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41 Hayward, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40-64
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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Sometimes shy, usually outgoing, serious & silly. Love to laugh & smile, don't like socks and prefer not to wear shoes. Always up for an adventure/new experiences. I have a pretty intense job so I like to be carefree when not @ work. I have 1 teenagers (that I like most of the time!) who is almost out of the house and 1 young adult who is out on her own; both of which is exhilarating & terrifying all at the same time.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
"living my life like it's golden", maintaining an attitude of gratitude, having fun & when it's rough remembering that this too will pass
Remembering "everyone loves the sunshine"
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being silly, following recipes, hosting parties, being a friend, raising well-rounded kids, going barefoot, painting rooms, driving fast cars, making a kickass cup of coffee or tea, being quiet, making salads: potatoe or green.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My hair if it's free,, great smile, "hips & dips" and on a warm day maybe my art if one is observant and apparently my "flirtatious eyes".... Does anyone else think flirting is a lost art?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Lord of the Rings trilogy, bell hooks love trilogy, Paulo Coehlo, Carlos Ruiz Zafon, The Name of the Wind, hangmans daughter
Movies: KungFu Hustle, Dogma, Lord of the Rings, Pan's Labryinth, Boondock Saints, Iron Giant
Music: on a Takuya Kuroda & Jose James kick right now...
Prince, Bob Marley, John Coltrane, Nina Simone, Black Keys, A Band Called Pain, A Tribe Called Quest, Alabama shakes, alice smith, the Wu, little dragon
Food: up to try most anything but I love dark chocolate, good cheese & bread
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
talking w/my kids & family, sun/outdoors, books, laughter/love/affection, functioning body, good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
All kinds of things. Can i actually clean my own gutters (I did hence the current profile picture); how long will it take me to created own grey water conservation system;
My carbon footprint, the legacy I will leave, what color to dye my hair,
when Patrick Rothfuss will come out with a new book, whether or not going to an A's game wearing 49er colors will be as fun as I think it might...
as I said, all kinds of various & sundry things
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
hanging out w/friends, my 2 kids or just w/myself, @ work, dancing, singing, reading a book, watching a movie
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I can burp with the best sometimes...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My eclectic weirdness has piqued your interest; if you decided you "like" me and are interested in chatting/meeting/sending notes back and forth via okcupid reminiscent of back in the day when I was young....