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23 F Elyria, OH

My Details

Last Online
Oct 28, 2013
Native American, White, Other
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Hi! My name is Stacy :) Before anything else happens, read this stuff here:
My profile is MY profile; stop criticizing me for what I've written. My photos are really me; stop saying they're fake. If you don't like how I look or what I have written, just please pass on to the next profile. Thanks. Also, I'M NOT HERE FOR SEX! I'm here for friends. Now, with that said...
I'm really only looking for local people.

I'm a pretty average girl with some eccentric ideas about life. I'm adventurous. I'm truly bisexual/pansexual, not because it's "hot" or because it is the trend these days, but because I'm simply attracted to both men and women. Many people don't understand me, and I'm not really sure why-- I'm not that complex. I just like to make myself understood. I'm friendly. I love helping people. When I'm insulted, I tend to rip the person that insulted me apart. I don't take BS from anyone. I'm shy, but when asked my opinion, I'll give it and not care who is offended. I'm not a fake and I don't pretend for anyone.
I seem to have the lowest self esteem of anyone I know. And I'm not proud of it. I was raised by my mother telling me I look like an idiot and will never get anywhere in life. And after 18 years of it, I have no choice but to believe it. It's whatever. I don't really care what people think of me, to be honest. Call me ugly, I'll just agree. And you can call me cute til you're blue in the face but I really can't believe anyone these days, since they just say it to get in my pants. I look in the mirror and see nothing but fat.
But I'm trying to fix that. I've become basically pescetarian (vegetarian plus fish). I no longer eat pork or beef EVER and poultry only when I can't get enough fish for a healthy diet. And I'm losing weight.
I'm slowly becoming happier with myself.

A sidenote- I love tattoos and piercings, but nothing gross or drastic: just the meaningful stuff. Body modifications fascinate me. I have four tattoos (an ankh on my lower left back, the Deathly Hallows symbol behind my right ear, a pawprint/antlers/full moon for Padfoot/Moony/Prongs on my left thigh, and an evil Cheshire cat on my left shoulderblade), 3 self-scarifications (a heart on one ankle, an ankh on the other, and the Deathly Hallows on my right thigh), and my left industrial is pierced as well as the right side of m nose and both earlobes twice; I have several more planned tattoos, as well as piercing my right cartilage x3, lip, tongue, and possibly my navel, if I can ever achieve a flat tummy. I obviously have a LOT of work still to get done but I'm slowly becoming who I want to be on the outside :)

I am fiery, openminded, determined, quirky, honest, and insecure. =]
What I’m doing with my life
I'm head server at a little southern style restaurant called Jenni Juggs in Avon Lake. It's a fried chicken-and-cornbread kinda place run by my crazy 27 year old ginger boss Jennifer. I love my job.
I'm financing a car and saving up for more tattoos :P
I just enrolled at LCCC recently, but it's a bit late to start right away, so in the meantime I'll be figuring out my basic classes and financial aid. Hopefully within a year, I will be going to college for Clinical Laboratory Science Technology and Microbiology for my major as well as a culinary minor. It has been my dream ever since reading certain medical thriller books and discovering my mother's med school dermatology and diagnosis books in her basement, and culinary is amazing and can open many doors as far as hobbies and jobs go. Plus, I don't want to be the kind of mom that cooks chicken nuggets and hot dogs and mac'n'cheese for her kids. I want to make gourmet meals that are healthy and pretty and delicious when I have a family someday.
I believe that if there is a universal virus that kills us all, it will be a government experiment gotten out of hand, much like the superflu/project Blue/Captain Trips/tubeneck in Stephen King's THE STAND. That book, Edgar Allan Poe's THE MASQUE OF THE RED DEATH, and Robin Cook's OUTBREAK are the reason I wish to enter the field.
I’m really good at
making people smile, helping people open up, keeping secrets, memorizing seemingly meaningless facts, and photography. Also, I must mention that I am a mass murderer of chocolate cherry liqueurs... I freakin' love those things. Chilled gummy bears soaked in vodka are pretty damn tasty, too.

