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27 Rochester, NY Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
May 28, 2014
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Not at all
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I'm someone who lives for knowledge and the arts, and I think that informs me as a person more than anything else. Sharing this passion, and even picking up on new ones, is what I'm striving for.
What I’m doing with my life
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I work full time as an Instructional Designer, which basically involves developing something similar to a textbook for adult students to learn more about software and other computer technology.

I also write fiction in my spare time.
I’m really good at
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Writing. Of course, no writer thinks that they're bad (except all of the writing they did in the past, of course), so that really remains to be seen.

I'm also good at making people laugh, provided they appreciate a wry sense of humor.
The first things people usually notice about me
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This depends on the context. If I'm interested in a person, I can be very social and engaging. However, I suppose most people notice that I'm reserved.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Literature: Ender's Game, Ubik, Solaris, Hyperion, Dune, Slaughter-House Five, 1984, Othello, Hamlet

Movies: Star Wars trilogy, 2001: A Space Odyssey, The Shining, The Big Lebowski, Apocalypse Now

Music: Heavy metal

Food: Chicken wings and blueberry muffins. Separately.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Being challenged intellectually
Listening to music that invigorates me
Reading thought-provoking literature
Writing down my thoughts and feelings into a narrative
Playing fun, immersive games
Watching thrilling movies
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Any and every random thing that's constantly coming to mind. It's usually a cacophony of slapdash philosophizing along with more mundane thoughts.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not doing anything wildly different than the rest of the week. Saturday's where it's at.
You should message me if
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You'd like to find out if we're a match based on our personalities and our interests, and not just the arbitrary numbers that this site assigns us.