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52 Ridgewood, NJ Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

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Last online
Online now!
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5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hot, warm & lovely, and REAL.
WOW How do you know if a man is too OLD to date? He wouldn't date a woman who is his own age
. Nearly all of the old-er men on line, 'search' for women who are 10, 15, 20, 25... years younger than themselves?
(Who are you kidding (ugh)? pun intended)
It's their prerogative to be disrespectful to women, and so now,
OKCUPID & advertisers WELCOME them back online, again & again.

And to the others, who are Wise & Warm: ;-))))))))))))) Healthy & Happy,
who will love and respect their fine contemporaries, vice versa !!!
WELCOME and THANK YOU for stopping by.;-)))))

........Let's see if we could be a 'match'.... ;-) our interests, lifestyle & goals

Attitude, effort & the Profile do matter!
You'll Make a Good Choice.!!!
and, enjoy a relationship that makes your world rock,
and then some... ;-))))

***** Warm, Sweet & Loving,... ;-)
***** Fun, & Fiiiiine , ;-)
***** Classy, Sensual, Sensible & Smart ;-)
I. ......LET'S ENJOY.................. Interests & New Experiences. ;-)
We can enjoy
movies, mmmusic (concerts), museums or shows,
break bread at a restaurant or get cookin at home! mmm
We can enjoy nature & stay active (cycle, swim, golf, ski or walk...)
I'm flexible and ready ! UR2. I can plan or be spontaneous.
Details, Details...Let's make them Together

C'est notre raison d'être ici (It's our reason for coming here!)

II. ......LET'S ENJOY ..............Quiet Times Together. ;-)

We'll relax and get 'cozy',
watch TV or read.
We simply are companions, whatever we do.
We're interested,interesting&attentive
& we share what's on our mind. (life, politics,the environment, TED Talks & more)
We have a great sense of humor and plenty of fun. All kinds of Fun ;-))))
III. ......LET'S ENJOY ..............our friends and family ;-)
Let's share Ordinary Days and Holidays.
I welcome your children who probably are young adults by now? I was married for 20 years & you probably had a long term marriage too. I'm a person of fine character, loyal and loving, through thick and thin. You are too.
We'll begin as friends &hopefully, we've found our best friend & love.
Nihil ausus nihil acquisitus (Nothing ventured, nothing gained.)
................. The time is right ! Say Hello ;-)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying friends & family,and soon, hopefully, ..YOU!

I'm keeping fit, swimming
year-round. (Newsflash: hooray. I swam a mile, 10/3/13 & again &&...) I leisurely cycle. I've taken a few skiing lessons; and, I have a set of golf clubs...ahhh beautiful Nature. Would like a health kick buddy, but not a jock.

I'm Professional & Personable(Golden Rule, Pay-It-Forward)
I've had very nice accomplishments. I Mentor College Interns and Volunteer during Tax season.
I really Enjoy Learning (& so do you) ! Recently, I began playing the acoustic guitar.(piano & clarinet in the distant past) There's plenty we can learn together....& practice, practice, practice !-)))))We're interesting, interested & attentive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a Warm, Loving & Fun, respected & trusted
..............Partner, Friend & Relative, business Associate
Business: organization, design, analyses, management
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my smile. ;-)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I'm warm and bright (lotsa lumens;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-I frequent a few venues for music, comedy, plays, movies,
-I enjoy museums, lectures, hangin-out at home, dining
-I enjoy various physical activities in & outdoors
-I enjoy Reading (book/kindle, newspaper, journal.)
-I can have fun locally, at a resort...out-of-the-country...
-I enjoy being together doing or not doing
Add some of Your ideas for us to enjoy
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good 1 Health,
2 Love
(of Family, Friends)
3 Integrity, Respect, Thoughtfulness, Good Sense
4 Happiness
A Warm & Welcoming 5 Home
??? 6 hmmm,, choose one of ?
..............TECH, the Arts, Nature, Reading..............& swimming <((((((((=(
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sharing a Happy, Healthy, & Wonderful Relationship;-))))
Friends, family, work

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?

the evening.......
staying-in, or going-out
(relaxing and having fun...TV/movie/concert/show/ computer, reading, dinner, hopefully soon with you)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Come closer, closer....tooo many SUPERFICIAL people...Too many older men looking for young women: so 19th Century...Join the 21st Century or stay here forever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm ready to leave this place!
**the dates on my pictures are accurate. the age posted is what I was a little bit ago..;-))) SERIOUSLY, I did this because many men are age-phobic (when they search?). I do see if I'm within your age parameters. Also, if you wouldn't date a woman who is 'Your Age' because "she's too old, then, you're too old too".

