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01SweetiePeye

51 Ridgewood, NJ Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:07pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Welcome.
Thank you for stopping by and reading my profile.
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'Cliff Notes' Of SweetiePeye:
I'm as Modest as one can be, in an Online Profile. ;-)))
More important than a pretty face..... I'm
**Warm, Sweet & Loving,... ;-)
**Lots of Fun, & a Very Fine woman...........


My Personality? Okcupid says, I'm "More".... 21 times!
....I'm a Deviation From the Mean.. so, I'm Not Mean ;-))).....
.............& 'My Match & I' are fine with More... ;-)))
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...........You have Smarts, Wisdom, & a Sense of Humor .........
.......You have Good Character &are thoughtful: a Mensch...

Email...If you see reasons for 'mutual' interest.
......................................................happy reading ;-))
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Let's Enjoy

I. LET'S ENJOY Interests & New Experiences. ;-)
THEY'RE "BETTER WHEN SHARED"
C'est notre raison d'être ici
I welcome your suggestions: ordinary and extraordinary, near or far
We can
see movies, museums, concerts (mmmusic), & shows,
or we can break bread at a restaurant or get cookin at home!
We can enjoy nature and stay healthy if we cycle, swim, golf, ski or walk... I'm not Grizzly Adams or a Sports Fanatic, and not looking for one.
I'm flexible and ready ! UR2. I can plan or be spontaneous.
Details, Details...Let's make them Together

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II. LET'S ENJOY Quiet Times Together. ;-)
RELAXATION, ROMANCE and PASSION.

We can just relax and get cozy
while watching TV (or reading). We can see a news program & discuss current events (polit, econ, environ, TED Talks... ). Other times we keep each other company, whatever we each do. We share what's on our mind. We have a great sense of humor and plenty of fun.;-))))
We choose an exclusive relationship It's in our DNA. We're Not Playahs . MATCHES MATCH"

III. LET'S ENJOY our friends and family ;-)
Let's share Ordinary Days and Holidays.
I welcome your children who probably are young adults by now? I was married for 20 years & you probably had a long term marriage too. I'm a person of fine character, well liked, loyal and loving, through thick and thin. You are too.

We'll begin as friends, &
hopefully, we've found our best friend and love.;-)

Nihil ausus nihil acquisitus (Nothing ventured, nothing gained.)
................. The time is right !
Say Hello ;-)
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Matches "MATCH". IF you have "1st date sex and casual sex",your MATCHes are the women who do this (with you & likely most of their other dates..How else could you have 1st date & casual sex ? )
I don't do this now & I didn't do this when I was younger...(Settling for what's in the moment, who ever he might be, is less than what's required and desired. ....we used to called this a Playah, still do.)
Be a good communicator. If you write about drama, I wonder if your mates talked circles around you. Have backbone. Speak up, respectfully and truthfully.
Life is filled with twists & turns. It's nice to have someone beside you.....for the ups, downs, and all-arounds. ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying friends & family...and soon, hopefully, ..YOU!
music, and movies...
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I'm keeping fit, swimming
year-round. (Newsflash: hooray. I swam a mile, 10/3/13 & again &&...) I (leisurely) cycle. I have 2 bikes: one for you! I've taken a few skiing lessons; and, I have a set of golf clubs...ahhh beautiful Nature. (I'm Not a jock.)
You don't have to do these, but suggest something else.
BONUS: I have a really nice figure.

Work: Mgmt(bizplng,acctg) Volunteer Service: VITA(acctg)
I'm Professional & Personable (Golden Rule, Pay-It-Forward)
I've had very nice accomplishments and I enjoy helping others; so I Mentor College Interns. I also Volunteer during Tax season. I really Enjoy Learning. You do too ! Recently, I began playing the acoustic guitar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Warm, Loving & Fun
organizing, design, logic, learning, and listening
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm warm & welcoming,
I listen very well
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I leap tall buildings in a single bound (you're reading, good ;-)) , so
I find FUN & INTERESTING things to do.
Why not add some of Your ideas !
-I frequent a few venues for music, comedy, plays, movies,
-I enjoy museums, lectures, forums for learning
-I also enjoy hanging out at home, or at a restaurant...
as a couple; or with a group of friends, other couples, and family.
-I enjoy various physical activities in & outdoors (not a jock)
-I can have fun locally, at a resort...out-of-the-country...
-I enjoy Reading a book/kindle, newspaper, journal... a solo or shared pleasure....at home, the beach, ...
-I enjoy being together doing or not doing
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good Health,
Love(of Family, Friends)
Integrity,Respect, Thoughtfulness
Happiness

