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SweetnTarty

28 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Vacaville, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian, Black
Height
5' 3" (1.60m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Rather Not Say
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Okay), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)

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I am shy, sweet, and tarty.

My Self-Summary

Ah, I always love these self-summary things because I always have to think about what to say in them. So here goes: Hey, I'm Iris. I'm just a brown-eyed, dark brown-haired, 27 year old biracial young girl trying to make sense of my life. I am a quiet and shy girl. A total introvert. Professional dreamer. Dreams of becoming a writer. But I'm also an angry young girl who curses up a storm, but if you saw me personally, you would think I was the sweetest thing in the whole wide world. I get mistaken for being just a shy, sweet girl because I'm so good at keeping up my facade. I'm not saying that I'm not shy and sweet, because I am. It's just that I have another side to me, lovingly named Hurricane Iris, and most people are unaware of this. Piss me off and Hurricane Iris comes out to play/wreak havoc.

A little more on me: A complete dork. Supersensitive. Not too trusting of others. But is learning to trust. Laughs and smiles a lot. Also puts on a facade among certain people. Super organized. Perfectionist. Has a fetish for hands and fingers. Suffers from Major Depression and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder due to what happened almost four years ago. Still very much a mess from issues. But also is a survivor.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently back at the community college I began my college career at, taking journalism classes, after taking a year off after graduating from UC Davis with a Bachelor's in English. Also currently dealing with issues from childhood and from three years ago. Therapy is my weapon of choice for dealing with those issues, although at certain times, I think it's a waste of time and I try to piss off my therapist enough to make him give up on me and drop me as a client.

I spend a majority of my days on this earth, taking one step forward and two steps back, sometimes two steps forward and one step back. I continually keep my guard up, keep my facade going, and at times, shut down. I have a hard time letting go of certain things (aka the past) that should just be left behind. I'm still learning to deal with certain matters and to not be so guarded and just be myself around people in my life. I still have a lot to learn, but I have learned to let loose a wee bit and just live life. I am currently happier these days than I have been in a very long time. Still watching my steps, though. The protective part of me will never leave me.

Also, currently spending a lot of time with a very special person in my life that I met here on OkCupid. Go figure, lol.

I’m really good at

Laughing, smiling, singing, writing, procrastinating, hula hooping, shopping (duh!), listening, and a lot of other stuff I am forgetting at this very moment.

The first things people usually notice about me

My lovely smile. No matter where I go, who I meet, and what not, everyone seems to compliment me on my nice smile.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A)Favorite books: Too many to name, but here's just a select few: Tess of the D'Urbervilles, Memoirs of a Geisha, A Tale of Two Cities, Pride and Prejudice, Bridget Jones' Diary, The Little Prince, Of Mice and Men, The Bluest Eye, The Handmaid's Tale. I love Shakespeare, the Harry Potter novels, Sherlock Holmes, and the Stephanie Plum novels.

B)Favorite movies: The Little Mermaid, Sense and Sensibility, Who Framed Roger Rabbit?, Kill Bill Vol. 1&2, Jurassic Park, Jurassic Park 3, Ocean's Eleven, Bridget Jones's Diary, Mulan, Lion King, The Ring, Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon, Clueless, Ever After, The X-Files, The English Patient, The Princess Diaries, The Princess Diaries 2, Finding Nemo, The Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's Day Off, Charlie's Angels, The Color Purple, Corrina Corrina, The Lord Of the Rings Trilogy, Edward Scissorhands, Moulin Rouge, Beauty and the Beast, Bridget Jones': The Edge of Reason, Bambi, Mr. and Mrs. Smith, The Princess Bride, Their Eyes Were Watching God, Forrest Gump, Amelie, The Silence of the Lambs, Memoirs of a Geisha, Donnie Darko

C)Favorite music: Oh, we could be here forever. Let's just say I listen to a little bit of this and a little bit of that. Yes, even some country music.

The six things I could never do without

1) Laughter 2) Music 3) Chocolate 4) My ever so wonderful friends 5) Writing 6) Family

I spend a lot of time thinking about

My past, as usual.

On a typical Friday night I am

I can now can be found spending time with my boyfriend.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Yeah, I'll get back to you on this one....

You should message me if

You should message me only if you want to know more about me...if you think I'm an interesting person and what not.