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21 Joliet, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
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Graduated from high school
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm Steven, I just really am looking for someone who is willing to give me the time to show how much I care about someone. I live by the golden rule, treat others the way you want to be treated. I have never been in a relationship before but still I feel I have a lot to offer. I do not party, smoke or drink so most people think I'm lame but I can still be fun. I work and go to school but my check goes to my Mom to help pay bills. I'm an only child with just my Mom and my dog. I am looking for someone who cares about me as much as I care about them. Message me if you are interested.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work part-time and go to junior college. I have school every morning and work most nights at a hospital delivering meals to the patients. I am still kind of undecided about my future career, but meteorology is an interest of mine. I plan on majoring in Business later in my educational career.

One of my hobbies is putting shadow boxes together for veterans with their medals and other awards. I was even in the newspaper for it. My grandpa, a World War II vet, is who got me started when I got his awards after he passed away. Now I am a huge military freak and love learning new things about World War II.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Listening and giving advice
-Treating others with respect
-Math and History (World War II especially)
-Being there for people when they need someone
-playing piano (or I would like to think so)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I love making people laugh and smiles are contagious so my laugh and smile are usually what people notice about me first. I may not be the skinniest guy but I do have a big heart. Also how nice I am to everyone. I've been told I have nice calves if that means anything to you.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Not a big fan of reading but "Day of the Panzer" (it's a WW2 book) by Jeff Danby. I'm also starting to read "Devil in the White City."

Movies: I like older movies, The Blues Brothers is still one of my favorites. Anchorman 1 & 2, (anything Will Ferrell really), Ted, National Lampoon anything, Tom Hanks movies, Disney/Pixar, stuff with Chevy Chase, Burt Reynolds, Jackie Gleason (Smokey and the Bandit). Car chases or war movies. I also like chick-flicks, they are funny.

Shows: NCIS, NCIS, and NCIS, I guess I can throw Family Guy in there too. I'm getting into NCIS:LA also. Can't forget History Channel: Pawn Stars and American Pickers. I also love old TV shows like Andy Griffith, I Dream of Jeanie, I Love Lucy, and M*A*S*H. I love game shows too like Family Feud, Price is Right and Wheel of Fortune. Occasionally, I'll watch Disney or cartoons.

Music: Classic Rock, 70's and 80's, The Beatles, Paul McCartney and Wings, Rolling Stones, ELO, Elton John, The Who, REO Speedwagon, Styx, Billy Joel, and some new stuff. I like Katy Perry and Adele. Not much into country or rap but some stuff I can get in to.

Food: All of it! Just about anything, I'm trying to start eating healthier.

Sports: I sort of follow NASCAR and the Chicago Cubs (sorry if you don't), my friend has gotten me into football but I'm still getting there.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My Computer
My knowledge of everything so far
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My future and life
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually working or at home on my computer. I hang out with friends, usually people from work or friends home from college.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have never had a girlfriend or any relationship of any kind.
You should message me if
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Message me if interested in making a new friend or maybe even more. Just keep in mind that I am looking for a relationship. If you have any questions I am open to answer them.