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67 West Linn, OR Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 55–75
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:45pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Post grad
Has kids
English (Fluently), Dutch (Somewhat), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), Portuguese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
We've all learned to assess each other for an appropriate level of intellectual rapport, an affirming political affinity, the titillation of sexual chemistry, reasonably complementary interests, compatible life goals, and the eagerly sought but rarely found sense of humor. What about an authentic heart connection, someone who is genuinely seeking a life of shared joys and sorrows and not just a temporary fix for whatever ails them today?

Academic adventurer, blues buff, bi-sensual though not bi-sexual, creative, discriminating, enthusiastically engaged in each encounter, financially flexible for foreseeable future, genuine, honest, hedonistic, intellectual, idealistic, jazz junkie, kind (at some K frequency), literate rarely literal, more often metaphorical, myopic, musical, neither HWP nor nubile, optimistic, passionately present with a polyamorous past, quirky, Rubenesque, suddenly sixty-seven, sensual, selectively sexual, spiritual, treasure, unique, verbal perhaps verbose, wonder (full of), (e)xuberant, youthful, zany.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm hooked on books, immersed in verse, mired in metaphors. When I'm not reading, I'm writing. Catching the latest independent film, art exhibition, live jazz, blues or folk music performance. Planning long road trips and then going spontaneously off track. Camping under the stars at three day music festivals. Exploring the National Wildlife Refuges on my travels. Subverting the dominant paradigm. Asking probing question of myself and others. Organizing book clubs, dreaming up workshops, participating in salons to raise the level of discourse in my local community.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Discovering the connection between the small details and the big picture, making sense of the personal and the political.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The curl in the middle of my forehead? My hair tends to be how I'm most frequently remembered.

"And when she was good
She was very, very good..."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Getting Real: 10 Truth Skills You Need to Live an Authentic Life, If the Buddha Dated, Nonviolent Communication, and of course, beautifully crafted works of fiction.

Films: Everything from "Adaptation" to " Z"

Music: Blues, Jazz, Classical, 60's Rock, R&B, Folk, Bluegrass. Anything that lends itself to singing (even country-western) and dancing (though I seriously need lessons if it requires a partner).

Food: Ethnic (sushi, Thai, Japanese, Ethiopian, Indonesian, Greek, Italian, French)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My iPhone, my iPod, my ISP, my iNstincts and my iDealism (and my apparent iNability to count to 6!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why am I here? How do I want to use the time I've been allotted?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
usually alternating between social events and solo events. Both have something to offer.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm very fond of exploratory questions and pay careful attention to the answers.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would enjoy a good conversation. That could be over a glass of wine, a mug of root beer, or cup of coffee (chai, latté, or mocha). The beverage n'importe pas, eh? Or we could simply saunter down the waterfront, people-watching, telling stories about who we are and were we've been before this day.

Things always begin with the chemistry of friendship. I bring no expectations of more than friendship yet I always arrive with an unwavering optimism that something more can often be found in the most unexpected places, at the least likely times, with someone with whom there is the potential for a deeper connection.