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I'm a bear... In my own book, that's a stocky guy, who's kinda hairy, masculine, and bisexual or gay.
I'm polyamorous. I am married to a life partner, and I have an other significant other. I'm looking for the guy that's missing right now. He could be here for a short time, or for a long time.
I put a little bit in my journal here about what polyamory means to me and how the term "open marriage" applies, but perhaps not in the way you might think.
I'm very sex-positive; but not sex-obsessed. The best relationships I have had started as friendships and I love the best relationships.
I enjoy going out and meeting people, I'm more extroverted than I am introverted and I'm not afraid to jump up on stage and belt out some lyrics in karaoke.
My personal/quiet time is really valuable to me too. I don't need constant interaction with people but I also don't like constant solitude. I feel like I move between those two states (and everywhere in between) easily and I'm rarely stuck in any for very long.
I really like to have fun and when I'm in my "zone" I can make a fun time of just about anything.
My life is pretty fluid, moving with the ebbs and flows of things around me. My outlook on life is not fixed, I have many interests and eagerly listen to others' views.
More words: polyamory veteran family travel ocean pagan poly polyfi karaoke
Happy to say I have amazing, rewarding and loving relationships with two women; my wife and my girlfriend. I'm hoping to find that one special guy that will help fulfill that part of my life is missing.
Non-smoker for OVER FOURTEEN YEARS now. I feel really great about that accomplishment. Self-improvement is of course a constant challenge, I believe that we never stop learning so I try to keep an open mind.
I'm quite a planner too. I actually enjoy making plans, setting goals and organizing things & people.
Troubleshooting is second nature to me. Regardless of if it's computers, mechanics or even relationships, many of my friends rely on my help in understanding and working with the problems the world throws at us and I'm always happy to help.
I am also pretty approachable and friendly. I meet people easily and enjoy chatting when I'm feeling particularly extroverted.
I have to have freedom too. Nothing gets me anxious faster than feeling I am prevented from doing what I want to do.
I'm not too beholden to material items, but I'd be pretty put out without my music collection!
I've actually been going out a lot more often lately. Becoming less and less a homebody all the time!
As far as relationships go, I'm always open to meeting new people and seeing where things go. I have been very successful in approaching relationships with no expectations and talking with my partner to choose a path together rather than relying on society or "just what everyone else does" as a guide.