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30 Hillsboro, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28-38
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:16pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Other and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Sign Language (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I am a gamer girl, a bookworm, an intellectual. I make beautiful art, sing constantly, and find it easy to be a good person. I love savory food and mixed drinks and laughing. If I am your friend, there isn't anything I wouldn't do for you. But I have a hard time forgiving if my trust is broken.
I think people who play mind games ruin dating for the rest of us, and if you can't pick up a book at least once a month then there is something wrong with you.
I am passionate about music, and history, and nature.
I am in a Poly relationship with my husband, rusted4justice.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, for the most part. Playing video games. Looking for new books, and jewelry ideas, and music that I haven't heard before. Making fun of my cat, who has one eye and pretends she doesn't care. Pretending to be an adult.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being easily distracted. Making giant messes. Wearing pretty dresses. Unintentionally rhyming. Being a good friend. Quietly quoting movies to myself while playing video games without realizing that I am doing it.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My pretty black and red and purple hair tends to get compliments, especially when it catches the light just right. Other than that, I have no idea, you would have to ask people. I don't think I am people, and I hardly notice things about myself that are worth mentioning.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books... All the books. Fantasy, art, history. Sci-fi is hard for me to get into, although there have been exceptions. Same goes for horror. I don't like war books.

My favorite movies are Labyrinth, Legend and Pan's Labyrinth, although I am also a big fan of the Lord of the Ring series, and comic book movies. All the comic book movies!

My favorite shows are Downton Abbey and Vikings, Sherlock and Penny Dreadful. And Supernatural, as long as you accept that their word revolves around demon possession and daddy issues... Because it does, and it's amazing.

I don't have a favorite music, since I love almost anything at different points in time. I do have a hard time getting into bluegrass and some country, and the same goes for most dance/eletronica/Skrillix.

My favorite food is either pad thai or chicken makhani, but I am a big fan of most ethnic food. I can't really handle spicy food anymore, but I enjoy it in VERY small doses.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My husband, who cherishes me every day.
My books, because they are the knowledge of the world.
Music, because it lightens the spirit.
Food, to nourish my body
Water, for it is the source of life
My cat, for the crazy Valkyrie bitch protects me from anything. Mostly plastic and fairies.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work. Finding the time to do all the things I want to do, and the money to do them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Getting ready for gaming, or whatever other weekend plans I have. Enjoying not working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love Sailor Moon, and Gilmore Girls, and secretly make jewelry only because it means that I have an endless supply for myself and people won't have to buy it for me. No really, I am a sucker for stereotypical gentlemanly gestures. Flowers on a first date, opening doors for me, etc.
You should message me if
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You are someone who can dazzle me with intellectual discourse. I am a complete sapiosexual, so I get turned on by being intellectually stimulated. Take me to a museum, talk to me about anthropology and geology, and who knows what will happen!