I am also very good at standing up for what I believe in. If something is on my page that you disagree with, or think will send me straight to hell, I would suggest you not bring it up to me. I have the facts to back myself up, and I really don't care what YOUR religion says about MY afterlife. :) Capisce?
The first things people usually notice about me
As far as looks, people usually notice my eyes and dimples when I smile. Oh, and lately, my hair, since I finally got it shaped and colored back to my favorite red :D
As far as personality, they notice I am often quirky, sometimes quiet, and always expressive.
I have different ideas about life, I've been told, and I'm often hyperactive... I don't let any of it get in my way, I just use my energy to cheer people up and liven up boring situations.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Any sort of medical thriller, such as those written by Robin Cook, Stephen White, or Michael Palmer, or any Stephen King novel are my favorites... My favorite author is Jean M. Auel for her Earth's Children series.

My favorite movies usually are zombie flicks; I've loved George A. Romero's work since I was a child watching The Night of the Living Dead. I love comedy and fantasy, and the occasional Disney movie can still hold my interest and bring back childhood memories. Another thing: I am a HUGE fan of Bollywood movies... any movie starring Aishwarya Rai and/or Abhishek Bachchan and/or Hrithik Roshan has me watching all 3 hours that the movies usually run. I absolutely love Hindi movies and culture.

I love any type of music, as long as it isn't "growler" or death metal such as Dethklok or Rammstein... I hate noise like that. Otherwise, I love anything Hindi, Spanish, or Irish... My favorite artist is Enya.

Hmm... my favorite foods are sushi, quiche and crablegs. For dessert, I love cheesecake and chocolate covered cherries. Yum.
The six things I could never do without
I hate being without internet access, it's my main line of communication, so I couldn't do without my laptop... My cell phone is another staple. I'm addicted to texting, and I freak out if I'm out of contact with people... I'm very dependent on interaction with other people. I'm not all about technology, however: I couldn't live without my cats- I love animals. I couldn't live without books- I'm an avid reader. And I certainly couldn't do without friends. I don't have many true and close ones, but the few I have mean the world to me. Another thing I always have to have is my camera. I LOVE photography. And finally-- my Egyptian ankh. The symbol of eternal life and femininity. It is my personal good luck charm and my chosen symbol.
Alternatively, I could trade my ankh for Harry Potter. As ridiculous as that sounds, with my hard and very restricted childhood, I used books as an escape. Hiding in Harry's world of magic got me through my severely restricted teenage years. And that's why I have an entire thigh piece planned to dedicate to anything Harry Potter-related.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I think about the future a lot. I want children, badly... but not as badly as I want to get started in college, and start working towards my dream. Children aren't an option until after marriage, anyway, and I made that decision a LONG time ago.
I also spend probably 50% of my day thinking about losing weight. I'm pretty obsessed with the idea, as disturbing as that is. That, and getting all my body modifications. I want my tattoos and piercings done oh-so-badly, but money comes in slowly.
On a typical Friday night I am
These days, Friday nights are no different from the rest of the week. They all run together. I live day-by-day, and rarely plan ahead beyond my work schedule. I'm either at work, at home watching movies, or I'm at a friend's house just hanging out.
Occasionally I'll catch a ride to a party or go for a late-night escapade to cause harmless mischief with a few of my crazier friends.
I'm a nightowl. I love the nightlife when I can find it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm an open book... I don't keep much about myself private.
I'm soteriophobic and severely pocrescophobic.
Meaning I fear being dependant on people, and I am horribly afraid of gaining weight...
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you've actually taken the time to read my entire profile, and not just looked at my pics, you might be worth my time. I want to find someone that likes me for me, not my looks-- not that there's much to appreciate in that department anyway.
I'm here looking for friends, not a relationship. I'm currently taken, and unless that changes, I'm only looking for something strictly platonic. I'm very friendly and open. I'll talk to nearly anybody :)

I really like people that have something special to offer. Someone with cute little quirks, or special interests, or unusual skills. I like people that can stand out in the crowd, and yet blend in when they want to-- Like myself.
I like scene/emo, I like jocks, I like gamers and cool normal people. In other words, I don't really have a type- but I do have certain things I look for. Smart. Funny. Ambitious. Playful.
Basically I look for someone who has goals and is going somewhere in life, but who isn't afraid to stop and party a bit, have some fun, wrestle on the floor, go for a midnight drive, sing random songs, etc. I LOVE spontaneity!