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29 F Atlanta, GA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Oct 18
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Hinduism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Working on masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Tamil (Okay), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I have a deep and abiding passion for this world we live in, which means I am by turns ecstatically delighted and furiously angry at the things people do and say.
I delight in wordplay, I love to dance, and I get all hot and bothered when talking about sexism and racism and the patriarchy and the other wonderful ways in which the world we live in needs some work. If you care about things that are bigger than your personal corner of the world, we will probably get along. If you think you're better than other people because you care about those things, we probably will not.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning. Learning all the time.
An architect by profession, I just graduated from a masters program in City and Regional Planning.
I learn how to identify the best courses of action, how to solve problems, how to convince people to do the things that are good for them and make them think it's their own idea, and how to survive on less than five hours of sleep a day - so I can change the world and make it a better place in any way that I can.

I love every moment of it. I love big cities and people and excitement and adventure, and I hope to experience all of those things on a very regular basis until I die.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words. I love words with a passion I am embarrassed to articulate. This means I love to read (naturally) and write, and listen to songs, and watch films, and have conversations, and essentially consume with gusto anything that has anything to do with words.
I do a mean version of ACDC’s Highway to Hell, and I can do a moderate Adele if I really try.
I am also getting to be a pretty decent swing-dance follow. IF YOU'RE A GOOD LEAD WE CAN JUST GO DANCING!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I like you and I'm smiling, probably my smile.
Also my smile if you see any photos of me that I have chosen myself. Not so much if you see the average picture of me, where I usually sport a contorted facial expression that serves to render me startlingly unattractive.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I gravitate towards books, movies and television shows that are clever, and can do scandalous things with the English language, and that give me feels. Following is a long, non-exhaustive list. Feel free to skip it if other things are more fun to read about.

A majority of my favourite books and authors happen to be British: Terry Pratchett, 1066 and all that, Molesworth, Lewis Carroll, Saki, Roald Dahl, Georgette Heyer, Jane Austen.
I frequent several very clever and delightful webcomics and websites, because Internet:, tvtropes, harkavagrant, hyperboleandahalf, scarygoround.
Before sunset, Before sunrise, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, Airplane!, Easy A, The Princess Bride, Zoolander, Cabin in the Woods, The Iron Giant, Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, Tropic Thunder, Community, Doctor Who, Parks and Recreation, Buffy, Angel, Firefly, Arrested Development, Monty Python!!, Garth Marenghi's Darkplace, New Girl, Qi, How I Met Your Mother, Samurai Jack, Eddie Izzard.
I tend to love songs more than artists, so here is my! It is probably inaccurate, but close enough.
I am a vegetarian; have been since birth. Meals are not special to me, but I can appreciate the appeal of good food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music (very specifically: a fully charged phone and a pair of headphones)
2. Dance, both the ability and the opportunity
3. Stories, in any shape or form. Preferably with impeccable grammar and no apostrophe abuse.
4. Access to the following: garlic, onions, ginger, a variety of vegetables, spices, mint chocolate chip ice cream, and tea
5. A good pair of walking shoes
6. People whom I like, and who like to do any of the things *I* like to do
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People and situations.
Ways to solve the problems of the world.
How much I miss my bookshelf from back home. How much I miss my cat. Why I miss my cat more than my family. Where my next dance fix is coming from. Whom I can convince to drive me to the farmer's market. Why I love British authors and comics more than any others ect ect chiz chiz chiz.
Stories. Every thing I think is a story.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
With people, doing things. Or by myself, doing things. Or not doing things? I like to spend time with humans. They are fascinating and horrifying simultaneously.

On an ideal Fun Friday night I would be out:
- At Other People's Homes
- Dancing (hip-hop or swing. the latter wins out more these days, just because more of my friends are into it.)
- At a karaoke bar
- At the symphony or the theater
- At a rock concert
- At a Frat Party hem hem
Bars/Pubs are not my ideal social gathering, but if I like the company I make efforts
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find a very specific kind of beard spectacularly attractive, independent of its human. (As in, I could totally dig your beard and still not find you appealing to me. This has happened.)
I also spend a lot of my time thinking up imaginary conversations with people.

Beginning in November, OkCupid began showing me significantly greater numbers of bearded gentlemen in my "You might like" section. At first I went: WHAT MANNER OF SORCERY IS THIS.
It was then pointed out to me that it was winter, and thus just a season of beards. This took away some magic from my life.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. and I find the same things overwhelmingly important.
I find the following important:
Environment! Feminism! Equity! Laughter! Excellent Reading Comprehension! Self-Awareness! (These are MANDATORY.) Confidence! Ambition! Desire to change the world! Knowledge of the correct spellings of homophones and the appropriate use of apostrophes! (These are icing on the cake.) are smart, funny, and don't take yourself too seriously

Note: I will probably not reply if you don't have something to say beyond a hello or a compliment about my looks. Sorry!