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27 Sutton Coldfield, UK Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 22-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 4:11pm
5' 5" (1.65m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm Tom from North Birmingham. I think my friends would say I'm a friendly, nice, genuine, smart, cool, funny guy...

I enjoy reading, listening to comedy, writing short stories/poems/whatever really and I'm interested in football (Coventry City supporter for my sins!).

I also have a keen interest in politics and social/economic issues.

I'm looking for a stable relationship.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently working for a project which helps young people to develop their financial confidence and skills- it's really rewarding work. I also volunteer for a local Citizen's Advice Bureau and I'm the chair for a Birmingham-based group which campaigns to reduce the massive income inequality found not just locally but nationally.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing- I'm really into short stories, poetry and I write blogs for various websites.

I can make people laugh with quick puns- a shorter version of Tim Vine, perhaps. I've also done a spot of acting now and again, and I like to think I'm good at it.

More seriously, I'm a good listener and am willing to try and help people out.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I hope my eyes, but it might be something else- I dread to think hahaha...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Probably my all time favourite comic novel is 'A Confederacy of Dunces' by John Kennedy Toole, and my favourite novel overall is 'Dead Souls' by Gogol (it's a little jollier than the title suggests, but only just.) At the moment, I'm reading a lot of historical and political studies- some of my favourite books are Adam Hochschild's 'To End All Wars' about WW1 and 'Thinking Fast and Slow' by Daniel Kahneman. I also read 'Private Eye' on a regular basis.

My favourite movies are the Godfather Parts 1 and 2, Monty Python's Life of Brian, the Dark Knight, Get Carter, Dr Strangelove, Control (the film about Joy Division singer Ian Curtis), and Hot Shots Part Deux!

TV Shows-wise, I mostly watch The Big Bang Theory, Frasier, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Homeland and The Thick of It.

Music-wise: I'm a rock fan overall, and enjoy classic and indie/alternative music. My favourite bands are Black Rebel Motorcycle Club, Joy Division, the Doors and Can.

Food and drink-wise: I really like chocolate hahaha! I'm also a keen lager drinker, particularly if they're European ones :P
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and Friends- believe me, I understand how things can change suddenly, and really appreciate the people around me.

I'm a big music fan so I would say that I could never do without my I-Pod and the external hard drive on which I keep a huge collection.

I'm also a bookworm, who'd go mad if he didn't have at least one decent book to read.

For my sixth choice, I think I'm going to go for my laptop.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Politics- especially how to engage young people in a positive way;
Modern life generally- especially how rubbish some aspects of it are;
A lot of random stuff!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
relaxing, whether that be at home, or out with friends.
You should message me if
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you like what you see :)