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51 Cincinnati, OH Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 45–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Nov 17
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Not at all
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I've always been single and now that my mom has gone into the next phase of her life of declining remembering ability, living in her assisted living apartment, I'm looking to form a new friendship that is as deep and rich as the one i had as her close friend (her closest, I think). She needed me after my dear dad died and I was open to being her closest confidant and friend. That type of mental companionship is what I really want to have again and physicality doesn't really appeal to me.

Much of what I enjoy involves science and engineering.
I try to read ScienceDaily everyday.
I do designing and building on my electric-assisted bicycle project.

I believe it is okay to get angry at things and situations, but not at people. We have too many things going against us just from our living environments already, without making it all worse through human-human conflict.

I'm an independent-minded introvert (maybe a moderately functioning autistic, too) and believe in much individual freedom. I like a lot of time by myself, but I know no one is an island.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to figure out new things and learn new things everyday.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Focusing on a particular thing. I like to pick something of interest to me and try to stay with it to see if I can do well on it. I believe specialization is a good way to leverage abilities. Thinking about new ways to do things helps move the world forward.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I recall hearing that I look good, like, I guess, healthy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movie: Schindlers's List. Hellstrom Chronicle
Show: Star Trek, the original series.
Book: Dragons of Eden, by Carl Sagan. This one really began me on my freer thinking journey.
Song: Bridge Over Troubled Water, by Simon and Garfunkel
Foods: Split peas, collards.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Food, etc., life itself, striving, wonder, hope, National Public Radio
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How society can keep people healthier longer, and things that I read about on ScienceDaily and other science Web-sites.

Why competition against others is bad. How to get people's focus on self improvement while trying not to harm others. That keeps the world going well.
The concept is dear to me even though I definitely fall short in living the philosophy that I love.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Some folks like to discover things about their partner, I guess an enjoyment of the discovery of them. However, I don't see that as something I'm looking for. I would like a deep mental connection based on kindredness of spirit which depends on intimate mental connection with a best friend and companion. The physical aspect isn't very important to me.
You should message me if
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If you'd like to know an apparent INTP guy who thinks rather differently and independently, and if it's okay that he doesn't go out much, and considers himself a fetisexual.