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44 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 29
5′ 0″ (1.52m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I do my best to come from the heart... always.
On paper (screen?) I come across as a new age, burner, hippie type, and I suppose I am in some ways, but having been born and raised in nyc I am required by law to have a sense of humor about myself. In short, I have become everything I used to make fun of...and pretty happy about it.
I have a spiritual practice but couldn't give you a name for it, just feel deeply connected to spirit and to my ancestors.

And this:
"This magnificent refuge is inside you.
Enter. Shatter the darkness that shrouds the doorway…
Be bold. Be humble.
Put away the incense and forget
the incantations they taught you.
Ask no permission from the authorities.
Close your eyes and follow your breath
to the still place that leads to the
invisible path that leads you home."
~ St. Theresa of Avila
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have a shamanic healing practice and am also a massage therapist.
I've been trying to get a small business going. I make crystal/vibrational essences and sprays. They're awesome, you should try one!
Part of my work is helping people connect with the wisdom of their ancestors through divination. It can be potent, exciting, and fun. I love what I do!

I am inspired by life and am always learning about myself.
When I'm not out trying to save the world you'll find me tearing it up on the dance's my therapy and I start to get a little funny if I go to long with out it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smiling, making you feel at home...
Creating magical altars and spaces
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hmmm, eyes or smile?
My height, or lack there of?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
One of my all time favorite movies is Night of the Hunter...
I can be kind of a movie geek...I love old movies (see above), cheesy as well as good sci-fi/fantasy, Jim Jarmusch, Terry Gilliam, prefer dark or smart comedies to slapstick ...unless we're talking Marx Brothers, I can also appreciate big blockbusters with lots of explosions. I hated Forest Gump and am not afraid to say it.

I read a lot and tend to have a few books going at once. I like a good balance of fiction and non-fiction. Been digging the Game of Thrones series, am currently reading The Spell of the Sensuous ~ David Abram, Tiny Beautiful Things ~ Cheryl Strayed,
What little tv I watch comes through the computer...Game of Thrones, Face Off, and The Walking Dead mostly.

Amon Tobin, Bonobo, Tipper, Tripswitch, Ajja, Dj Krush, Ishq, Chet Faker, The Polish Ambassador, Lulacruza, Wilco, Gogol Bordello, Fugazi, Radiohead, Jeff Buckley, Sufjan Stevens, Beastie Boys, Yo La Tengo, Dinosaur Jr., Low, Dirty Three, Tribe Called Quest, David Bowie, Burial, Jolie Holland, X, Neko Case... ;)
Currently on repeat:

I am gluten free, it's an allergy not a lifestyle choice. I miss beer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends
My family
A really good book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, the universe, and, really
I spend a lot of time in self reflection. In order to be of better service to those who come to see me in my practice, I have to clear out my own dark corners. Some call this shadow work. Not as gruesome as it sounds but it is hard work, something I'm not afraid of.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends, out dancing, watching a movie, or reading
Pretty much what the rest of y'all do!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I once auditioned for Jeopardy! ( No I didn't get on it, but it was pretty funny)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
the mood strikes you...
you are passionate about life and at the same time don't take it all so dang seriously..
You are willing to see me for who I am, not who you would like me to be..
You can get with this ;) :