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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 24-35
  • Near me
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My details

Last online
Jun 28
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5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Hinduism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Tamil (Somewhat), Hindi (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I have a deep and abiding passion for this world we live in, and I try every day to make sure I show it. I value kindness and concern; I think being able to empathize with someone with whom we share few life experiences is one of the most valuable traits one can have.

I delight in conversations, wordplay, and elegance of phrasing. I love stories and narratives and the ways in which tropes are a part of our lives. I find great joy in the absurd, and I like to challenge convention in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. I am an unabashed fan of wit - the kind that is wry and unexpected and fiendishly clever.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an architect and city planner, and I am in the enviable position of having a job that draws on every skill I have and everything I've studied.
I identify the best courses of action, solve problems, organize data and present ideas in easily digestible formats, and help a lot of very very different people to just get along and get things done.
I like to think I'm a real life Leslie Knope, right down to her dogged determination, overbearing methods, unflagging enthusiasm, and inability to sometimes see sense.

I love big cities and people and excitement and adventure and saving the planet, and I hope to experience all of those things on a very regular basis until I die.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words. Language. Problem solving. Overthinking.

I love language with a passion I am embarrassed to articulate. This means I love to read (naturally) and write, and listen to songs, and watch films, and have conversations, and essentially consume with gusto anything that has anything to do with words. I also, to my intense chagrin, notice errors everywhere. It is a blessing and a curse.

I am pretty darn amazing at getting context and seeing the big picture, which is an invaluable trait to have in my job in particular and life in general. I'm the person who often laughs an instant before the punchline because I have seen where the story's going. I am also the person who laughs at mildly inappropriate times because I have seen where a story could go even if it doesn't actually go there.
The first things people usually notice about me
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If I'm happy and I'm smiling, probably my smile.

Also my smile if you see any photos of me that I have chosen myself.
(Not so much if you see the average picture of me, where I usually sport a facial expression that is in the midst of animation. "What in the world was I talking about?" is my usual reaction.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I gravitate towards books, movies and television shows that are clever, and can do scandalous things with the English language, and that give me feels. Following is a painfully short, non-exhaustive list.

Many of my favourite books and authors happen to be British: Terry Pratchett, 1066 and all that, Molesworth, Lewis Carroll, Roald Dahl, Georgette Heyer, Jane Austen. I also love Stephen King, and me favourite webcomic is Kate Beaton
I like films and shows that can be fun and silly, but that somehow throw a light on the poignancy and ridiculousness of the human condition - like Zoolander, or Arrested Development, or Buffy. I like to watch stories full of relatable characters who aren't completely horrible people, with strong writing and talented actors and mostly consistent logic.
I love Eddie Izzard.
I tend to love songs and themes more than individual artists, so here is the link to my! It is probablyinaccurate, but close enough.
I am a vegetarian; have been since birth. Meals are not special to me, but I can appreciate the appeal of good food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music (very specifically: a fully charged phone and a pair of headphones)
2. Dance, both the ability and the opportunity
3. Stories, in any shape or form. Preferably with impeccable grammar and no apostrophe abuse.
4. Access to the following: garlic, onions, ginger, a variety of vegetables, spices, mint chocolate chip ice cream, and tea
5. A good pair of walking shoes
6. Human beans. (This is a BFG reference, not one from Watchmen. It is also a deliberate spelling choice.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People and situations.
Ways to solve the problems of the world.
Systems and social structures and prejudices.
Why my brain works in the ways in which it does.
Language. Identity. Oppression. Society.
Music. Dance. Sex.

Stories. Every thing I think is a story.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an *ideal* Fun Friday night I could be:
- At Someone Else's Home
- Dancing (hip-hop or swing. the latter wins out more these days, just because more of my friends are into it.)
- At a karaoke bar
- At the symphony or the theater
- At a rock concert
- At home vegging out with a book/ movie/ TV show
- Asleep

Bars/Pubs are not my ideal location for social gathering, but if I like the company I make great efforts
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I spend a lot of my buffer time mentally creating elaborate conversations with people, both strangers and those I already know.

I find a very particular kind of beard overwhelmingly attractive.

My ideal man would be Ben Wyatt, with the ability and occasional desire to grow a beard.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are looking for new friends who talk too much and I find the same things overwhelmingly important.
I find the following things overwhelmingly important:
Environment. Feminism. Equity. Humour. Excellent Reading Comprehension. Self-Awareness. Ability to laugh at oneself. Confidence. Ambition. Desire to change the world. Knowledge of the correct spellings of homophones and the appropriate use of apostrophes. A love of cats.