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51 Ridgewood, NJ Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 48–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:07am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just received an email that causes me to pause. It was from a woman who is warning other women about an okcupid member. All reasonable people know to use the necessary precautions, so don't be offended when women ask for your picture to be posted and for you to provide information in your profile, email at this site and not expect more than is warranted. Please be reasonable and have some patience. To be otherwise, is a flashing Warning sign. Thank you.

Hi .....thank you for stopping by.....
'Cliff Notes' Of SweetiePeye:
I'm as Modest as one can be, in an Online Profile. ;-)))

**Warm, Sweet & Loving, **Pretty Inside&out,
**Sssensuous & Ssssmart, **Lots of Fun and a
**Very Fine woman...................

LET'S ENJOY Interests & New Experiences. ;-)
C'est notre raison d'être ici
Details, Details...we'll make them Together
I welcome your suggestions: ordinary and extraordinary, near or far
We can
see movies, museums, concerts (mmmusic), & shows or break bread at a restaurant or let's get cookin at home!
We can enjoy nature and stay healthy if we cycle, swim, golf, ski or walk... ( I'm not Grizzly Adams or a Sports Fanatic, and not looking for them!!)
I'm flexible and ready ! UR2. I can plan or be spontaneous.

LET'S ENJOY Quiet Times Together. ;-)

We can just relax and get cozy
while watching TV (or reading). We can see a news program & discuss current events (polit, econ, environ, TED Talks... ). Other times we keep each other company, whatever we each do. We share what's on our mind. We have a great sense of humor and plenty of fun.;-))))
We choose an exclusive relationship (love and respect in addition to fun) It's in our DNA. We're Not Playahs looking for 'Casual Sex'. It's great to share life with a wonderful partner.Love is not, an 'instant' emotion with a stranger, (that's Infatuation) so, we use both our minds and hearts.MATCHES MATCH"

LET'S ENJOY our friends and family ;-)
Let's share Ordinary Days and Holidays.
I welcome your children who probably are young adults by now? I was married for 20 years & you probably had a long term marriage too. I'm a person of fine character, well liked, loyal and loving, through thick and thin. You are too.

We'll begin as friends, and
hopefully, we've found our best friend and love.
Say Hello ;-)
Nihil ausus nihil acquisitus
(Nothing ventured, nothing gained.)
................. The time is right!!!

Guys, please provide useful information in a profile. It makes no sense to speak to an absolute stranger from the internet! Also, your picture is do you present yourself to a prospective partner?

Also, I just moved a bit closer to Manhattan (ask me where to !). A bridge isn't an obstacle for a Wise Man.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Enjoying friends & family...and soon, hopefully, ..YOU!
Enjoying music, and movies...

I'm keeping fit,
swimming year-round. (Newsflash: hooray. I swam a mile, 10/3/13 & again...) I (leisurely) cycle. I have 2 bikes: one for you! I've taken a few skiing lessons; and, I have a set of golf clubs...ahhh beautiful Nature. (I'm Not a jock.)
You don't have to do these, but suggest something else.
BONUS: I have a really nice figure.

Work: Mgmt(bizplng,acctg) Volunteer Service: VITA(acctg)
I'm Professional & Personable (Golden Rule, Pay-It-Forward)
I've had very nice accomplishments and I enjoy helping others; so I Mentor College Interns. I also Volunteer during Tax season. I really Enjoy Learning. You do too ! Recently, I began playing the acoustic guitar.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being Warm, Loving & Fun
organizing, design, logic, learning, and listening
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my Smile,
I listen very well

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A LIST of my activities follows the last Question
of the Profile.

