Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
A simple man, still refuse to give up on the hope of finding true
love. A family man who loves children, as attested by my popularity
among my nephews and nieces, and even their friends. I still
believe in the notion of living out the rest of my life only with
my soulmate/best friend and I WILL not settle for less.
I was divorced 10 years ago, but fortunately, no children. I would
someday like to have my own children but that is only with the
right person. If she does not want children, then so be it as I
always believe both parties in a relationship or marriage must buy
into the idea so as to make it work.
I am naturally a caring person, always ready to listen if you wanna
talk, even when my favourite sports team is playing on tv. I insist
on communication and I believe in knowing and understanding my
partner well. However, if you want my opinion, you have to ask for
it. I am naturally intuitive due to my nature and work experience,
so it gets a little creepy sometimes when i can suddenly anticipate
what u want.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am presently stuck in a professional dilemma. Stability or huge
challenge? A happy problem no doubt, but a problem nonetheless. A
problem complicated by the fact that I m ready to settle down. bad
timing or all my good karma coming back to me all at once? these r
exciting times for me, for my family and also possibly for the
family i want so much to call my own.
Now keeping myself busy with swimming, running and basketball. I
read a lot more now, more so to appreciate the different styles of
writing more than the story itself. And I still go to the movies,
even when i am all alone.
Busy preparing to get married this month to a classy lady I met
here in OkCupid. This site works, for it makes us reveal much about
ourselves. I guess being true to myself here has its benefits.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
expressing myself through words, be it through writing or speaking
up. words rarely fail me and I get my point across.
being the clown to spice up the mood when at play and the
no-nonsense colleague when at work. I pride myself being a good
actor too, able to keep up appearances until people think I am
being considerate too. I would willingly sacrifice my "me-time"
just to help my partner out or just to accompany her. If she has
the guts to commit fully to me, I would slaughter the whole world
just to get to her.
keeping eeriely quiet and not blinking during remuneration
getting the best out of the wait staff. :)
oh, and my seafood linguine.
The first things people usually notice about me
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that I am very professional and very stern.
I am professional and I look stern when I m concentrating on my
work. However, in real life, I am anything but stern or
I look younger than my age. :(
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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favourite books: jasper fforde, fantasy novels, jane austen,
william blake, conspiracy theories, jane green. I read vastly, from
classics to trashy novels.
movies: I love going to the movies, all genre.
music: more towards 80s retro.
food: I eat anything and I am adventurous.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. the powerpuff girls.
2. my family. the zhuang xue zhong wannabe, the mahjong queen, the
lance armstrong, the angelina, the "i'm still jordanary", the pig,
the ah lian, ah huay, vacuum cleaner power ranger, the she-she
girl, the "who's the lousiest" spiderman and the greedy killer
smile, the whole lot!!!
3. my principles. If it isn't right ethically, there is no way you
can get me to do it.
4. my brothers and a few true friends.
5. my love for sports. I dont feel comfortable if I dont sweat
6. my novel n my reading glasses, curse of having perfect eyesight
when i was young.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the meaning of life previously. now, i fantasise about the
wonderful life we would have together.
and how to be a better person these days, in preparation for my
last relationship. and how my professional decision should
incorporate the considerations of having my own family in the very
and how on earth does OK Cupid decide that i m wealthier than
average? lol... not very accurate, actually.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going out for dinner, movies, chill out, staying home, cuddle n
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I snore when I am too tired, i dig my nose when no one is looking
and I am secretly excited when going shopping with my gf.
You should message me if
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if you wanna chat online.
And no, I am not interested in casual sex, not that i can get them.
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