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TFPhelan

42 Mesa, AZ Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:28am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
So, how do you set yourself above the crowd. The shy, unphotogenic, introvert type just doesn't attract women like it used to...
Even though I start off shy, I truly am fun to be around and make people laugh all the time. I spent 12 years working in Germany and that experience changed my world view and gave me any number of crazy adventures. I have a wicked sense of humor and a quick and agile mind. I can be extremely silly, most days my inner child is out, but can be serious when appropriate. Daytime geek job and have my dork moments but also a guy that loves sports and would rather be out in nature instead of inside. I am shy when first meeting in one on one situations, but get me in a group of people where I know one person and I do remarkably well. I have a huge heart and am willing to put it out there even if it means getting it scrunched up a bit.
Probably looking for the same thing as everyone else, someone that can keep up their side of a conversation, go to a dive bar or out for a nice dress up night on the town. I am a softy when it comes to animals and have 2 "rescue" cats. I know my way around a kitchen and love to cook. I want to meet someone in person and see body language, feel if something might be there even if it is just friendship.

Making a serious effort to get back to being more active and healthy after shoulder surgery in 2012. While I like the weather in Phoenix, I really miss going skiing and the getaway weekends in the mountains. Have been going to a Muay Thai class since September and love it. Have got the athletic part down, just working on the "and toned" now.

Love music, can’t really say I have a favorite genre, it all depends on the day. Not much of a Rap fan but I can listen to anything. Picked up a guitar a couple of years ago and while I still can’t play, I enjoy learning little parts of songs that catch my ear. I have a new found love for the Blues.

If any of this seems like random bouncing around; it is. That is the way my mind works. I will never be accused of having a one track mind. So, if any of this sounds appealing, let me know because with the shyness thing it is tough for me to make first contact but I am trying to change that...
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Am making a very serious effort to get back into shape and a more healthy lifestyle. Love playing almost any sport and am getting to a point where I can enjoy it again.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Smart ass comments
Writing instructions but not following them
Thinking in tangents
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Never really asked. Now I guess I have to put that on my list of things to do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Love to read, mostly SciFi/fantasy, but like other genres also. Anything that Joss Whedon has done. No problem going to a romantic or comedy movie, just not a big fan of horror. Musically, classic rock is my favorite, but can listen to just about everything but death metal or hardcore rap.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music (a passion), internet, sports, time away from work, a watch, pets
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I gave up thinking for Lent one year and just never took it back up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trivia or Muay Thai. Lately a lot more Muay Thai.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a life long Cubs fan. This could be the year...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you want a hiking or trivia partner with the possibility of it turning into more than friendship. You want a real relationship, not here to serial date.