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36 M San Anselmo, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 27–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 8
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm one of a kind, just like you. I am a seeker, a singer, a writer, and an explorer of inner and outer space. I live for music, art, wild nature, and good food. I tend to plum the depths of experience and emotion in search of buried treasure.

I am open to all allies and friends but hoping for a partner. Someone to share music and poetry with, to wander through the wilderness with, to dance with, to dream with, to teach me about myself and let me share what I know. Hopefully this person has their own creative outlet (I tend to be a fountain of expression), and follows their passion, they have a strong love of themselves and their path, a good circle of friends and family, and a love of adventure. I want to travel, commune, someday raise children that can save the world, and create love that is worthy of fame.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My true passion and calling is music: songwriting, recording, performing. If you effect me I will write songs about you so you better be ok with that. I tend to study and write a lot about the journey of the soul, and finding deeper meaning in existence. I believe we all have a unique purpose here and the whole point of life is to learn what that is and embody it to the fullest...mine is giving voice in song to human experience, healing and communing through music.

I grew up rafting, backpacking, and snowboarding...I love the outdoors. I was in a bad motorcycle accident in 2009 (got run over by a truck!) from which I'm still recovering...I had 7 fractures to my neck and spine, so given that I can still walk and talk you could say I'm a miracle. Lots I could say about that. Having been extremely physical all my life it's been a challenge having to slow down a bit, but I'm back to about 90% now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, singing, playing the guitar, cooking, conversating, laughing, exploring, learning, listening, giving, reading signs and omens, finding my way when I'm lost, seeing the positive in dark situations, expressing my feelings, pushing your limits.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
"Nature & The Human Soul" ~ Bill Plotkin
"The Gift" ~ Hafiz translated by Daniel Ladinsky
"The Origins of Consciousness in the Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind" ~ Julian Jaynes
"The Universe Story" ~ Brian Swimme & Thomas Berry
"The Alchemist" ~ Paulo Coelho
"Siddhartha" ~ Hermann Hesse
"The Celestine Prophecy" ~ James Redfield
"The Power of Now" ~ Eckhart Tolle
"The Archaic Revival" ~ Terrance McKenna

...anything by Joseph Campbell, Carl Jung, Tom Robbins, Kurt Vonnegut, John Steinbeck, Pema Chodron, or Mark Twain

"Harold and Maude"
"What the Bleep Do We Know"
"One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest"
"Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind"
"Lord of The Rings"

...anything by the Coen brothers, Tim Burton, Quentin Tarantino, or Jim Henson

I don't have cable anymore...yay! I used to enjoy the Daily Show and the Colbert Report, Futurama and the Simpsons. I get stuff like Mad Men or Pillars of the Earth on Netflix but don't spend much time in front of the tube.

WAY too much to name. I grew up on bluegrass and the Grateful Dead. From old-time to Afro-beat to electronica, jazz, funk...I like anything with to dance! Some common rotators are Dr. John, The Meters, Bob Marley, Fela Kuti, Miles Davis, Laura Marling, JJ Cale, NewGrass Revival, Tom Waits, The Beatles, Tim O'Brien, Steve Earl, Riders in the Sky, Bela Fleck, Frank Zappa, Bob Dylan, John Hartford, Allison Krause, Wilco, Marvin Gaye, Paul Simon, Devil Makes ThreeJohnny Cash, Headhunters, Chick Korea, Asleep at the Wheel, Nickle Creek, Richard Thompson, The Band, Led Zeppelin, Willie Nelson, Ella Fitzgerald, Pink Floyd, Jimi Hendrix, CSN, Jimmy Buffet, Van Morrison, Talking Heads, Sound Tribe Sector 9, The Drive By Truckers, Old Crow Medicine Show, Stevie Wonder, Steely Dan, Jethro Tull, Elvis Costello, Little Feat, Spearhead, Tom Waits, Bon Iver, Radiohead...andonandonandon...I also regularly attend the Strawberry Music Festival. The music I make is largely inspired by songwriters like Jackson Brown, Cat Stevens, John Prine, Richard Thompson, Gillian Welch, Emmylou Harris, Bruce Cockburn, Nick Drake, Leonard Cohen, and Jeff Buckley to name a few.

I try to avoid processed food. Other than that I like almost everything. Love new experiences but definitely a sucker for sushi! I love to cook and throw dinner parties with friends to mark the seasons. I also like to plant a veggie garden in the summer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My family
My friends
My guitar
My heart
Trees and greenery
Good food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My ultimate purpose in life and how to embody it.
Synchronicity, dream interpretation, and personal cosmology.
Mythology and the collective (un)consciousness.
Cosmogenesis and the profound amazingness of being.
Poetry, music, and the journey.
Life, death, and rebirth.
The Moon.
Cycles of nature/time.
The destruction of the biosphere.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with friends, going to a show, or making music at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am probably either too intense, too open, too spiritual, or just too weird for you. Also, I lost my left eye to cancer when I was 2, so I have a glass one.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. can accept that I am probably impossible to live with...but then isn't everyone? I will drive you crazy...but in the most interesting ways possible. You don't want to get mixed up with me...unless you love to have every one of your certainties challenged and unless you get horny in the face of unimaginable adventures and unless you're ready to never be bored again. If you think you can handle that I'd love to hear from you.