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39 Oxford, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Feb 18
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Masters program
Strictly monogamous
Wants kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly), Indonesian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
If there is such thing as a girlie tomboy that's me. I'm in bliss walking, camping, and getting covered in mud in the garden as well as putting on a pretty dress and having a night out on the town. The countryside feeds my soul and visits to the city make me feel alive - provided they aren't too often. My Border Collie is my partner in crime and my furry best friend.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
This Autumn I started my year out from the hum drum of daily life, and already the office feels in the distant past. I've switched the chaos of the NHS to get closer to nature - a gardening course and a floristry course, both of which I am absolutely loving. Who knows where it will take me - I'm certainly excited about it though. I'm an earthy creative type and I feel very at home around mud and flowers.

This year I've also been doing those things I always wanted to do but didn't have time. I've travelled a lot - to Norway to see the northern lights, to Rome, France, Sweden, Finland, the Netherlands - and I've also spent lots of time chilling out at home. I love wierd local English festivals and the Cheese Rolling in Gloucestershire was the first on my list that I went to. I've still got lots to do - I'd love to go hiking in the Isle of Skye, visit Yosemite National Park, the Grand Canyon, New Orleans, China and Burma.

Dog agility is my newist passion. Who would believe that running around a field directing my collie to jumps through hoops and run through tunnels would be so much fun. My dream is to be able to compete with her, perhaps a pipe dream as focus is not her thing when there is a bird about to chase!!!

I've been a swing dancer (mostly Lindy Hop and Balboa) for years, and I'm often found dancing somewhere in the world. I'll always be a swing dancer - no interest in salsa, tango, jive or ballroom, the music just doesn't inspire me at all.

My dog, home, family and friends are really important to me. My garden and walks in the countryside are my bread and butter of life. I love to travel but it is home which makes me feel grounded.

Eventually I've reached the stage in life that I want to find the right man, settle down and have kids - but in a slightly more alternative way. I'm not sure what that looks like, but it's definately not doing a part time job in an office. I also feel very strongly that having kids doesn't mean not living or having fun. For me it means exploring life with a similar vigour yet in an adapted way with little people in tow.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Not taking myself too seriously, cooking provided I follow a recipe (never ever ask me to do a 'ready steady cook' - if you do a disaster is guaranteed), inspiring people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Well this is what my friends Catherine and Steve both said - unanimously and immediately, which I think (and hope) is a good thing:
Big smile
Zest for life
Passion for the things I enjoy doing
Compassionate nature
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My favorite music is swing and blues but I also have to admit I like cheesy pop, although mostly for long car journeys.

I love trying new food, especially street food in far flung places. I'm pretty open minded - fennel is about the only thing which is a definite no.

I like reading books about real life stories like Touching the Void.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Number 1 is my dog. She's my best friend and bags of fun. Her love of life and her ability to communicate with me even though she is a different species never ceases to amaize me.

Number 2 is the countryside - particularly woods. I could never live somewhere where I had to get in a car to get out into the wild.

Number 3 - my garden

Number 4 - swing dancing and swing music

5,6 - gosh I'm not sure.

BUT the things I would like to be able to do without are mobile phones, computers, and cars.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- Good food I can cook, or try
- The fun things I can do in the future
- How lovely it is having time to do what I want, when I want.
- How my dog has turned from being a chaotic nightmare into a sweet loving creature.
- How long I can make this happy bliss I'm in last for
- Will I meet someone I really get on with via the internet - lots of my friends have, so I know it's possible.
- What else do I want to do with my year off
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
There is no typical Friday night. I might be out dancing, watching a movie in front of the fire, or just pottering about at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Meet me and maybe I'll tell you ;-)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live within an hour's drive of Oxford
You are open minded and interested in the world around you
You like dogs and walking in the countryside
You have style and take care of the way you look
Holidays for you are picking a place, packing a bag and seeing what happens and if UK based - with a dog
Living a healthy life is important to you

PS: send me a nice message. If you just say 'hi' or say something like 'you are beautiful' I'm very unlikely to reply.