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47 Bethlehem, PA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–62
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Oct 5
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kids and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
My self-summary
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I am find myself single, in my mid-forties, and have had the chance to reinvent my career (I have been a professional poker player for three years) and my personal life (got divorced 2 years ago, bought my own house, and got the kids on to college). Coming out of a long term relationship, I am open to meeting new people and having the chance to date for the first time in a while.

I am looking for someone who is secure in themselves, has some ambition, and is not afraid to take a chance on on unconventional woman.
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to work as much as possible while balancing some down time and hopefully some social time as well. I tend to be hyper-focused on poker to my detriment, but it's because I want to do the best I can for myself. I know I need to slow down, take a night or two off, etc. Hopefully someone makes me an offer I can't refuse.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking, writing, playing cards, being sarcastic, and enjoying life.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, attitude, whether positive or negative.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read all the time, and I like almost everything; I love music from classic rock to alternative and bluegrass. I like actual food, not processed or chain food, and I love cooking and eating out equally.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my kids
my support network of friends
Las Vegas
Hearing my favorite song played live
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing cards, then heading out with friends, or home for a Pinot Noir and PJs night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I talk a big game, but I am secretly nice.
You should message me if
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You're open minded, intelligent, like to argue for sport and have ambitions beyond where you are today.