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42 Wakefield, RI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–54
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Sanskrit (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I recently met this girl in the 'real world' and thanks to the past year on this site, i had the guts to just ask her out. Even tho we wound up not being a match, the few dates we had were fun. It was really nice to find out about someone in person and not through one of these profiles we all work on so much. Exploring the mystery of each other kept me on the edge of my seat. Even after three dates, i still never found out how old she was, what religion, or what her six things she could never do without were.
The experience has been making me rethink this whole on-line thing.
But for the time being...i'm still lonely. So on to the profile.


Are you an Artsy-Fartsy kinda girl? Do you have the capacity to be odd and yet grounded?
See if this interests you...

One half of me is a professional musician. I'm dedicated and work hard towards musical growth and success. I'm organized, responsible, a great listener, and I Care. All this has led me to success as my other half. I'm a proud teacher, and I absolutely adore it. I work with all ages and find my greatest fulfillment watching my kids perform and grow. Last year, several of my students referred to me as 'Coach', which i thought was flattering. But then one of them misspelled it in a note to me and now i'm known affectionately as "Couch". Yup...this story pretty much sums up my life, and I wouldn't have it any other way.

I want to encourage someone to greatness and be encouraged. I find humor as well as challenges all around me. Yup, I obsess, but it's also been a quality that has gotten me through impossible situations. I'm a fun and quirky guy who laughs at himself and others, is disgusted by himself and others and hopes never to lose the joy of getting down on the floor to play. I look for things in life that will put a twinkle in my eye and seek to spread that twinkle around. That said, sometimes I'm completely miserable. I wouldn't want you to think I'm perfect. I'm not. And I apologize when I screw up and no one beats me up more for mistakes than me.

I studied with a cobbler last year, and finally bought some of my own equipment for working on shoes and leather. I even made my first pair of shoes from scratch. I like riding horses (tho I still have so much to learn), and mucking out a barn makes me happy. I worked on a farm a couple times in my life and would love to own some land one day. I love the fresh air and exercise. I spend a ton of time around music and schools, and when i chill, i like to maybe kick back in front of a t.v. or I discovered the beach last year and I'm addicted. (I even bought a bathing suit.)
I like to eat right most of the time because I like it when I feel good, but from time to time, I sneak off to my closet and eat a half a can of Pringles (sour cream) and can polish off a quart of ice cream (Heath Bar) in one sitting.

In short, I like to dance like a fool when no one its looking. But wait a sec...i dance like a fool when they Are looking too!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Playing Acoustic Bass, Teaching, Working on Shoes, Managing a Concert Hall for a University. Most consuming lately has been the concert hall job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Supporting and encouraging others.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My mood.
My look. (I change it up from time to time)
My open, honest expression.
That booger hanging out of my nose.
(yup, these are the jokes people)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love reading Ayn Rand and James Clavell. I gravitate toward the classics.
On the Waterfront, Groundhog Day, and Star Wars movies never tire me. I loved the series Heros.
Music... being a musician myself, it's too much to list. Sarah Vaughan, Paul Desmond, Little Jimmy Scott, Tom Waits, and BS&T to name a few.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Memories...they so often make me smile.
-My Reputation...i am very proud of who I am and how I reflect in the eyes of others.
-My Ability to have Emotions...sometimes works against me, but I wouldn't have it any other way.
-Some Kind of Creative Outlet...if I didn't get it out I would suffocate.
-The Desire to Be Better.
-The Circle of True Friends I have gathered over the years who know me, and see through my foibles to the good that I can be.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I could've done better.
What I should've said.
How many frozen, chocolate covered bananas is considered 'too many' when no one is looking?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Working as a musician.
Working at the Concert Hall
Working at making you feel Precious, Appreciated, and Loved.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will probably get a pimple the day before I meet you for the first time. *sigh*
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I make sense to you.
...or maybe if i sent you a sincere compliment and you wish to do me the honor of saying "thank you."