desired:One Partner
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Some Extras :
a Welcoming Home
TECH, the Arts, Nature, Reading
& swimming
<((((((((=(
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying Healthy, (body & mind),
professional growth, Doing Good,
Having a Wonderful Partnership,
WWWWH: The Economy, Politics, The Social K, & Environment
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the evening....Relaxing, having dinner...
(TV, concert, show, computer, reading, telephone)
***Looking forward to being with you. ***
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Come closer, closer....
**the dates on my pictures are accurate. the age posted is what I was a little bit ago..;-))) SERIOUSLY, I did this because many men are age-phobic!
Be Healthy, well-groomed, and HUMBLE !
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-We seem to be a good MATCH. !
-You're Wise & Warm, Educated & Interesting,
Confident yet Humble, Healthy & Attractive.
-You're a Stand-up Gentleman with a little bit of Wild, just for the Two of Us ! ;-)

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* Guys, please provide useful information in a profile*. Have a good attitude about exchanging some emails. Your picture is necessary.....You're presentable. You exist !
Also, I just moved close-by Manhattan . A bridge isn't an obstacle..... I don't live a plane ride away from you,
nor should I have to 'be convenient'.


EPILOGUE Spring 2014

The details for
Books/Movies/Music/Food

MUSIC !!:You name it.... Pop, R&R, Soft Rock, R&B, BG, MoT, Jazz, Indie, ... Chamber, Classical, Jam...Adele, Gaga, Winehouse, Mclachlan, Mayer, Seal, KT, Beatles, Collins, LosLonelyBoys, Santana, Springsteen, Simon, Clapton, Brubeck, Coltrane,YoYoMa, Mozart... more,!!!!
'ATTENDED RECENTLY'
Alicia Keys, John Mayer, Stevie Wonder, Tony Bennett, Brubeck Bros Qrtt, Bucky & John Pizzarrelli, The Heath Brothers Quartet, Bill Cunliffe Trio, Manhattan Jazz Trio, Alex Collins Jazz, Ring Of Fire:Johnny Cash Tribute Band, Star Wars Symphony (John Williams), Eagles, Billy Joel, Dave Matthews, Genesis, Beatlemania, Legends, and .... more
MUSEUMS: MMA, Gugg, Smithsonian, Louve, Prado, British, FLWright, Paint, Sculpture, Science...Matisse, VanGough, Picasso, Calder...
MOVIES: Many! drama, romance, espionage, sci-fi, comedy, 3D. They're exciting, adventurous, thought provoking.
'ATTENDED RECENTLY'
Birdman, Dr. Cabbie, Gravity, Jobs, The Butler, Blue Jasmine, Elysium, We Are the Millers, Heat, The Way Way Back, SkyFall, MIB, Zero Dark Thirty, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Guilt Trip, Marigold Hotel, Mama, Midnight In Paris, Eternal Sunshine, The Bourne Identity...,many more, TV: Colbert/Stewart, Scandal/Grey's/BigBang/Frasier, PBS/B.Moyers/C.Rose/Discovery.../CNN, MSNBC ...
SHOWS: on/off brdwy, comedy,
'ATTENDED RECENTLY'
Jersey Boys, Memphis, Rock of Ages, Beatlemania, Legends, 25th Annual..., Doubt, Race... MTC, 2nd StageCo, GuggWIP, Comedy:Salazar...
FOOD: All: ethnic to fusion, fine cuisine to fun food...barbeque to sushi to FourSeasons...(let's cook!)...healthy & splurge
VACATIONS: Resorts, In/Out US, Resorts, Conventions, Sight see, Relax, Visit
SPORTS: SWIM, Cycle, Walk, Ski-lite, Golf-lite, Occasional game at a stadium (4/1Opening Day Yankees-baseball, LB James-basketball) I'm Not a jock or Fan-atic.
BOOKS:Many! mostly non-fict: sci, tech, econ, biz, polit, psych, philos... I enjoy reading! It's relaxing
(Kindle, books !, newspapers, magazines, journals, Internet)