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40 F Pittsburgh, PA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 30
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Okay), French (Poorly)

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What I’m doing with my life
Sorting it out, looking for the big theme.
I’m really good at
puzzles. meandering conversations. appreciating qualities of light. listening for unspoken things in a conversation. cooking. reading. noticing appealing qualities in people. rolling with the punches.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
favorite book: moby dick

favorite movies: .... Vanya on 42nd Street, The Station Agent, Amelie, Die Hard.

fav shows: Game of Thrones, true detective, the walking dead, house of cards, Archer, Modern Family, Sherlock... typical stuff.

fav foods: butter, salt, lemon, garlic, olive oil, cheese, broccoli, basil, nuts, fish, raspberries.
The six things I could never do without
I wish they would rephrase this.

Instead, it should say, "once my basic survival is ensured.... the six things I would grab, to make the post-apocalyptic world more comfortable, would be:"

In that case, I would say........

-iPod full of music
-french milled paper notebooks
-fountain pens
-a guitar
-one good knife
-a versatile piece of cookware


Why I should list my guitar among the things I could not live without... is a mystery. I haven't touched it in months.

But, I think I would play it a lot more if the world as we know it came to an end. I think I wouldn't be able to live without it if the internet and electricity and life as we know it all fell away.

I used to play it a lot more, before the internet took over my life. I used to read a lot more, too. I used to write a lot more. I used to paint a lot more. I used to listen to music a lot more. I used to wander around my apartment thinking about things a lot more. I used to cook a lot more. Once I spent an afternoon in my kitchen -- an entire afternoon -- sitting on an uncomfortable little chair, paging through a gigantic cookbook with no photographs. I remember that day vividly. Most of my days, these days, are forgettable.

The things I say I could never live without are all things that I have started to live without...... which is interesting. But, when I try to imagine going without things, one by one, I can imagine going without all of the things I have now... my car, my iPhone, the internet, until I get back down to the list of things I used to be happy with, and then when I begin to imagine letting those things go, it seems unbearable. It's strange to consider that those are all things I hardly touch these days.

Something interesting is happening. When all of the things which seem essential to a good life... things you would never let go... are gradually removed from your life... by way of distraction... and replaced with things you would love to let go.... what is that about? What's happening there?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The fate of humanity.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating