I'm a bear... In my own book, that's a stocky guy, who's kinda hairy, masculine, and bisexual.

I'm polyamorous. I am married to a life partner, and I would like more partners, for a short time, or for a long time.

I put a little bit in my journal here about what polyamory means to me and how the term "open marriage" applies, but perhaps not in the way you might think.

My life is pretty fluid, moving with the ebbs and flows of things around me. My outlook on life is not fixed, I have many interests and eagerly listen to others' views.

I'm kind of a homebody but I can be easily convinced to get out and about. Typically if someone shows interest in my company, and the feeling is reciprocated, I won't hesitate! hehe

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I am a bear, committed, and handy

Working hard, payin the bills, and making new friends.

I'm starting to get back into metalworking and welding. It's time I stretch my creative side a bit.

Non-smoker for OVER SIX YEARS now. I feel really great about that accomplishment. Now I'm on the fitness journey. I didn't want to begin it until I was ready to live it. I've decided to make some lifetime decisions on eating and exercise.

I am hoping to reduce my job's impact on my health and bring more focus on spirituality back into my life.

Building stuff out of metal. Hopefully I can get back into swordmaking, which I used to do ages ago. Computers... Networks all that crap. I'm kind of a fixit-type fellow. I enjoy helping others.

I'm quite a planner too. I actually enjoy making plans, setting goals and organizing things & people.

Lately I have started playing around with techno music. I've done a couple songs and I find it's something I really feel a sense of accomplishment making.

I'm bald! :) shaved even. But I have an easy smile and I fit in pretty well.

I seem to be pretty approachable since people tend to approach me. I'm not exactly sure what that's all about.

Uhm... LOTR... That's probly the best. I am a Star Wars and Star Trek geek of course. Good movies are hard to come by anymore. You'd think that Hollywood's originality has been squeezed dry. LOL Fave music is ((Currently crazy for Mumford & Sons )) grungy alternative, and foods are anything exotically flavored. I love indian, thai, mexican, foods. All that said, a nice meaty pizza is da bomb anytime. Hehe

Love, and a feeling of belonging. Someone to share life with is very important to me.

I have to have freedom too. Nothing gets me anxious faster than feeling I am prevented from doing what I want to do.

I'm not too beholden to material items, but I'd be pretty put out without my music collection!

Lately, how to make my lifestyle healthier. I have a goal to live long enough to be excused for being a dirty old man. Of course if I find someone to put up with my little perverted mind, then all the better!

Playing games (separately or together) with my family. I hope to change that by adding "Going out with (your name), and/or some friends to dance/watch people/get silly/drink/etc." hehe

I've actually been going out a lot more often lately. Becoming less and less a homebody all the time!

I have one hell of a kinky streak. I reserve it because it's not who I am. I'm quite happy with a vanilla sexual life, but there's something behind the door if you are interested in opening it with me.

You want someone to talk to. I'm a good listener. Maybe you want to know about polyamory, or compersion? Heck I'm a pretty open-minded guy, talk to me about anything!