Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


33 Holyoke, MA Woman


Similar users

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:03pm
Seeing Someone
5' 5" (1.66m)
Post grad
Might want kids
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I love how cooking/sharing a meal can create great conversation and I have established some of my best friends this way.
I work as a therapist and Autism specialist. Trying to remain passionate while also doing the best job I can do.
I grew up near Boston but fell in love with the valley during my undergraduate program at Umass.
I value my friendships as much as any other type of relationship in my life- perhaps some would call this my "chosen family"
I always seem to rationalize why taking another class will be beneficial so have become a perpetual student.
I would love to open a cafe or restaurant some day where all types of folks work and create community
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to figure out the next steps.....
Spending time with friends
Going on adventures with my pup
Cooking yummy food, especially with food from my farm share
Appreciating 'the moment' and time to relax
Focusing on me and where I want to be
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Understanding people, listening, communicating and good conversations, keeping a planner up to date, cooking, and laughing
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Smile or Eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books- The Poisonwood Bible, the Sweetness at the Bottom of the Pie, Frames of Mind, Curious Incident of the Dog In the Nighttime, Dress Your Family in Corduroy and Denim, Kite Runner, Stones into Schools, and Gender Trouble

Movies-Moonrise Kingdom, Pitch Perfect, Unmistaken Child, Elf, Bridget Jones, Rainman, Charlie Bartlett

Shows-six feet under, brothers and sisters, Big Bang theory, Parenthood, Scandal, the sing off, anything on the food network, new girl, master chef

Food- sushi, tacos, seafood, yummy veggies

Music-there is so much music I love but I will name some- James Taylor, Ingrid Michelson, Lake Street Drive, Pentatonix, Mumford and Sons, Lorde, Kate Nash, Paul Simon, 90s boy bands, Tegan and Sara, Lady GaGa, Fergie, Rihanna, Ray LaMontagne, Pink, Katy Perry, Daft Punk, Justin Timberlake, Nina Simone, Portishead, Sara Bareilles, Regina Spektor, Ben Folds........
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Books, coffee, whiskey, post-it notes, friends, and road trips

But also, alone time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- my new puppy!
-The universe, interpersonal dynamics, sexuality/gender, how I can be the best at my job, how I can be the best me without my job
-Making a to do list
-How to save money so I can travel to all the places I want to see
- sex
-how to make people happy
-what it means to be queer
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having good conversations with friends, sometimes over drinks
Or watching something good on Netflix
Or reading
Or cooking
Or singing and dancing out at a bar
Or in a book store
Or driving around, maybe to a new place
Or hosting game night (I love board games!)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm obsessed with acapella
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to meet up for a drink or coffee.

I tend to be interested in more masculine of center folks. I also find good conversation and intelligence to be very attractive. If you'd fit all these categories, I certainly hope to hear from you : )