My desire is to fall in love. To submit myself to my soulmate and relinquish control. I seek the comfort and freedom afforded by gifting my submission to my mate. There is a mutual respect between us, an uncommon bond, sealed with understanding, trust and love. My submissiveness will be a very private thing, yet the idea of small public displays of the power dynamic in public will also be exciting - displays that only we would understand - like you holding tight to my wrist in public or a necklace that only you and I know is really a collar.
You: A strong, handsome, successful man with an air of domination about him. Kind hearted, intelligent, passionate, sexual, sensual, and admires the woman he dominates. Someone who can be very gentle and sensitive when I need it, and very strict when I want it. NOT someone who hates or wishes to hurt women. NOT married, separated or looking for a fling, one-night stand or FWB.
This component of me and the relationship I seek isn't all there is about me; I am a very creative, energetic, socially conscious, professionally successful, active woman, but I think it's important to be up front about the depth of the committed relationship I am seeking. I seek authentic intimacy, connection on all levels - intellectual, emotional, as well as connection in the very special private relationship we will have.