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32 M Fresno, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 12:07pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
My name is Ryan. It is derived from Irish or Gaelic and means "descendant of the king" or "little king." It is interesting how our names define us. For example, I am fiercely loyal and protective of my friends and loved ones. I am constantly striving to be the peacemaker. I am the first to attempt to "right a wrong" or to repair or improve the world around me to better the lives of myself and all around me. I am not arrogant, but confident in my ability to lead and help others. I care for the well being of others, sometimes to my own detriment. I am occasionally headstrong, but with good intent, and purpose. I am: a poet, martial artist, masseuse, mechanic, handyman, chauffeur, geek, admitted hopeless romantic, and friend.

Born in Oregon, raised in Montana, and residing in California, I've seen the 48 continental states through the windshield of an eighteen-wheeler; sunsets along the Grand Canyon; lightning storms across the Salt Flats; I've watched the rain fall in the Redwoods, and gotten lost in the Everglades.

I've built homes, and also torn buildings down. I've helped feed and cloth those less fortunate, and been on the other end of it as well. I've been married and now unfortunately divorced after a 7 year relationship.

I've been cheated, slandered, and kicked while I was down. But I've also been honored, trusted, and helped up off my knees. I have lived life, perhaps not always to my fullest capability, but always with the hope that tomorrow will see a new day and a better me.

And so here I am, not yet the final product, but still a work in progress.
What I’m doing with my life
I have earned my COMPTIA A+ and Network+ internationally accredited certifications through self study. I am currently pursuing a career in the IT industry as a Network Technician/Administrator. I am also in (very early)development of an Indie Game
I’m really good at
Seeing beauty in the simplest things. Making improvements and repairs around the house. Being a good friend and companion. Keeping physically fit(this one is pretty dang easy I must say). Creating poetry and prose. Dreaming up adventures. Turning the mundane into romantic. Listening, not just hearing, but listening and digesting what is said. Resolving conflict calmly, with critical thinking, before it becomes "a mountain out of a molehill". Fixing/Building/Upgrading/Tinkering with computers, and their hardware and software. I am my circle of friends' resident techie. I'm also very good at seeing inventive solutions to problems, such as how to pace this block of text.
The first things people usually notice about me
I look younger than my years, nothing reflects this more than being carded to buy a copy of Diablo III video game.
Maybe it's my quick grin, or perhaps my inquisitive nature. If we meet up it will probably be a first date question now.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: I enjoy all genres of books, preference being educational/textbooks, fantasy, and science fiction. Some of my favorite authors are Terry Brooks, Ari Marmell, R.A. Salvatore, Ursula K. LeGuin, Robert Jordan, Tracy Hickman and Margaret Weise.

Movies: About the only genre of movie I don't thoroughly enjoy is musicals, and I do enjoy a couple of those such as Chicago, and Moulin Rouge. Some of my favorites include The Princess Bride, Monty Python; The Quest for the Holy Grail, and Life of Brian, Fight Club, Ip Man 1 and 2, TMNT, Ninja Assassin.

Shows: Among the very few television shows I watch, educational, and forensic rank highest. Shows such as Mythbusters, How It's Made, Sliced, National Geographic, NCIS, CSI, Criminal Minds, Burn Notice, besides these, Walking Dead, Family Guy, Simpsons, and SouthPark.

Music: 3 Doors Down, Three Days Grace, Sublime, Sublime with Rome, Godsmack, The Black Keys, Garth Brooks, John Micheal Montgomerey, George Strait. Kenny Rogers, Kenny Chesney, Trisha Yearwood, Korn, Evanescence, Goo Goo Dolls, Eminem, Dr. Dre, Linkin Park, Red Hot Chili Peppers, SoundGarden, Savage Garden, and more but this is a pretty diverse selection so you can see what I enjoy.

Food: I am open to just about any kind of food. My stomach and I disagree on the subject of Pork, I think its awesome, my stomach does not. I have tried seafood several times and decided it's not for me. The closest I'll get to it now is tuna fish sandwiches and fish sticks.. I am not picky about my food as long as its not pork, fish, or charcoal. Ok, I guess that makes me kind of picky, haha.
The six things I could never do without
I don't think there's anything I could "never do without." Aside from the necessities for life of course.

Six things I would not enjoy doing without are:
The largest library in the world, the internet.
The ability to control my own motor functions.
Human interaction.
The great medicinal herb known as Cannabis.
My family.
Someone to snuggle and share dreams with.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Honestly, Video games. I have been a game designer and hobbyist programmer for many years. I love strategy and simulation games, and the challenge of bringing the whole game world to life; and to convey a story or experience that is unique or addictively fun.
On a typical Friday night I am
usually hanging out with my son who stays with his mother during the week. I am available most week nights, though I'm not a fan of bars or clubs unless they have a billiards table. Even then I'd rather just go to a Billiard hall.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
.. is you will have to get to know me to discover anything I consider private.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Okay, you should definitely message me if:
~You are planning world domination, or at least the entire tri-state area.
~You know next weeks winning lottery numbers, the day I'll die, and how, or if you have proof of sentient life from an extraterrestrial source.
~If my mini-novel has not bored you to sleep yet.
~If you laughed at all while reading this, what could it hurt to let me know you chuckled? ;-)

Also I am 420 friendly if you just want to chat sometime while smoking some herb.

All joking aside, I've you like what you've read, or want to know more, just ask.