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TBwastaken

30 Atlanta, GA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 24–35
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Indian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Hinduism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Tamil (Okay), Hindi (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have a deep and abiding passion for this world we live in, and I try every day to make sure I show it. I value kindness and concern; I think being able to empathize with someone with whom we share few life experiences is one of the most valuable traits one can have.

I delight in conversations, wordplay, and elegance of phrasing. I love stories and narratives and the ways in which tropes are a part of our lives. I find great joy in the absurd, and I like to challenge convention in subtle and not-so-subtle ways. I am an unabashed fan of wit - the kind that is wry and unexpected and fiendishly clever.

When I'm excited (and it happens often), my pitch and volume and physical presence escalate exponentially. Sometimes I notice and rein myself in, but often I need to catch the eye of a friend before I notice.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am an architect and city planner, and I am in the enviable position of having a job that draws on every skill I have and everything I've studied.
I identify the best courses of action, solve problems, organize data and present ideas in easily digestible formats, and help a lot of very very different people to just get along and get things done.

I love every moment of it. I love big cities and people and excitement and adventure, and I hope to experience all of those things on a very regular basis until I die.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Words. Language. Problem solving. Overthinking.

I love language with a passion I am embarrassed to articulate. This means I love to read (naturally) and write, and listen to songs, and watch films, and have conversations, and essentially consume with gusto anything that has anything to do with words. I also, to my intense chagrin, notice errors everywhere. It is a blessing and a curse.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm happy and I'm smiling, probably my smile.

Also my smile if you see any photos of me that I have chosen myself.
(Not so much if you see the average picture of me, where I usually sport a facial expression that is in the midst of animation. "What in the world was I talking about?" is my usual reaction.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I gravitate towards books, movies and television shows that are clever, and can do scandalous things with the English language, and that give me feels. Following is a painfully short, non-exhaustive list.

READING THINGS:
Many of my favourite books and authors happen to be British: Terry Pratchett, 1066 and all that, Molesworth, Lewis Carroll, Roald Dahl, Georgette Heyer, Jane Austen. I also love Stephen King, and me favourite webcomic is Kate Beaton
WATCHING THINGS:
I like films and shows that can be fun and silly, but that somehow throw a light on the poignancy and ridiculousness of the human condition - like Zoolander, or Arrested Development, or Buffy. I like to watch stories full of relatable characters who aren't completely horrible people, with strong writing and talented actors and mostly consistent logic.
I love Eddie Izzard.
LISTENING THINGS:
I tend to love songs and themes more than individual artists, so here is the link to my last.fm! It is probablyinaccurate, but close enough.
EATING THINGS:
I am a vegetarian; have been since birth. Meals are not special to me, but I can appreciate the appeal of good food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Music (very specifically: a fully charged phone and a pair of headphones)
2. Dance, both the ability and the opportunity
3. Stories, in any shape or form. Preferably with impeccable grammar and no apostrophe abuse.
4. Access to the following: garlic, onions, ginger, a variety of vegetables, spices, mint chocolate chip ice cream, and tea
5. A good pair of walking shoes
6. Human beans.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People and situations.
Ways to solve the problems of the world.
Systems and social structures and prejudices.
Why my brain works in the ways in which it does.
Language. Identity. Oppression. Society.
Music. Dance. Sex.
SCIENCE. HUMANITY. REDDIT.

Stories. Every thing I think is a story.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
On an *ideal* Fun Friday night I could be:
- At Someone Else's Home
- Dancing (hip-hop or swing. the latter wins out more these days, just because more of my friends are into it.)
- At a karaoke bar
- At the symphony or the theater
- At a rock concert
- At home vegging out with a book/ movie/ TV show
- Asleep

Bars/Pubs are not my ideal location for social gathering, but if I like the company I make great efforts
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I spend a lot of my buffer time mentally creating elaborate conversations with people, both strangers and those I already know.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are witty and funny and charming and intelligent (or at least think you are), and don't take yourself too seriously.

...you think I sound like one or more of those things.

...you and I find the same things overwhelmingly important.
I find the following important:
Environment! Feminism! Equity! Laughter! Excellent Reading Comprehension! Self-Awareness! Confidence! Ambition! Desire to change the world! Knowledge of the correct spellings of homophones and the appropriate use of apostrophes! Ability to laugh at oneself!