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6' 6" (1.98m)
Atheism and laughing about it
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This is not a love letter.
This is not a love letter.
This is not a love letter.

If I type it enough and you read it enough, you might believe it. If I put it to music and made it a dance song, you'd surely believe it. So let's skip the pageantry and go straight to the part where you start to believe it. Besides, I have no musical talent.

I will not say you have a perfect blend of earthiness and whimsy. Sass and suave. Intrigue and simplicity. I will not tell you that you have the ability to change things. To change people (which is really the only reason anyone wants to change things at all). I cannot tell you that your smile is heartwarming. Or that great minds have forgotten beautiful sunsets because of it. Or that certain sunsets only exist to illuminate your face.

I could not speak about the joy of sitting beside you on a strong and steady boulder, perched above most other boulders around it. Talking. Wondering. Astonished by the rocks. The size. The scope. The scale. As far as the eye can see. Beyond that, the whole earth. The sun. So many tens of billions of other stars. Astonished by the fact that we're alive. Aware. Conscious. I could not say we'd share a smile. A strange sense of wonder and wonderful curiosity. Peacefulness. I promise nothing, but at least it is a promise on which I can deliver.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
You may already know that Alfred Nobel, the inventor of dynamite, deliberately ended his own life using--you guessed it--dynamite. Except he didn't. He undeliberately died of a brain hemorrhage. It was author Ernest Hemingway who demolished himself with dynamite. Except he didn't either. He deliberately ended his own life by shooting himself in the head. Best I can tell, the most famous person to deliberately blow himself up with dynamite isn't known to either of us by name.

Two years after Alfred Nobel invented dynamite, his factory near Stockholm blew up, killing his brother Emil. Alfred Nobel was not an asshole. Not for killing his brother anyway.

Sometimes the unintended consequences of life can get us down or steer us into places we never expected to find ourselves. I imagine the good majority of serious minds find themselves looking in the mirror at a person they barely recognize at times. As we grow, our tear-filled "why god" can hopefully work its way to becoming a contented "why not"--even if the answers prance away.

To be aware is to participate in the continuing progression of consciousness. To question flawlessly and embrace the confused journey is our task.

I hope you're embracing well.
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I love the beauty of the earth more than anything else.