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36 F Philadelphia, PA

I’m looking for

  • Bi guys only
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:27am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Strictly vegan
Not at all
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Virgo, and it matters a lot
Dropped out of university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and has cats
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If you like NPR in the morning, KEEP READING!
If you can deal with taking yourself to the movies, and prefer going to the Ritz rather than the Riverview (or, you know, slitting your wrists....) keep reading.
JUST AN ASIDE: here are some things I know I want (there are many things about my own deal I don't know, but here's what I HAVE figured out) : In terms of men, I'd like a Bi or poly guy - Any person I share myself with needs to be whole in masculinity and femininity. I HAVE been with FTMs, and am open to MTFs, and crossdressing is A-OK in my book, so long as you're not a mess. And if you are I can help with that, too. Don't be afraid to communicate anything to me, as I don't and won't freak out. Trust that I won't. I've met many men who were afraid to reveal themselves to their partners, living in shame and desperation to express themselves, and to me, nothing is off the table so long as honesty is present. Comprende? PLEASE don't misunderstand - I'm not INTO crossdressers. But if that's your thing, I won't run. Oh, also, my IDEAL situation would be a bi guy who wants an awesome emotional connection with a woman, wants to get down/snuggle up sometimes, but understands that I am OK with them going and getting their GAY on with boys. So there's that. Everything in my world is negotiable. I hardly understand my own needs, so I would never expect YOU to, I just know that I can communicate well and need that in turn. OK. So....
I really value my alone time, and need someone with their own life and own interests to not only understand this, but want this for themselves. I am not really sure of what I want out of meeting someone - I feel no immediacy or pressure to be married, to settle down, to nest - I let go of all that awhile ago, and have been all the more happy since. What I DO know is that I am open to any changes in this mindset in the future, but for now, I feel pretty relaxed about meeting people. I am very busy with frivolous "stuff", work, and ME time, so squeezing anything else in can be difficult, but I make time when I really want to. I dislike bars (too dark and depressing), "singles" venues of any kind (also depressing/smacks of desperation), and the like. This, as you can imagine, keeps me somewhat isolated. So instead I keep my fingers crossed that I will make eyes with a lovely honey in the coffee shop, or the spice aisle in Whole Foods, or Barnes and Noble... Alas, things don't turn out to be so simple.
So, maybe one day I will find someone who likes brunch and crossword puzzles as much as I do. Maybe...

I am relaxed, hysterical, and real smart-like.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have been a model most of my life. I am also a painter and fine artist. I am very down to earth about looks - things are temporary and can be taken away at any moment. Would someone stay with me if my face were mangled by a pitbull in a freak incident? We'll see...
Nut right now, I am a baker/waiter/artistic director at a funky little diner in West Passyunk. I dig my job and all it entails. I also do some private baking on the side for special orders.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading people, finding typos in newspapers, baking, - and lots of other stuff that seems irrelevant. I also have a photographic memory and I experience synesthesia.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes. Blonde hair, yes, but mainly the eyes.
...which is the ultimate rub seeing as they don't work very well. World-so-cruel.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like social pop-culture accounts, such as anything by Michael Pollan or Eric Shclosser... And I am currently reading a book about the sweatshop issue in the fashion world and how far removed people have become from the problem. I love documentaries and silly comedies (I saw Religulous in the theater 3 times and own The Big Lebowski AND Pee Wee's Big Adventure), and I have a thing for comic book movies. I have seen the 1988 Batman 63 times. I know every word.
Food is good.
Pizza and hole-in-the-wall Chinese - VERY good.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Contact lenses, flowers, coffee, radio, my Danskos, yoga.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
treating myself to a slice and maybe a movie. OR doing something good for myself, like going to a reiki share or getting a massage.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have liitle patience for idiocy. To the extent that I can come off rude and condescending. My time is too little and too precious.
You should message me if
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You can deal with someone who needs nothing to be complete.