blah blah blah .. hehehe

God the list goes on and on .. I am sure there are so many others ..


Fashion Design; Shoe Design; Latex Fetish Fashions; Website Design; Photomanips; Photography; Graphic Design; Digital Art; Cycling; swimming; jogging; Arts & Crafts;


HR Giger; Evard Munch; MC Escher; Gustav Klimt; as well as many others ..


Music .. well .. I like all sorts .. from ..

Rammstein; HIM; AFI; Nightwish; The 69 Eyes; Incubus; She Wants Revenge; The Fratellis; Scouting for Girls; The Feeling; The Fray; The Enemy; Claxons; casabian; Wombats; Vampire Weekend; Pigeon Detectives; Bare Naked Ladies; Strokes; The Hoosiers; Muse; Kate Nash; Lilly Allen; Ting tings; Meredith Brooks; Pink; Dizzy Rascal as well .. hehehe

to some 80s stuff; Everything but the Girl; Shakespreares Sister; INXS; Crash Test Dummies; 4 Non-Blondes;

love some classical too .. Elgar etc ..

and am just starting to get introduced via some friends to industrial and cyber bands too .. so its an eclectic mix ..

This is not an exhaustive list .. just some that I have been listening to recently .. I do love music .. and singing and dancing too .. hehehe
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My Partner
2) My kids
3) My sketchbook & pens;
4) My camera;
5) My puppy;
6) My Shoes;
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Science and psychology .. as well as art and photography .. and fashion and shoes .. hehehe
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I am normally at home .. cuddling up to my puppy .. hehehe
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Sticks and Stones may break my bones,
But whips and chains excite me"
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