If you subscribe to 1st date sex. casual sex, FWB and the likes,
we're not a 'MATCH' !! Too many men seem desperate for sex that they'd have it with women they 'barely' know. A good woman isn't interested in that type of man. (Never will be a match) Character, character, character...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-We seem to be a good MATCH. !
-You'd like to share interests & have new experiences.
-You'd like this next relationship to be the best relationship.
-You're a Stand-up Gentleman
with a little bit of Wild, just for the Two of Us
-You're comfortable with an easy-going, warm, intelligent and attractive woman.

Guys, please provide useful information in a profile.
Have a good attitude about exchanging some emails.
Also, I live close-by Manhattan . A bridge isn't an obstacle.....especially since you all travel, bike & hike distances! A good woman is soo worth your time & effort.

************THE END FINALLY ;-)***********************
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MUSIC !!:You name it.... Pop, R&R, Soft Rock, R&B, BG, MoT, Jazz, Indie, ... Chamber, Classical, Jam...Adele, Gaga, Winehouse, Mclachlan, Mayer, Seal, KT, Beatles, Collins, LosLonelyBoys, Santana, Springsteen, Simon, Clapton, Brubeck, Coltrane,YoYoMa, Mozart... more,!!!!
Alicia Keys, John Mayer, Stevie Wonder, Tony Bennett, Brubeck Bros Qrtt, Bucky & John Pizzarrelli, The Heath Brothers Quartet, Bill Cunliffe Trio, Manhattan Jazz Trio, Alex Collins Jazz, Ring Of Fire:Johnny Cash Tribute Band, Star Wars Symphony (John Williams), Eagles, Billy Joel, Dave Matthews, Genesis, Beatlemania, Legends, and .... more
MUSEUMS: MMA, Gugg, Smithsonian, Louve, Prado, British, FLWright, Paint, Sculpture, Science...Matisse, Van Gogh, Picasso, Calder...
MOVIES: Many! drama, romance, espionage, sci-fi, comedy, 3D. They're exciting, adventurous, thought provoking.
Birdman, Dr. Cabbie, Gravity, Jobs, The Butler, Blue Jasmine, Elysium, We Are the Millers, Heat, The Way Way Back, SkyFall, MIB, Zero Dark Thirty, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Guilt Trip, Marigold Hotel, Mama, Midnight In Paris, Eternal Sunshine, The Bourne Identity...,many more, TV: Colbert/Stewart, Scandal/Grey's/BigBang/Frasier, PBS/B.Moyers/C.Rose/Discovery.../CNN, MSNBC ...
SHOWS: on/off brdwy, comedy,
Jersey Boys, Memphis, Rock of Ages, Beatlemania, Legends, 25th Annual..., Doubt, Race... MTC, 2nd StageCo, GuggWIP, Comedy:Salazar...
FOOD: All: ethnic to fusion, fine cuisine to fun food...barbeque to sushi to FourSeasons...(let's cook!)...healthy & splurge
VACATIONS: Resorts, In/Out US, Resorts, Conventions, Sight see, Relax, Visit
SPORTS: SWIM, Cycle, Walk, Ski-lite, Golf-lite, Occasional game at a stadium (4/1Opening Day Yankees-baseball, LB James-basketball) I'm Not a jock or Fan-atic.
BOOKS:Many! mostly non-fict: sci, tech, econ, biz, polit, psych, philos... I enjoy reading! It's relaxing
(Kindle, books !, newspapers, magazines, journals, Internet)