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Sweetsanfran

42 / F / straight / Single

San Francisco, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 6" (1.67m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism
Sign
Pisces
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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My Self-Summary

I read fiction, the New Yorker, NYTimes and more. I travel often. Art openings keep me enjoyably busy and working in education allows me more vacation than most.

I'm partial to Delfina's Pizzaria over the more proper haunt next door and Bi Rite creamery has the most delicious ginger ice cream I've ever tasted. Vietnam still has my attention, even after three visits. Ft Funston is amazing.

A few things I enjoy:
Denis Johnson, Maya Lin, "August Osage County", and "Best of Youth". Wearing levis and sun dresses, not at the same time. Squishing my toes in warm mud. Stomping in puddles. A delicate glass of good red wine. Barbara Gowdy is my style.

I'm the kind of girl who has name embossed stationary for thank you notes, a small collection of fly ties with a dusty fly rod, and a tight stitch scar from walking barefoot on a hidden sharp object. My shots are up to date.

I’m more swift in water than out, rivers, pools, creeks, and oceans stir me. Having three brothers has made me a little rough and tumble but my closet is full of pencil skirts and even a few ruffles. I’m passionate about my family, friends, and consider myself engaged with the world around me. I enjoy building up people, not tearing them down.

Good manners are with me but I can, at times, have a wicked sense of humor. Teasing is a skill where I come from and an important form of affection. The written word inspires me daily and I love what I do for a living.

I'm looking for A Man with a healthy curiosity about the world and tenderness for those he cares about (as well as total strangers). A good story teller is much appreciated. Someone who enjoys spontaneity on occasion, creative impulses a major plus. A Man easily inspired who doesn't take it all too seriously, who laughs often and with little effort. Integrity and a hungry mind are essential. A generous heart. I'm a sucker for charm and a good teaser... Brains.

What I’m doing with my life

I work for an art school after leaving the book industry. Its pretty fantastic and I'm continually surprised and inspired by the students and faculty there.

I’m really good at

Making my brothers laugh and Swimming, occasionally at the same time
loving my friends
making leek mustard tarts from scratch
talking to dogs as we pass on the sidewalk

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

The Paperboy, Vernon God Little, World's End, Where the Red Fern Grows, To Kill a Mockingbird

Best of Youth, Door in the Floor, Finding Forester, Chariots of Fire

The Waifs, Stevie Wonder, Brazilian anything, Elliott Smith, Nina Simone, Andrew Bird

Blue Crab, the Meatless Mike from Ike's, pears, watermelon salad with ricotta salata, the panna from Delfins's Pizza

The six things I could never do without

coffee
the love of my friends and family
books
fuzzy warm animals
the roof top pool at USCF Mission Bay
good red wine

On a typical Friday night I am

Out and about, but not too too late
at an opening, restaurant, walking through the city,
at a dinner party
sharing a glass of red wine with friends

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

As much as I love dogs its not in the cards for me to have one. (But it does not keep me from flirting with everyone else s.)

You should message me if

I strike your fancy and you can endure teasing...