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27 Rochester, NY Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 15
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am zealous, bookish, and unapologetic.

And shyyyyyyy.

I'm passionate about animals, the environment, living simplistically, and human sexuality. I am mostly vegetarian, try to limit animal products in my fridge and pantry, but sushi is my weakness.

My recipe for happiness: people to wholeheartedly love, a job that pays the bills that I don't dread going to, a passion I feel I am actively involved in, and some kind of exquisite happiness (the people I love, the weather, children, sex, furry and fluffy animals, education).

I am an openly sexual person, but please don't confuse that as easy to get in bed. That would probably just lead to me telling you to get yourself off. = ) I can't feel sexual about a person until I know enough to find someone sexy. I love sex blogs, books, photography, fantasies, erotica, the science behind all things sexual, people's "deep, dark" secrets that don't sound so scary to me, and having conversations about sex that are not flirtatious in nature.

I don't feel that I can ever really be someone's perfect match. I am not interested in monogamous relationships. I don't plan on getting married or having children, but I am looking for long-term relationships and I do love kids. Polyamory is important to me - I don't think I should try to confine my love to only one person in a formula that doesn't ever seem to work out. To me, commitment is about being there for someone, loving deeply, being fair, honest, open, dedicated... It's complicated in some ways, but so is monogamy. = )

I have two small tattoos: "simple moments of exquisite happiness" wrapped around one arm with a small heart and "not all those who wander are lost" on the other arm with the outline of the star of the Dunedain (soon to be shaded in).

I have a deep love for J.R.R. Tolkien's world.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Just graduated as a Veterinary Technician, volunteering at Rochester Animal services as a vet tech, and starting a bachelors degree in vet tech this fall. Maybe someday I'll be able to teach!

I have a little sister that I spend a lot of time with - and it helps that my best friend's children are close in age. My little sister is the closest I ever want to get to having a child.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, my head wraps, my behind (teehee). I've had a lot of people at the hospital tell me I have a soothing voice. A bedtime story voice. = )
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: nonfiction - any topic I'm interested in. Emotional abuse, children of gay parents, childhood trauma, holistic care for pets, polyamory, foster children, etc. If I want to know, I'll find a book... Otherwise, Dean Koontz, Stephen King, J.R.R. Tolkien, some historical fiction. Oh, and some fantasy like Narnia, His Dark Materials, Harry Potter. I don't read a lot of fiction because I get overwhelmed by all the options. = ) It's nice when someone recommends fiction to me!

But! Augusten Burroughs!!! I have never laughed out loud so much... ALL of his books :)

Movies: TLOTR, Perfume: the Story of a Murderer, Let the Right One In, The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo (foreign ones), The Pan's Labyrinth, Sunshine, Harry Painted Veil, Potter, Narnia, Captain Corelli's Mandolin, Blood Diamond, The Exorcism of Emily Rose, 28 Days Later, Kingdom of Heaven, The Departed, Erin Brockovich, Benny and Joon, Amelie, A Very Long Engagement, Breakfast on Pluto, Inception, The 4th Kind... I love movies!

Music: Florence and the Machine, Lana Del Rey, Nine Inch Nails, The Talking Heads, Bjork, Emiliana Torrini, Tech N9ne, Genesis, Disturbed, Duran Duran, Michael Jackson, The White Stripes, Robyn, The Dead Weather, Janelle Monae, The Cure, Fleetwood Mac, LCD Soundsystem, M.I.A., Matthew Dear, MSI, Rob Zombie, Prince, Tuneyards, Robert Plant, Iron and Wine, Marilyn Manson, U2, Lullatone (haha), April Smith, Blaqstarr, Datarock, Melissa Etheridge, Modest Mouse, Tears for Fears, THE VEILS.

Shows: I don't watch television unless I'm at someone else's house. And then I get distracted by all the commercials! :)

Food: Sushi, salads, pesto, fruits, chocolate soymilk, diet pepsi, pretzels, orange juice, spicy hummus, veggie burgers, eggplant, broccoli, garlic bread, chocolate covered pretzels, yogurt, fried zucchini, curried veggies, garlic tuscan bread!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- comfortable silence
- TLOTR as my bedtime story
- comfy boots
- bubble bath
- my rechargeable vibrator = )
- my iphone!
- muuuuuuuuusic
- other people's stories
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The way people think. How we react. The motivation behind our behaviors.

What my cat is staring at.



How to help my little sister overcome her fears. (There's a thousand of them.)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching Netflix
Drinking while watching Netflix
Cleaning while watching Netflix
Reading, texting, playing a board game, taking a bubble bath...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't wear bras.
I cannot tolerate being referred to as a "cat person."

There are a few random things that REALLY turn me on - I'll admit them to you if you happen to possess one of these qualities =D
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
- Polyamory - something you would like in your life. To me, it's not about having sex with anyone I want, but being free to love someone if it happens. I list myself as "available" because I'm never sure when I'll consider myself "seeing someone," and it's all very open to interpretation, anyway = )

- you want to show me how to cook something yummy
- you want to try to beat me at TLOTR trivial pursuit
- you have a strange movie to recommend
- you like sushi =D
- you want me to read you a bedtime story
- Nine Inch Nails makes you just as horny as me (teehee)
- you have music to recommend - something I may not have heard before, but you love
- you are looking for a little strange because that's where you feel at home = )