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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–35
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  • Who are single
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6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Sales / Marketing
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid
Likes dogs
My self-summary
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i never know what to say here.. i do suppose the goal would be to make myself sound better than the competition. but honestly.. that makes it sound like a game when its really not.

first off.. i have a daughter that lives with her mom in TN and shes the most precious thing to me.

im intelligent, observant, and analytical. i love to laugh and be playful.. so much so that some have thought me unable to be serious.. which is totally not the case. i see it as the more you lighten the mood the more easily one would be able to figure out the answer to what troubles them.. because even if for a moment.. the stress would ease up some.

....thats all i can think of for now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Im living it, i dont have grand expectations, nor do i believe it to be shit. You dont need to have alot of money, party all the time, or look your best 24/7.. life aint about that, Its not about what you have, but who you have. If you got the right people for you in your life.. all the awesomeness, fun, and excitement will come naturally and in ways your comfortable with.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I like to write now and again, i was bored a few months ago and in a bit of a romantic mood, and well hell got no one to share it with so i wrote this:

~It had been such a long time since he felt the need for someone. But there was something about the woman that stood before him. Perhaps it was the way her brown tresses cascaded past her shoulders, perhaps it was the small black dress that clung so flatteringly to her form, or perhaps it was the way her hazel eyes seemed to pierce though his walls and peer into his soul.

He knew not that answer, nor did he care. He stared at her with adoration within his blue hues.

"You know its not polite to stare." She would say with a sweet smile upon her pink lips and a hint of red flushing her cheeks.

"I-I-I'm sorry." He stammered, brushing stray strands of black hair from his face. "I..I just.."

"Shh.." She would say softly as she placed a finger upon his warm lips. "Dance with me."

He could only nod as she took him by the hand and led him to the dance floor. But in those few moments, time seemed to go in slow motion. He began to feel a warmth inside of him as he watched her look over her shoulder with a playful yet sincere smile and a sparkle in her eye only slightly obscured by her bouncing locks.

Before he knew it, she stopped and turned to face him, draping her arms around his neck. Her eyes locked onto his once more, and for a moment he felt as if he would melt beneath that gaze.

"So.. are you going to hold me or what?" She said with soft chuckle.

A tender smile crossed his features and he wrapped his arms around her. Something about it felt right, as if all was as it should be and for once he didnt concern himself with why and pulled her closer.

They began to sway to the slow music that played around them. Soon he felt her face nuzzle his chest as she let out a contented sigh. He closed his eyes and took a breath, letting her scent fill his nostrils. Lavender, he surmised, with a hint of vanilla.

They danced slowly for what seemed to be hours, words not spoken as both took joy from shared moment. But soon he found himself at unease, needing an outlet for the desire she sparked within him. But most of all he had to know.

"Are you real?" He said as he took her arms away from his neck and took a step back.

She looked at him, not quite understanding the question. "What do you mean?"

"I mean.. this isnt some dream where im gonna wake up alone in my bed, is it? That.. these things Im feeling aint just my mind playing with me."

She cupped his face with a hand and looked him in the eyes with compassion and reassurance "Yes, I am real.. this is real.. this is all.."

Before she could finish her sentence, he took her hand from his face and wove his fingers between hers as he took her words away from her with a passionate kiss. He felt her return, and her free arm wrap the back of his neck as his own would cross the small of her back. They pulled each other closer and their clasped hands squeezed together as their kiss deepened.

Soon their kiss broke and they stood there with foreheads touching and eyes locked on the others own.

"You say this is real, but to me you are a dream.. one i have dreamed of for a long time." He said. "But if you are wrong, and this truly is a dream.. i hope that i am dead, because this is one dream i have no desire to wake from."~

Anyways..also good at:
never truly giving up on things that matter to me. Makin people feel better... yeah its rough at first, but i get better after i get to know ya. And making a complete ass outta myself at completely inopportune times.. but usually gets a laugh or two.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Most people see me as intimidating, least thats what ive been told.. i do tend to be guarded around new people so i guess i can understand.
They notice im tall, and on the heavier side and if i dont say so myself i think i wear it pretty damn well.
Ive also been told my eyes always hold some sort of intensity to them and always give away exactly how i feel about something.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read fantasy.. something that i can really immerse myself into. Fav author is R.A. Salvatore, his writing is just so.. fluid and makes the mental images come together so easily.

Movies.. i like horror even though most the stuff now a days is crap.. or ive been totally desensitized to brutality/gore/violence.. hmm.. anyways.., comedy, even some rom.. ill watch about anything as long as it doesnt bore me. Ill watch anything with Nick Cage or Bruce Willis in it at least once.

Oh and i LOVE The Notebook!! After a long night at work, restless and cant sleep.. put that sumbitch in and ill be out in minutes.. lol.

In This Moment
Marilyn Manson
Avenged Sevenfold
Five Finger Death Punch
Foo Fighters
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My daughter in my life
My computer
umm.. my conscious
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How badly i want a chocolate milkshake right now... mmmmmm

My past.. my future... honestly, i think about if im ever gonna feel loves embrace again.. yeah, sappy i know but its something i honestly miss.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
WORKING! yep yep..
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
im finding myself becoming increasingly annoyed with people that put "just ask" in this field. i mean why not just say nothing or leave it blank?? perhaps its a way to appear mysterious.. perhaps its a sign of insecurity which most likely leaves em emotionally stunted.. but the pissy thing about that is it may cost em the prospect of something real.. something great. oh well.. im done ranting.

oh.. and my private thing is that i have a care bear that belongs to my daughter. its like a security blanket when i miss her.
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you want to? i might reply, i might not... but hell if you made it this far perhaps your a little curious. so go ahead and message me. whatcha got to lose?