I leap tall buildings in a single bound (you're reading, good ;-)) , so
I find FUN & INTERESTING things to do.
Why not add some of Your ideas !
-I frequent a few venues for music, comedy and plays,
-I also enjoy movies
-I enjoy intellectual stimulation at a museum, lecture, news
-I also enjoy hanging out at home, or at a restaurant...
as a couple; and with a group of friends, other couples, and family.
I enjoy various physical activities, in & outdoors
-I can have fun locally, at a resort...out-of-the-country...
I enjoy Relaxing with a book/kindle, newspaper, journal... a solo or shared home, the beach, name it...(just being together doing or not doing, swell)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
of course:
Good Health,....Family,........Friends,
Love,(Family, Friends, ), Humor,.....Thoughtfulness

especially desired:
One Partner WANTED

and some extras :
Art, Science, Nature,
good food (a long list;-),
a welcoming Home,
& swimming
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying Healthy, Personal & professional growth
The Economy, Politics & Environment/Science

where could he possibly be......?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying the evening....Relaxing, having dinner...
(TV, concert, show, computer, reading, telephone)
Looking forward to being with you.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Come closer, closer....
**the dates on my pictures are accurate. the age posted is what I was a little bit ago..;-))) yes and you're fine with that because you're Understanding.
If it's your decision to ignore women YOUR age, (healthy & youthful ;-)... , then you'd miss out on the best of us.

If she does it with you on a first date, she's doing it with the others..... she's desperate, and being taken advantage of by whom...?. Not flattering....

You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You'd like to get acquainted,
and I most likely won't make the first contact.

We're a GREAT MATCH for Each Other

-You're Ready to Enjoy Life with a Lovely Woman

-You're Wise & Warm, Confident yet Humble,
Educated & Interesting, Healthy & Attractive.

-You're a Stand-up Gentleman with a little bit of Wild, just for the Two of Us ! ;-)

The following List answers a
PRIOR QUESTION:Books/Movies/Music/Food

Some DETAILS. Skim it if you prefer.
.......................Let's Go, Let's Go ! REALLY..................
MUSIC !!:You name it.... Pop, R&R, Soft Rock, R&B, BG, MoT, Jazz, Indie, ... Chamber, Classical, Jam...Adele, Gaga, Winehouse, Mclachlan, Mayer, Seal, KT, Beatles, Collins, LosLonelyBoys, Santana, Springsteen, Simon, Clapton, Brubeck, Coltrane,YoYoMa, Mozart... more,!!!!
Alicia Keys, John Mayer, Stevie Wonder, Tony Bennett, Brubeck Bros Qrtt, Bucky & John Pizzarrelli, The Heath Brothers Quartet, Bill Cunliffe Trio, Manhattan Jazz Trio, Alex Collins Jazz, Ring Of Fire:Johnny Cash Tribute Band, Star Wars Symphony (John Williams), Eagles, Billy Joel, Dave Matthews, Genesis, Beatlemania, Legends, and .... more
MUSEUMS: MMA, Gugg, Smithsonian, Louve, Prado, British, FLWright, Paint, Sculpture, Science...Matisse, VanGough, Picasso, Calder...
MOVIES: Many! drama, romance, espionage, sci-fi, comedy, 3D. They're exciting, adventurous, thought provoking.
Gravity, Jobs, The Butler, Blue Jasmine, Elysium, We Are the Millers, Heat, The Way Way Back, SkyFall, MIB, Zero Dark Thirty, Lincoln, Silver Linings Playbook, Guilt Trip, Marigold Hotel, Mama, Midnight In Paris, Eternal Sunshine, The Bourne Identity...,many more, TV: Colbert/Stewart, Scandal/Grey's/BigBang/Frasier, PBS/B.Moyers/C.Rose/Discovery.../CNN, MSNBC ...
SHOWS: on/off brdwy, comedy,
Jersey Boys, Memphis, Rock of Ages, Beatlemania, Legends, 25th Annual..., Doubt, Race... MTC, 2nd StageCo, GuggWIP, Comedy:Salazar...
FOOD: All: ethnic to fusion, fine cuisine to fun food...barbeque to sushi to FourSeasons...(let's cook!)...healthy & splurge
VACATIONS: Resorts, N-S-E-W, EUR, M.E., Islands, Conventions , 'Relax', 'Sightsee', 'Visit'
SPORTS: SWIM, Cycle, Walk, Ski-lite, Golf-lite, Occasional game at a stadium (4/1Opening Day Yankees-baseball, LB James-basketball) I'm Not a jock or Fan-atic.
BOOKS:Many! mostly non-fict: sci, tech, econ, biz, polit, psych, philos... I enjoy learning & reading! It's relaxing
(Kindle, books !, newspapers, magazines, journals, Internet)